I was making a bit under 200K and recently put 200K as a specific target and Im set to achieve it at my next job I’m starting shortly. With all bonuses and shares it should be just over it (prob around 220k, depending on share prices).
Im an in-house lawyer in big tech.
Im a senior individual contributor so dont have a team.
have over 20 years experience.
trained outside the UK so don’t have the Russell Group / Oxbridge angle but I trained in top university in my country and worked in magic circle law firms (Big Law) in M&A (so several years working at all hours and literally sleeping under my desk sometimes).
currently my hours can be long but flexible, I can be catching up on work at 10 pm or being on a call with the US; but at least I can do school run/bedtime before. I don’t truly switch off at holidays but I don’t usually work on weekends anymore. WFH 2 days.
but there are people with 10-15 years experience in my type of role and higher than me, I had a bit of career twists in the middle, and had kids, and did go after senior roles with teams early enough and frankly didn’t know how to position myself better.
my advice is to go to a higher paid sector (people named several) and learn to play the corporate game to get promotions and pay rises. Key is visibility and alignment with the goals of the company/leadership rather than just hard work. Hard work is important though, it’s rare to be paid very well in 9-5 job that you can forget about it when you leave the office (kudos for those who managed it though, cheapeau)
btw OP, read blog or substack by Ethan Evans, former Amazon VP, he’s excellent in training people how to play the corporate game and maximise their earnings well.
Also Lean In by Cheryl Sandberg, of course she’s privileged but she has a point that women but not men are expected to take foot off the gas once they have kids and she encourages women not to. It’s okay to want more.