DH always suggests taking his DM on holiday as he is very close to her. I always say no, thank you.
We haven't had any time off work since Xmas and our last holiday was August last year. We both work FT.
Husband is normally away mon-fri and some weekends with work. I freelance and taking time off work is difficult (for me) as I know the amount of money I lose from not working.
This week husband is off and I am off tue-fri. We have a just turned 2year old DD who goes to nursery full time.
We are renting a cottage 2hrs away from us and about 2 hrs away from DH mother.
I am looking forward to our time away as a family as special time together is rare & I worry about the time I am missing with my DD.
DH has just suggested we invite his mother along wed-thur, 2 days, "just" 1 night. WTF
I am really pissed off and got a bit angry at him.
He says it's the only time in the next month or so we'll be able to see her and we haven't seen her since January so makes sense (in January she stayed for 7days having only just returned from 5days at hers after Xmas). I said whilst she is absolutely lovely it totally changes the dynamics of the holiday and I want to spend time with my DD not have someone else competing for time with her.
As I said no he is pissed off with me and not speaking.
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Cosette123 · 19/03/2017 10:21
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