@Lostinmiddleage With respect, if you are not in the working world, you perhaps have a more limited experience of what people do and how much they earn. It’s not something I really talk about with other ‘mum’ friends.
Of our good friends, at 48, most of them have at least one partner in the couple making at least £200k, often women. Off the top of my head, friends that earn easily this (and many now into 7 figures) include a solicitor leading a team specialising in public inquiry work, a senior manager one of the Big 4 consultancies specialising in cybersecurity, an ophthalmologist, a patent attorney, a couple who own a commercial property business, a solicitor who got sick of legal aid work and set up a small corporate law firm, an actuary, friends who set up abd sold a green technology company (they earn much more than that off their investments now), a friend running a successful specialist vet practice.
And it’s worth saying, they are all pretty happy and motivated in their work. I don’t see much of the gruelling hours, no holidays and crippling stress people on here say is inevitable. They generally have lovely, balanced family lives, and work hard and play hard. And they all make a pretty useful contribution to society. In fact (sorry to be controversial) my least satisfied friends are those who work in the NHS or for Local Government who feel undervalued and with little agency in their work.