DD is 13, just started at a middle school. The last couple of months she's been coming home unhappy. We live in a village and she's been friends with the girls who also live here for years, but various things have been happening at school e.g. DD turns and bumps into one of them by accident, other girl says 'Why don't you just go away'. Another girl started a rumour today that DD has been crying in class. When confronted with it, she just said 'well yeah, I don't know why I said that'. But everyone had already been mocking DD for crying. DD has had her ruler snapped today. Various combinations of these girls keep telling her to 'go away' whenever she approaches at playtime or waiting for the bus, so she moves on to another group and gets a similar response. On their own, these incidents don't seem serious, but put them together on a daily basis and it's wearing her down.
She is adamant we don't raise this with the school. DH says what can the school do anyway. He wants to speak to the main culprits parents as we know them all, but I'm not so sure. He says he wouldn't be accusatory, just explain that DD is having a hard time at the moment at school and we would appreciate it if the girls could all try and get along and cut her some slack.
I would rather speak to someone at school as I fear things will only get worse. I am normally keen on letting these things sort themselves out, but just now it seems to be a contagion that is spreading - other girls in the year now don't appear to want to associate with DD, such is the way with this sort of bullying.
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Thenewwiderworldthird · 25/01/2017 21:36
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