Do you think the following is acceptable?
Parent has some expensive debt on credit cards. The interest free period is expiring and the parent is not able to get a loan or balance transfer to a lower rate.
Child has an instant access savings account with some money in.
Is it ok for the parent to borrow funds from the child to repay the expensive debt, as long as they ensure that the savings are repaid (with interest) before the child would have used the account?
So as not to drip feed:
- money in the savings account was paid in by the same parent (not friends & family)
- money would be repaid along with the compound interest that it would have accrued in savings
- repaying to the child’s savings would take approx 3 - 4 years, compared to it taking 20 years plus to repay on the credit cards with high interest
- child is still young so not due to receive the savings for a long time
- the child has not been asked for their opinion because they are too young (and too generous) to make an informed decision
- parent has explored and exhausted all other options to reduce the cost of borrowing
- if paid off, the credit accounts will be shut down so that it is not possible to accrue large debt again
What do you think?
YABU - borrowing the money is the same as stealing, the parent shouldn’t touch the child’s savings and should repay their debt over the longer period of time at the high interest rate.
YANBU - the money will be repaid to the child’s savings, and the child will benefit from having a parent that is not stuck in long term expensive debt