For my parents and certainly my grandparents’ generation, bringing up children must have been so much easier.
Mortgages were a hell of a lot cheaper for starters, but now the average home costs something like ten times the average salary. As a result, in most cases both parents have to go out to work whether they want to or not, and pay extortionate childcare costs to keep a roof over their heads. In the “old days” mothers were far more likely to be able to take time off work and the family could pay the mortgage on one salary.
In addition, my grandparents’ generation were much more likely to have family living nearby and a more close-knit community to help raise the child.
Judging from what I read on Mumsnet, there’s also a lot of competitive parenting these days, and a lot of parents feel they have to put their child at the centre of their universe, which causes stress. Children from my grandparents’ era were left to their own devices and would play out for hours.
There was no technology then so no angst about children accessing the internet and the reams of inappropriate content that is readily available at the click of a button.
Uni was free so parents didn’t have to save up to send those kids who did go, and jobs were far more readily available when children left school.
Also, the cartoons were better
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wondering7777 · 19/09/2019 22:50
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