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i think my baby is dead

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Titania Mon 06-Jun-05 13:08:07

i started bleeding with lots of clots and had pain this morning. Am just waiting for doctor to ring me back. I have just passed something that looks like it could have been 'it' (sorry if TMI) Have had 3 miscarriages before and it feels like deja vu again. DH is miles away and can't get home.

Am totally gutted.

Toothache Mon 06-Jun-05 13:10:28

Titania -

TrophyWife Mon 06-Jun-05 13:11:13

am so sorry for you,

noddyholder Mon 06-Jun-05 13:11:57

so sorry

Hausfrau Mon 06-Jun-05 13:12:37

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Gobbledigook Mon 06-Jun-05 13:12:41

RTKangaMummy Mon 06-Jun-05 13:13:37

cadbury Mon 06-Jun-05 13:14:00

Oh T!
Thinking of you

LGJ Mon 06-Jun-05 13:14:11


I don't know what to say.

beansmum Mon 06-Jun-05 13:14:47

oh no

Windermere Mon 06-Jun-05 13:14:49

Take care

Titania Mon 06-Jun-05 13:32:21

doc says that it sounds like baby has died........that theres nothing they can do anyway.......and because ive had 3 miscarriages before i am probably the best judge....but it sounds like i have passed 'it' take paracetamol and rest..............sigh....

sweetmonkey Mon 06-Jun-05 13:34:19

how far along were you ?i didnt realise you were pg. so sorry for yr loss. have you told yr partner

Thomcat Mon 06-Jun-05 13:34:39

Oh God, babes, I don't know what to say to you. i'm so, so, sorry.
How far along were you, is there no chance of a scan or some real medical support of some kind other than some decrepid old GP?

huggybear Mon 06-Jun-05 13:42:51


Nemo1977 Mon 06-Jun-05 13:44:32

Titania i can completely empathise having had 3mcs myself...take care of yourself and take it easy

Titania Mon 06-Jun-05 13:50:41

i dont know how far i was.........

i know a lot of you probably think it was for the best, but i wanted this baby.....i wanted to be able to hold it in my arms, not sitting on the toilet crying for it as it disappears from me...

it had really given me something so focus on. I was feeling so positive about it....

lunavix Mon 06-Jun-05 13:53:45

So sorry hun xx

LGJ Mon 06-Jun-05 13:56:42


Focus on yourself, and grieve for your baby, do not worry what other people think.


MarsLady Mon 06-Jun-05 13:57:53

I'm sorry

sweetmonkey Mon 06-Jun-05 13:57:58

Have you told yr dp? can't he get bac kto be with you? no one thinks bad things towards you!!!

jessicasmummy Mon 06-Jun-05 13:59:06


Thinking of you hun. Really sorry.

alison222 Mon 06-Jun-05 14:00:18

So sorry for you.

Titania Mon 06-Jun-05 14:01:27

have told DH....he is an hour and a half away. his boss wont bring him home and we have no money for him to get home on his own.....

Lonelymum Mon 06-Jun-05 14:30:27

Oh goodness Titania, I had no idea you were pregnant even! I am so sorry. I guess you know the symptoms better than anyone if you have been through this before, but can you get it checked out first? I thought I lost No 4 but it turned out I was losing an undeveloped twin I never knew I was carrying instead. Don't want to raise your hopes, but I hope you get it checked out.

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