So basically I have 2 little ones, age 2 and nearly 5.
They have 2 cousins who are 5 and nearly 8.
We’ve always invited cousins to our children’s birthday parties and our children have always been invited to their birthday parties.
This is until last year when eldest cousin had a cupcake decorating party for her 7th birthday and we just didn’t get an invite. Apparently she only invited 4 school friends and her 5 year old sister, fine. I’m assuming that mine were 2 young or numbers were limited, not a problem.
So for my daughters 5th birthday I’ve found a soft play that you can hire privately for a 2 hour session. I wanted to invite around 20 kids. The only problem is that it’s for under 7s only and cousin will be 8.
Husband is saying I should lie and get her in for a 6 year old, I’m saying that circumstances change, we weren’t invited to her party last year due to ages and a limit on numbers, so they should understand that I am only inviting one cousin and not the other (they are sisters)
They aren’t going to be invited to each other’s parties forever as they are different ages and often numbers are very limited.
Am I being a cow?
I think it makes it worse that I’m inviting one not the other.
It’s going to cause world war 3, but I genuinely think it’s just one of those things that change as kids get older.
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ifiwerearichman · 21/01/2019 20:17
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