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Unemployed and panicking - what do I do?

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SunDragon · 23/04/2026 16:16

I was made redundant around a year ago. I started applying for other jobs the day I was made redundant and for the past year I’ve spent every day writing job applications. No holiday, no break, just job applications.

I’ve not managed to get any work since. For context, I was at a fairly senior level, think for example, Head of Marketing (not that, but that sort of level). Jobs at my level are not overly common and often go to someone in the team ready for promotion, so it’s hard to get as an external candidate. I looked into senior-level consulting in the relevant field but didn’t get any interest. Jobs at a more junior level are turning me down for being over-experienced and likely to move on quickly to something else (real feedback received multiple times), even though I make it clear I’m willing to commit.

I’ve also tried to get “just any job” that everyone suggests would be easy. Cleaning, supermarket, etc. I’m not managing to get anything at all! No one will give me any work.

I’m running out of money and I’m in a state of panic about what to do. I applied for benefits, I get some money each month but it doesn’t cover all my outgoings so I’ve used up all of my savings and I’m starting to build debt.

Panic panic panic! What do I do? How can I get some work - any work at all? I’m desperate to earn some money. Any suggestions really welcome.

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Geminispark · Yesterday 07:35

Hangerbout · Yesterday 06:29

The prison service. It’s hard work and good pay. They need mature people who can say ‘no’ to a prisoner.

This is a good idea

Geminispark · Yesterday 07:38

I’ve seen this mentioned before, you create a profile and if researchers are interested they pay you to undertake surveys etc www.prolific.com/participants

AgnesX · Yesterday 07:38

If you're in London have you looked agency work? It might not be at the level you want but would keep the wolf from the door.

MrsMickey · Yesterday 07:39

What agencies are you with? You mention one that does care roles, which feels far from what you do. I’m sure you have, but reach out to agencies that do interim and permanent recruitment in the public sector if you’ve got a civil service background. You don’t have to be with just one, I was on the list of about 4 or 5.

Misnofitness · Yesterday 07:40

Amiacoolorwarmcolour · Yesterday 07:28

School jobs are always sort after, I wouldn’t bother with those.

Not necessarily- I work in a private school and we are constantly having gaps whilst looking for good people. These jobs such as admissions, finance and marketing are year round so less attractive to parents

Misnofitness · Yesterday 07:41

Also for temp work - exam season is nearly upon us so look out for some invigilation jobs

Dolphinnoises · Yesterday 07:43

Here’s a thought - it’s exam season. Could you put yourself about as a GCSE revision coach for working parents? Your age will count in your favour. You can offer to sit with students who would otherwise be home alone, test them, look through their revision timetables, hold them accountable etc. I know from many double working families that this time is very stressful for them. The kids are on study leave but they can’t be watching them - they’re working. You could put something through the doors in your local street, advertise on Facebook etc?

GrandmasCat · Yesterday 07:45

Op, call the National Career Service to make an appointment with one of their advisors. They can identify where you are going wrong with your applications, make suggestions and put together an action plan for you. They are also free, you get one hour appointment but you can contact them by email for support, CV checks, etc for a year free of charge.

As with everything, there are some advisors that are excellent and prepare you well and others who are not particularly arsed to make the best of the session but, if you have the free time, there is nothing to lose.

monday1983 · Yesterday 07:47

DreamTheMoors · Yesterday 05:30

Nanny?

Could you put in somewhere for babysitting?
Get letters of recommendation from your friends?
Or maybe work as a receptionist in one of a hundred different places like real estate or doctors offices or other public-facing places?

Here in the US they used to have employment agencies - where they help you find a job and then you pay them a percentage of your salary for two or three months. Do they have those in London?
I had to resort to that once - it was horrible and humiliating, but I got a really crummy, low-paying job out of it.
Newspapers hire all the time like for fact checkers and proof readers. I’d love to do that.
Honestly you’d think London would be the one place where jobs would just fall into your lap.
Oh - this is humiliating, but stock person in a big box store? Do you have big box stores in England?
I hope you find something.
I’m sending you good luck and love ❤️

Honestly even professional nannies are struggling to find jobs in London atm ,maybe if you want a few hours after school for cash in hand, but with no experience the OP would be struggling.

Fooledaroundandfellinlove · Yesterday 07:47

I think you need to try a bit harder with the care work. There are hundreds of care worker positions and agencies offer training. It’s high turnover. It can be physically hard and the pay isn’t great but it can be rewarding and you get a meal whilst on shift. You could do some volunteering in a care home to get experience.

Off the top of my head try; Eleanor Care, Care Outlook, Goldsmiths Care, Westminster Homecare, Supreme Care. Plus the hundreds of residential care homes in London.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · Yesterday 07:56

Could you temporary rent out a room? Not sure if this would impact your benefits, somebody who knows might advise.

mum2jakie · Yesterday 07:58

ByQuaintAzureWasp · Yesterday 07:56

Could you temporary rent out a room? Not sure if this would impact your benefits, somebody who knows might advise.

OP has confirmed she only has a one bed flat!

ByQuaintAzureWasp · Yesterday 07:58

Misnofitness · Yesterday 07:41

Also for temp work - exam season is nearly upon us so look out for some invigilation jobs

Too late, have to go through safeguarding checks, including DBS.

Misnofitness · Yesterday 08:02

ByQuaintAzureWasp · Yesterday 07:58

Too late, have to go through safeguarding checks, including DBS.

Again - not necessarily. My school has literally just hired some due to need for students in their own room and dbs are taking about a week. There are still adverts up for invigilators in my local area

WhereDoIGoFromHere2026 · Yesterday 08:02

@SunDragon @LappingLouisa

i may be able to help. I’ve sent you both a message. Good luck with everything!

Themumsonthebus · Yesterday 08:04

FiveOClockSomewhere · 23/04/2026 17:49

I always thought polling staff were volunteers

No it's paid work, you get paid for the (long) day plus the training.

Radarqueen · Yesterday 08:08

Some of the things being suggested here - nanny, TEFL teacher - are not super friendly to older people. TEFL can be openly discriminatory about age in some countries.

2Ex2 · Yesterday 08:09

SunDragon · 23/04/2026 17:21

It’s actually civil service that I was made redundant from. In theory I should be an ideal candidate for a civil service vacancy, but this is what I mentioned originally - that I’m finding a lot of roles end up going to someone already internal, because there are so many existing civil servants looking for work. There’s been a lot of restructuring and downsizing across the civil service over the past year.

Warning note for any fellow civil servants who might see this post - if you are offered voluntary redundancy, don’t take it. Mine wasn’t voluntary as it happens, but I know some who were, who thought they’d take an payout and walk into another job, and who are now in the same position as me.

Firstly thank you - I’m public sector in similar ish role and have been debating taking voluntary but I think you’ve scared me out of it!

secondly - have you used AI to check your LinkedIn profile as a match for the types of role you’re looking for? Just the other day I copied my headline into the AI tool I use (NOT ChatGP!!) asking “if I’m looking for senior (insert description) jobs, what key words are missing from my headline / profile”.

i was slightly embarrassed by the things I had missed and the way it suggested repositioning my headline was great. And I’m someone who should know better but sometimes you can’t see the wood for the trees….

Radarqueen · Yesterday 08:09

@daisychain01 CS are absolutely getting rid of people.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 08:10

Sorry to hear this, not much more advice than below but it’s annoying 50 plus women can find it harder. And the job market is dire anyway.

NetZeroZealot · Yesterday 08:13

Housekeeping & admin support for elderly people. I’d love someone like you to help my DP. Pays about £25 per hour. Advertise on SM & The Lady.

WaldoPablo · Yesterday 08:16

2 of my friends (in their 40s) have got regular evening work in a University city as a kitchen assistants at the Uni (they do a 4 hour shift most weeknight evenings and also get a light meal included). Could you have a look at all the London Uni websites for similar type jobs?

Whelmed · Yesterday 08:18

To make some extra money while looking for a more regular job I'd suggest signing up to online stuff such as Prolific if you're not already doing it. Data annotation is another one. It's not as a good as a regular job but it's still extra money and if you have time to spare you can make a fair amount, I'm making about £400 per month on the side.

Radarqueen · Yesterday 08:19

UnaGatita · Yesterday 05:25

I’d head straight to a paid PhD. There are 4year programmes paid tax free at £17k a year. I did an MSc at 52 and will be paying student loans until I’m 82, the income threshold for repayment is so low. They definitely don’t get written off!

Right, she should head straight to a highly-competitive, specialised role, competing with people straight out of undergrad or masters, at a time of year when most deadlines have passed. Very practical.

strangerthongs · Yesterday 08:19

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