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Has anyone been to a sex party? Killing kittens? Serious question

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Anonimousy · 08/02/2015 12:22

I'm a very regular poster but I have name changed for this as I have relatives on MN. I know that sex parties are an horrible concept for some people - fair enough but we are all different so please don't judge.

I have a very high sex drive but don't have time for a relationship right now. I have not found it very easy to find a man who wants something casual who is not either clingy or abusive. I have heard that sex parties, if you choose the right one can be very safe places to explore what you want to do without fear of getting into the wrong thing with the wrong person.

Most specifically I was wondering if anyone has been to a Killing Kittens party? I like the idea of going to an event where everyone has to dress up nicely.

Perhaps solid gold will be able to help? Any advice?

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VixxFace · 08/02/2015 12:29

Killing kittens? Is that an euphemism for something.

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Sparklingbrook · 08/02/2015 12:31

You google then let me know Vixx.

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FarelyKnuts · 08/02/2015 12:32

Not sure I'd like to go to a sex party where I had to kill kittens. Sounds gruesome

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gatewalker · 08/02/2015 12:32

Yes, I have -- but with a partner, and not a KK party. I know one of the people who run it, though, and their credentials and integrity are impeccable.

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Anonimousy · 08/02/2015 12:34

Gatewalker - how was it if you don't mind my asking?

Apparently they call it killing kittens because there is a myth that every time someone masturbates god kills a kitten ??

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Notrevealingmyidentity · 08/02/2015 12:36

I've heard of them. Watching with interest. Not sure I'd have the courage to go alone though.

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gatewalker · 08/02/2015 12:37

The part I went to wasn't run by KK, Anonimousy, so I can only vouch for the management, but I'm not able to describe what happens at one.

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gatewalker · 08/02/2015 12:38

*party

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Anonimousy · 08/02/2015 12:42

I know what happens and the set up etc but I was wondering whether you felt it was worth it? Or not? I have no shortage of male friends who would go with me haha.

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usualsuspect33333333333 · 08/02/2015 12:46

Killing kittens Sad

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Sparklingbrook · 08/02/2015 12:49

Sad usual

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VixxFace · 08/02/2015 12:50

Sparkling you do it and tell me! I am squeamish.

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Anonimousy · 08/02/2015 12:58

I've just explained it above vice

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Sparklingbrook · 08/02/2015 13:02

Right so no actual killing of kittens. Just Masturbation, at a party. Got it.

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Anonimousy · 08/02/2015 13:03

Sorry, I did types Vixx - bloody iPad

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LaVieBoheme · 08/02/2015 13:07

I remembered reading an article about these a while back so looked it back up for you. www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/sep/28/members-only-sex-club-killing-kittens-emma-sayle

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gatewalker · 08/02/2015 13:07

If you're curious, I'd go. There is absolutely no obligation to join in on anything -- boundaries and consent are non-negotiables at parties like these.

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DontKillMyVibe · 08/02/2015 13:07

There was a documentary on ch4 recently about sex parties. Maybe have a look on catch up too see if it's still available to watch

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DropYourSword · 08/02/2015 13:07

The 'killing kittens' meme

Didn't think of this initially. Am now silently judging myself for opening this thread when I thought it might have been something to do with actually killing kittens!

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Anonimousy · 08/02/2015 14:04

Gosh if they actually harmed animals I would go nowhere near it! Thanks I did see the C4 documentary. I don't know anyone who has been. I know that for KK parties you have to be good looking and have a prestigious job. I fulfil the first criteria but not the second! I'm happy to hear about any other parties also.

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gatewalker · 08/02/2015 15:59

The other parties that I know of are strictly BDSM, Anonimousy. If you're interested, PM me.

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Anonimousy · 08/02/2015 18:14

Thanks Gatewalker I have done

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Anonimousy · 10/02/2015 17:31

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Loveslife01 · 31/10/2016 00:31

Hi
Did you ever go to a killing kittens party in the end and if so how did you find it ?

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legotits · 31/10/2016 00:34

I imagine they will be knackered.

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