I am on maternity leave with 12 week old DD.
A friend from work is getting married soon. A woman we both work with has sent an invitation via Facebook for a celebratory lunch at a restaurant this weekend, mainly for people we work with.
DH said he will look after DD while I'm out, and I was looking forward to catching up with my workmates without a baby in tow.
I posted on the wall saying it sounded lovely and I will come.
Another woman then posted on the wall saying "Oooh Huia, you should bring BabyHuia!"
The woman organising the lunch sent me a private message almost immediately after the other woman's post, saying "I don't mean to sound rude but I think most people would really rather that you don't bring your baby. After all, this is supposed to be [bride's] day, not yours."
AIBU to be a little bit hurt by her message? I quite possible am - I do have PND and at the moment I'm finding it very hard to judge whether my feelings are reasonable.
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Huia · 14/11/2012 09:49
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