I've probably offended the powers that be with the title, but I'm in a (very) dark place and it's all I have right now.
My mother was just diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. And by "just" I mean that I learned about the diagnosis about four hours ago.
After some frantic googling, I'm more aware than ever that I know nothing about this disease. I know nothing about treatment, I know nothing about when it makes sense to skip treatment and make the (oh God) last months easier. I. Know. Nothing.
I don't even have the right questions to ask of her doctors.
And, of course, I'm devastated, which means that, well: I'm even more gormless and useless and unhelpful.
But then I go back to google and what I read is basically that my mother will be gone within the year. That this is, no matter what we do, my mother's last Christmas.
God. The writing of that is unspeakably, well: unspeakable.
So: mumsnet: am I unreasonable in feeling that this is just a death sentence for my mother? Does anyone know anything about this appalling diagnosis that they're willing to share?
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cheeriosatdawn · 05/12/2017 21:44
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