Where have all the fit and intersting men gone part 10 (part 10...already?!)

[Janos]

Yay, I get to start this one!

Anyways hey to Dee and mousie, the more the merrier I say

[ridingjoker]

oooh lou your wkd sounded lovely all in. definately think darkhorse is sounding more and more of a keeper.

[lou33]

he is doing ok so far isnt he?!

its been about a month so far tho it feels longer but not in a bad way, in a comfortable way

but then again i did know him as a friend beforehand i guess

he even packs my shopping away!

[notevenamousie]

rj - you are right about being sad. It was very intense too quickly - as is always my way - and I am feeling the lack of it, I think. It was fun though, I think I introduced him to a thing or two!

[ridingjoker]

ah but thats how it should be mousie. steam in 150 miles an hr like a whirlwind.
teach them a few tricks and bugger off out of it, just at same speed with as big a smile on your face as you go as you arrived with

[Remotew]

I've always steamed in too quickly but then fall out of love just as quickly.

Will take things much slower in future as I'm just not that bothered.

Janos think you've found the perfect name for POF man. Mr Sleaze chances of meeting him getting slimmer by the day.

Hi Mouse and Dee.

Part 10 that's 10,000 posts. Ever wondered if we are hacking others off? [lol]

[Remotew]

Flipping heck my maths is bad for someone who works in accounting. 9,000 posts

[lou33]

i was on a website like fb just now, and in the ads on the side there was a new dating site i hadnt heard of called shop4guys

anyone tried that?

[ridingjoker]

oh eve wheres the fun in caution?? if you naturally want to go 150 mph, then do it. if he's right for you he'll keep up. your give it all attitude to life will be what draws the right person to you. cause lets face it. if they interesting, fit and available they should't have any problems keeping up with your brain or body at that speed.

(and still know when to fuck off when your in a mood and need space )

[Janos]

Yeah it's disappointing when you start chatting to someone, they seem nice, and then turn out..well..rotten.

[ninah]

evening all
missed the end of part 9, will have to catch up on news from the weekend although seems like you had a good one lou!

[BloodyBen10]

Blimey, you're on the tenth thread for this! Is it too late to join?

Saw an advert for www.eharmony.co.uk t'other day. Anyone know if it's any good? And what about www.ivorytowers.co.uk? OK, so it sounds a bit pretentious, but wondered if sub-literacy (Janos's fab term from another thread) rates might be lower on there?

[ninah]

hello bb10 saw your other thread. Met bf on match, and so far so good ... don't know the others I'm afraid.
well lou are you going to call him nm then?
and rj, well what can I say, sounds like you're having a lovely time minus the usual ex factor
itm what did you decide about samename? probation?
hi janos sorry to hear about the sleaze element
asbm did you check out the Knight?

[Remotew]

BB10 I'm in the sticks so cannot venture of the beaten track of POF or DD for a pay site. I'm sure if you are in an built up area there is a lot more choice.

lol RJ, 150 miles per hour it is then.

Mr Sleaze is still at it. Bit early to be picking faults with his terms of endearment (sp) but want to tell him I don't answer to sexy. Will just ignore again until he gets the message.

Wish I hadn't given my number now.

[Janos]

I don't know the others, BB10 - I'm up in Scotland and POF seems to see a lot of action up there.

The stingy side of says to stick with this one for a bit! I've done ok out of it so far tbh.

ninah - it's not me having to deal with Mr Sleaze, it's eve! Although I have come across a few Mr Sleaze's in my time - just not on this occasion.

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

evening!
jesus pt 10 already!
hi mousie how you doing?
hello to dee and yay!to all the rest of us!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

hi bb10 too
think it best you hop on here

[lou33]

no he isnt nm yet

eharmony says they dont have anyone for you if you say you are separated

they only want people who are not still legally married

[lou33]

and hi bb10

[DeeLerious]

Hey again everyone!

So Lou Dark Horse sounds great. could you keep him as your regular and have the phwoar one - batman? for a bit of fun?
That's probably not fair on either of them but I have a warped view at the moment!
& Eve, I bet Mr Sleaze thinks you love being called sexy. Bless!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

hi lou hope you're good will catch you later!

[lou33]

earlyish night for me asbm, i am looking forward to my bed on my own!

he does seem to be growing on me

i dont think i can juggle the 2, it's not something i can square in my head , so will probably not see batman again, or try v hard not to, and try to get it back to the track it was on before with him

darkhorse is well lets just say, he is happy enough with what i want from him in private, and can do the job more than adequately, so it isnt like i am lacking in that respect either

[Janos]

Hmmm..I smell a rat in the contstruction man camp so I think I'm going to knock this one on the head. He's starting to piss me off.

Anyway, I need to see what else is out there.

One down etc.

[lou33]

oh and as if by magic, just when i think i may e deciding to stick with darkhorse, batman pops back up online

and so does another young man i had a fling with at xmas, who has recently split with a gf and is local

thought v definitely not bf material

[notevenamousie]

lou - they must be like buses! - it sounds like darkhorse is working out well for you in lots of ways
eve- if you ignore him, maybe he will go away? I think first impressions are worth it, and yours are def not good for this guy!
I am trying to get sorted to move, change jobs, change dd's nursery and also split up with bf - think some things need to just be put on the back burner for a while.

[Janos]

Mousie, I think first impressions definitely count for a lot. And tbh if someone is pissing you off before you've even met them that's not a good sign, is it?

Sounds you do have lot on...Hope you're getting some time to yourself!