Hello everyone. I'll try to keep this short.
I live in a foreign country (my DH's homeland). We live in a big house - he has a flat downstairs (likes his own space) I have a flat on the next floor,his mum has a flat next to mine and his sister has a flat on the next floor.
We have a 6 month old baby and a 7 year old DS.
His sister is a heroin addict who is in and out of rehab, currently back here,still using. Her DS 5 years old and DD 12 years old are currently visiting for the holidays. They both live with their (different) fathers, a few hours drive away.
My DH idolises his DM and DS. They do EVERYTHING together - meals,shopping, DIY projects, watching Netflix etc. I am always with the kids - they live in my flat with me.
About a week ago,I had a catastrophic falling out with his DS,as she is getting Class A drugs delivered to the house and leaves dirty needles in weird places,where the children could potentially find them.
I also had enough of her awful,volatile, angry,entitled behaviour and just couldn't stand being around her anymore.
My DH worships the ground his DM and DS walk on. They are his 'actual' family. No one wants me here. I hate all of them.
My DH treats me awfully. All he does is criticise me or make fun of me. Telling me I can't cook, don't dress well...he is only nice to me when he wants sex,which I just never want. I exclusively breastfeed my baby and co-sleep and am exhausted from that.
I feel trapped and controlled and also,I am so so lonely. I don't have any friends here. I can speak the language OK,but definitely not well enough to form any kind of friendship.
I just feel so fed up and worn down and tired.
AIBU?
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AIBU?
To leave my DH and his family?
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NorahBlanche · 20/04/2019 14:50
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