Hi,
Im new on here. Im 21 weeks+ and this is my first baby.
I met with my consultant today for the first time. I am consultant led because of fibroids and previous overactive bladder problems for which I was under the gynaecologist.
I explained that I was terrified of giving birth and wished to be considered for C section.
I am not too posh to push, just have an absolute deep rooted fear, it makes me physically sick, cant sleep due to anxiety etc. Having nightmares. I also have personal reasons I wont go into going back to my teens.
I felt totally indimidated there were 4 people in the room in total all staring at me, judging me.
The consultant basically didnt listen to me, and asked if a tour of the labour ward would help!!
Being a health professional myself I explained that I knew exactly what was involved. I have observed both births and c sections as part of my nurse training.
He said they dont perform sections for women without a medical reason.
I would have thought that fibroids, bladder weakness and absolute fear would be reasons.
Im not a particularly confident person, and make it difficult to have my voice heard sometimes. I just felt I was being dismissed as a silly woman who needed to go home .
I feel helpless, so upset and alone.
Can anyone offer any advice, or has been through a similar situation.
Thanks
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Pegasus1234 · 31/05/2012 19:24
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