My history is awful one - abusive ex in so many ways, but one way is he's harmed my work opportunities. So, I'm now living in overdraft and it's difficult for me to go back into credit.
I spoke of my difficulties with friend, who mentioned it to her parents.
They have kindly put £500 through my letter box this morning, saying they know of my difficulties, and whilst what they've given won't solve my problems, it may help a little.
Wow! That's an understatement. It is a lifeline. Much needed.
But here's my dilemma.
Do I keep it? I feel embarrassed, sad, and awkward bec of my situation that I can't provide adequately for my and dc, (even though situation imposed upon us by abusive ex) but at the same time I am so grateful that I know such kind people.
I give to charity as often as I can (in the last few days, buying Big Issue, paying for one woman's bus fare, giving £1 each to two people who begged on the street for money) and I have a monthly standing order to Unicef, set up when I was in a position to be able to give without 'noticing' it in my bank balance.
But taking charity just makes me feel awkward.
WIBU to say 'thank you but I can't take it?'
Or should I swallow my pride and take this handout?
Constructive, discursive answers only please.
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thejanuarys · 23/10/2017 11:34
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