Hello,
My dad and stepmum are looking to foster. I haven't had much contact with him since they separated (when I was 1 - now 26) and have had zero contact for 10 years. My brother lives with him and I have regular contact with my brother
Recently my mum and I were contacted by social services to provide references for him as a potential foster carer. Apparently they have to speak to ex-partners by law and are inclined to speak to all children.
Both of us told the SW on the phone we wanted nothing to do with this, but since finding out their marriage ended on bad terms (domestic violence) and hearing of my estranged relationship with him which is also on bad terms - she now wants to speak to us in person.
I can't find any legislation to confirm what/how much we need to tell them - if anything. Both are worried about any potential repercussions if he is rejected as a carer. He'll know it was one of us who hindered the process. Any insight into this would be really helpful.
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MH3006 · 10/08/2018 11:28
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