Amen. Blimey, reading some of these responses, I had to check what board it was posted on. I thought it must be an AIBU thread. How depressing to discover that, no, it isn’t.
This boils down to, as usual, a domestic vs economic work argument.
The issue is not whether women or men are better at or better suited to one or the other but, rather, that we respect economic work more than domestic work.
And the reason we all do that, to a greater or lesser extent, is because of capitalism and patriarchy.
Sex based division of labour is not particularly problematic in an inherent way. It’s only problematic when society massively values one over the other.
There is some push back in this thread that feminism should be about ‘equality’ between the sexes and that if women don’t take their opportunities to do as men do, that’s on them, and therefore their fault and no one else’s. I would definitely have had the same view thirty years ago. I would certainly never have thought any women should ever be a SAHM. But back then I also thought that women complaining about sexist attitudes in the work place did so because they couldn’t, and didn’t, give as good as they got, and that was also their fault. I’ve grown up since then and realise that, it is not only a form of chauvinism, but patriarchy 101.
Disrespecting traditional female roles simply because women do them is the problem. Maybe we should respect them more, and precisely for that reason. You see it all the time on MN, motherhood, being a SAHM and caring roles have all been undervalued for the longest time. Particularly, being a full time SAHM is undervalued and taken for granted.
Conversely we also see, if a male manages to do some basic parenting, plenty of women bow down to the Prince Among Men.
And, as traditionally female roles, even when caring is economic labour - for either children, the elderly or disabled people - they’re amongst the lowest paid jobs available.
So no, BCC aren’t paying women less than men for the same job. Of course they’re not, that would be illegal. But if that’s as far as you want to go in terms of understanding the wider issue at stake here, on a predominantly female forum, nothing will ever change.
And you’ll be complicit in that.