I visited my mum in hospital today, she is being discharged into a nursing home tomorrow.
She wants to go home, she thinks she is going home.
I feel like i have betrayed her.
She can't go home, i can't cope with her. If she goes home she will likely die.
She will however be MISERABLE in a nursing home that i havent even set foot in. It has terrible reviews but we have been searching for nearly two months and nowhere else would take her. She is a very difficult person and there are mental health issues alongside early dementia.
She was begging me, it has ripped my heart out but i still walked away - hate myself so much right now
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I couldn't hate myself anymore just now if i tried
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TheoriginalLEM · 22/10/2020 17:47
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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You are NOT being unreasonable
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