This is the first time I have ever posted on a site so here goes.....
Basically I am in a dilemma of what to do. I am married with 4 kids and we live in the south of England. I am Scottish but have not lived there for about 18 yrs. We have bumped around the world before settling in the south of England due to my husbands work.
I am an only child and my parents (who live in Scotland) are unable to go anywhere now due to ill health. It was fine when they were healthy as they would visit when they could but over the last few years I have been called to go home on a few occasions to help sort matters out. The journey from where I am to their house is roughly 9-11 hours in total whether I fly or drive. My husband commutes just over a hundred miles a day to get to his work, we have no family here as OH family is in the NW England . I work three nights a week so life can be tricky when things go wrong at home (Scotland).
I am trying not to go on too much and get to the point :) I have made my feelings clear that I would like to move closer to my parents. I would not move to their town as there is nothing and I mean nothing there. The next option is Alloway, Ayr area. We went to have a look round in May and also visited Belmont Academy. The school seemed ok if not a bit more laid back than the school my DD's go to. Drove past some houses that were for sale etc then headed to town. We only got as far as the newish shopping area where Debenhams etc is. That is the point my OH seemed to go off the idea of living in Scotland. I have to say that I was myself a little disheartened in Ayr myself :(
So...... I feel we are back to square on in what to do. My husband does not really want to move to Scotland as he is VERY English if you know what I mean and I want to move closer to my parents.
We have a nice house where we are but a huge mortgage, cost of living is high and nothing is ever free, not even the parking for 10 mins!! I have some nice friends but it is a little stuffy for my liking down here and not so friendly.
Has anyone else been in this situation ?? have I got Ayr wrong ?? as it does not seem to be like it used to. Perhaps Prestwick or Troon would be a better option ???
Schooling is important and I woud have one DD who would of done GCSE and then moving on to Highers and my OH would still need to commute up and down to London Or do I stay where I am and feel guilty as hell for not spending more time with my parents while I can???
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AB605 · 20/06/2016 13:04
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