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The 'bullying' issue comes up again and again on AIBU.
In my opinion what happens is that there is so much traffic on here and if your OP pushes lots of buttons (usually in a negative way ie people strongly disagree with you) you will get a lot of responses very quickly.
Therefore you will get the same comments from many people who are cross posting with each other so it feels like people berating you as one gang.
Also, despite cries of 'RTFT', people don't always because they don't have time, so they might be repeating what others said.
I really don't think it's 'bullying', though of course sometimes people go too far and are unpleasant.
To those who say people turn into aggressive arseholes on AIBU - no it's pretty obvious that on an anon internet forum people can just be more direct and speak the thoughts they have in real life!
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Alifelivedforwards · 19/01/2014 08:15
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