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To have been really offended by dss comments about me.

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Dumptrump17 Sun 19-Mar-17 17:31:35

Dss said to a boy at school how fat I called me obese. This boy is a mutual friend of my dd who told me. Aibu to feel really hurt by this, I had a baby a year and half ago and have struggled to bounce back. Feeing a bit insecure today.

JuicyGem5 Sun 19-Mar-17 17:39:00

flowersflowers stay strong I'm sure your Beautiful. This is a case of things best not told to others.

Littleballerina Sun 19-Mar-17 17:40:03

How old is dss?

Italiangreyhound Sun 19-Mar-17 17:48:03

Dss (dear step son?) Please tell him how rude and unpleasant this is. Word got back to you and you are offering offended.

Obese is usually used in medical terms and presume he is not a doctor! If he speaks about others like this he could end up in trouble!

Italiangreyhound Sun 19-Mar-17 17:48:50

And you are offended.

Lilaclily Sun 19-Mar-17 17:49:11

Also tell dd not to shit stir !

DixieNormas Sun 19-Mar-17 17:51:26

Why should the dd have said nothing, she was probably upset hearing people talking about her mum like that!

TheNaze73 Sun 19-Mar-17 17:51:38

Seems like a weird thing to come up in conversation.

YANBU, if it offended you as you can't argue a feeling. Is your offence that he called you it or that you're frustrated you can't shift the baby weight?

BackforGood Sun 19-Mar-17 17:53:58

How old is dss?
Seems a weird thing to be talking to a mate of his about hmm
Why would your dd tell you that ? How nasty of her.

JuicyGem5 Sun 19-Mar-17 17:55:56

He is 13 my dd is 14 but they are the same year. He was having a rant about me to his friend but didn't realise his friend also is friends with my dd so he told her and she told me.

JuicyGem5 Sun 19-Mar-17 17:56:24

Sorry cross posted!

BoneyBackJefferson Sun 19-Mar-17 17:56:55

Are you really sure that he said it?

It is unpleasant etc.

but your DD heard it from her friend etc.

Dumptrump17 Sun 19-Mar-17 18:00:04

Yes I'm sure he said that and dd was really upset and told me. I told her not to say anything. He is 17 years old.

ThreeLeggedHaggis Sun 19-Mar-17 18:00:27

I would ask your partner to talk to him about it.

And I would talk to my daughter, who really shouldn't have told you.

user1469914265 Sun 19-Mar-17 18:18:04

Nice sock fail there...

SlothMama Sun 19-Mar-17 18:18:41

He's old enough to know how hurtful his comments were, tell him that it's unacceptable!
Or ask your partner to speak to him

armpitz Sun 19-Mar-17 18:20:04

It's really unpleasant but I wouldn't get too worked up over it.

My weight fluctuates. I've had kids call me fat before and I rarely react. Just grin and say 'yeah, I know!' Shuts em up grin

stitchglitched Sun 19-Mar-17 18:20:24

JuicyGem are you the OP? Your DSS is 16 on your other thread.

ClopySow Sun 19-Mar-17 18:20:52

Is he 17 or 13?

JuicyGem5 Sun 19-Mar-17 18:23:03

No no I googled a thread about a similar thing and copied and pasted it by mistake. It was an error no I'm not op honestly I know it looks weird .

BoneyBackJefferson Sun 19-Mar-17 18:23:10

So what do you want the outcome to be?

and being devil's advocate

what are you going to do/say etc if/when he denies saying it?

TheSnowFairy Sun 19-Mar-17 18:23:21

Dumptrump / Juicy posting answers on your own thread hmm

gamerchick Sun 19-Mar-17 18:23:48

Why did you sock puppet? Not many would have disagreed with you confused

Kimlek Sun 19-Mar-17 18:53:34

What does sock puppet mean pls gamerchick

KateSMumsnet (MNHQ) Sun 19-Mar-17 18:54:01

Hullo everyone,

Thank you to those who reported this thread to us - we've had a wee look and it does seem like there's something amiss with the OP, so we're going to take the thread down.

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