Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

A Pluralism of Engagement - A thought experiment on trans rights using the analogy of Trans Disablism

54 replies

KnottyAuty · 18/03/2026 22:31

Saw this on another thread and it is so good that I thought it deserved a place of its own:

https://www.womensrights.network/post/a-pluralism-of-engagement

A Pluralism of Engagement

by Charlotte Revely
(Published 5 days ago on the WRN website)

^I was recently in an on-line discussion with a few hundred largely progressive left environmental campaigners and activists from across the world. Some of the UK cohort were celebrating the recent Green party win in Gorton and Denton. I shared my concerns about the Green Party with regard to their stance on women’s rights and pointed them to this excellent analysis by Paul Knaggs. https://labourheartlands.com/the-green-partys-war-on-reality/^

After a bit of to and fro in the discussion, I was told that a feature of the trans debate is that both ends feel they can define womanhood on behalf of everyone, and impose that on everyone. What was required was a ‘pluralism of engagement’ that would accept that there are different people with different definitions of being a woman. The question becomes one of how we deliberate and listen together, and find a way of living forward.

I had a very strong reaction to this even though I knew it was written from a place of good intent. Fury would not be an exaggeration but I knew that wouldn’t help. There are many good people in this group and I am at least grateful that they are open to debate and haven’t silenced or cancelled me.

I responded with a thought experiment. I’ve expanded on my initial thoughts but I asked the question whether, in the scenario below, a pluralism of engagement should accept that different people have different definitions of being disabled? Or would it be reasonable to protect the legal and social accommodations provided to enable wheelchair users to function in society for those with an inability to walk?

If the latter, why are the legal accommodations for women not equally worthy of protection? To date I’ve had no response.

A Thought Experiment on Disability

Let’s take a specific disabled category of wheelchair user. Imagine you are someone unable to walk who needs a wheelchair, an adapted vehicle and accommodation to enable you to participate in society. You get a special parking permit and your employer ensures your workplace is accessible and gives you time off for essential medical appointments.

Let’s say there is another category of people who have fully functioning legs but identify as disabled. They feel their healthy bodies are wrong and they long to be wheelchair users. Let’s call them transdisabled.

  • The transdisabled group declare they are no different to you. ‘Transdisabled people are disabled’ becomes the new mantra. Politicians across the spectrum start repeating it with monotonous regularity when asked about the impact on things like escalating levels of disability benefits. Students chant it at demos, schoolchildren are taught it as a basic truth. You feel a bit confused but get on with your life.
  • You write a novel and enter a competition specifically for disabled writers only to find that the winner is someone transdisabled. They write about the hardships of their life as a disabled person, and how much tougher it is for them than for ‘cis’ disabled people because people accuse them of faking it.
  • The Equalities Minister says in a TV interview that it is offensive to say transdisabled people are not disabled. No-one would ever pretend to be disabled for nefarious purposes.
  • You turn on the radio to hear that crimes committed by disabled people are soaring, suddenly wheelchair users are committing serious sex crimes and even murders at percentages much higher than previous years. The presenter is puzzled, what possible explanation could there be for this?
  • When the Paralympic medals are handed out, many of the gold medallists turn out to have functioning legs and run a victory lap around the stadium. When disabled people and others protest they are told not to be so hateful. Disability can be fluid.
  • You get thrown off Facebook for using the term ‘able bodied.’ This is now classified as hate speech if referring to transdisabled people.
  • Your local council gives out disability parking permits to anyone who identifies as disabled.
  • The International Olympic Committee says that possession of a disability parking permit is now the qualifying criteria for the Paralympics.
  • The Government Statistical Service decides it is transdisphobic to differentiate between disabled and transdisabled so government data on disability becomes meaningless.
  • The NHS announces new data saying that there has been an increase in the number of wheelchair users but celebrates that there have been significantly improved health outcomes for disabled people as a result of far fewer co-morbidities within that category.
  • The disability pay gap closes as more employees at senior level choose to identify as disabled.
  • Some transdisabled people decide it is not enough to simply use a wheelchair, they insist the NHS should remove or surgically damage their functional limbs. The NHS sets up a series of clinics to perform such surgeries.
  • There is a sudden increase of children who identify as transdisabled. NHS policy is that they should be affirmed and given drugs to stop their bones forming properly to ensure they will grow into disabled adults. No data is kept on the long term impact of this.
  • Parents who resist their children being given these drugs have their children taken into care.
  • When disabled people decide they’ve had enough of this and start protesting about able bodied people trampling on their rights, they are accused of being far right or fascist. They are labelled Trans Exclusionary Radically Disabled or TERDs.
  • Transdisabled people and their allies start carrying signs saying things like ‘Decapitate TERDs’ and ‘The only good TERD is a dead one.’ Speakers at Transdisabled Pride, attended by thousands, tell the crowd that if they see a TERD they should punch them in the f**king face. Politicians and commentators wring their hands about the toxicity on both sides.
  • You seek help from your Disability Rights group only to find your membership terminated because of your hateful views. You look elsewhere and find that only disability organisations that support the transdisabled community are given public funding.
  • A plethora of transdisability charities and lobby groups are set up across the world. It is lauded as the new frontier in disability rights. A charity called Walking Wounded is established for those who identify as transdisabled but don’t want to use a wheelchair because it is inconvenient when going about their daily lives.
  • You find other disabled people who feel as angry as you and join a voluntary network with no funding. You spend your evenings and weekends writing, talking, organising events, lobbying politicians, raising FOI requests, poring over policy documents, reading in depth consultations. Your contributions are unwelcome or ignored by politicians and you have to keep your involvement secret from your employer.
  • A disabled person is sacked from their job at a disability support charity for saying that the transdisabled movement is actively harming disabled people.’ You donate to her legal costs. She loses.
  • You get arrested and held in a police cell for 12 hours because you put stickers on a lamp post saying ‘No such thing as transdisabled’ and ‘Wheelz not Feelz.’ The police release you and send you home in your wheelchair alone at 3am.
  • You rely on social media for information because the mainstream media channels do not report on the issue and when they do it is generally hostile to the ‘TERDs’.
  • You realise the general public are largely unaware of what has been happening to disability rights so you organise street stalls and protests. Transdisabled people and their allies like Antifa turn up to silence you. They drown out disabled voices and sometimes even assault them. The police say there is nothing to be done and politicians wring their hands again about the toxicity on both sides.
  • You watch aghast on a livestream as a brave disability rights activist travels the world talking about this global social contagion. She is violently attacked, tipped out of her wheelchair and almost crushed underfoot in New Zealand. Antipodean politicians call her a Nazi.
  • Your neighbour’s child starts identifying as transdisabled and demands surgery to remove her legs. The NHS won’t provide this surgery for those under eighteen but a private doctor in Spain agrees to go ahead on her 16th birthday.
  • Her parents are interviewed about their journey by Lorraine on national TV and an award winning TV drama called Salamander is made about the difficulties she faced in her quest to be her true self.
  • Libraries are full of books about transdisability for children with advice on different types of limb surgery and growth blocking drugs.
  • Schools start encouraging children to consider whether or not they might be transdisabled. They are taught that they are probably transdisabled if they’ve ever felt any discomfort about their bodies, if they enjoy being on wheels such as cycling, skateboarding or go karting, or if they have ever thought about skiving off PE.
  • There is a 3000% increase in the number of children identifying as transdisabled.
  • Following concerns about the impact of NHS interventions, a medical trial is set up to see if children who are given drugs to stunt their bone growth are happier than those who are not.
  • The CEO of the Walking Wounded charity is appointed as Disability Tsar by the government.
  • Welfare spending on disability benefits and support more than trebles. The government cuts back on health spending saying that hip and knee replacements are transdisphobic interventions and no longer necessary.
  • You give as much as you can afford to a group taking the government to court to protect disability rights. Disabled people raise millions in crowdfunding despite being one of the most economically disadvantaged demographics in society.
  • You celebrate when, after many years of legal wrangling, the Supreme Court says that it makes no sense for able bodied people to claim disability rights and that it is perfectly lawful to refer to transdisabled people as able bodied and healthy.
  • The government, and most of the opposition parties, ignore the Supreme Court ruling and bemoan the impact of the judgment on the transdisabled community.
  • The government proposes to shut down selected social media sites, including X, for spreading hate speech on transdisability and votes through an amendment to the Equality Act to include a new protected characteristic of Disability Reassignment.
  • You are still unable to walk.
This is not an entirely imaginary scenario. The charity Inclusion Scotland facilitates internship opportunities specifically for disabled people, often using the phrase "self-define" to encourage applicants who might not have a formal diagnosis but experience barriers. Is transdisability going to become the new frontier in trans rights? ^Here is a notable example of a man who identifies as a disabled woman. _https://www.heraldscotland.com/opinion/23101806.issue-day-able-bodied-norwegian-identifies-disabled-woman/_^ If there is a sexual component involved e.g an amputation fetish it is known as apotemnophilia.There have been numerous cases in the press of people (usually men) practising self amputation so strong is their desire. Here are some fairly recent examples. ^_https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5yvpx20le2o_^ ^_https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2024/jan/12/man-disability-benefits-leg-amputated-court-marius-gustavson-eunuch-maker_^ Everything imagined here for disabled wheelchair users has a direct parallel with what women and children have experienced. However this doesn’t even touch on issues like privacy and dignity in single sex spaces and services. The cruel and unusual punishment of housing violent sex offenders and murderers with vulnerable women or forcing women to undress in front of male colleagues as a condition of employment. It doesn’t cover the impact on children of trans parents, the hell endured by so many transwidows or the shock of seeing BBC News informing the nation that the galactorrhea produced by male lactation fetishists is even better for babies than their mother’s breastmilk. Although it touches on compelled speech it doesn’t go as far as the reality of women being forced to refer to their male attackers or rapists as she/her in court.

We are living through insane times and must never ever lose sight of just quite how insane this ideology is.

A Pluralism of Engagement | Women's Rights Network | UK

By Charlotte RevelyI was recently in an on-line discussion with a few hundred largely progressive left environmental campaigners and activists from across the world. Some of the UK cohort were celebrating the recent Green party win in Gorton and Denton...

https://www.womensrights.network/post/a-pluralism-of-engagement

OP posts:
BlueLegume · 19/03/2026 14:54

@AidaP then the experience of @GloiredeDijon will resonate with you. There are people identifying as disabled. They are not. You are. Why would you want them invading and expecting the hard won rights of disabled people? It just does not make sense.
Unless of course you don’t see just the how trans gender version of such an idea has absolutely permeated every bit of society and told us to suck it up.

Frankly aside from wanting my own single sex space or women’s group not to have biological men in them I also absolutely want my husband and sons to not have biological females in their single sex spaces and groups. Neither view is especially about safety. It is about upholding a human right not violating it.

It is that simple.

AidaP · 19/03/2026 14:56

BlueLegume · 19/03/2026 14:54

@AidaP then the experience of @GloiredeDijon will resonate with you. There are people identifying as disabled. They are not. You are. Why would you want them invading and expecting the hard won rights of disabled people? It just does not make sense.
Unless of course you don’t see just the how trans gender version of such an idea has absolutely permeated every bit of society and told us to suck it up.

Frankly aside from wanting my own single sex space or women’s group not to have biological men in them I also absolutely want my husband and sons to not have biological females in their single sex spaces and groups. Neither view is especially about safety. It is about upholding a human right not violating it.

It is that simple.

What it does is insult me that you and other transphobes are trying to usurp our struggles to further suffering of other minorities.

That is all it does.

BlueLegume · 19/03/2026 15:06

@AidaP and there you have it in a nutshell. I have a differing opinion to you on the trans issue so that immediately makes me a transphobe. Zero debate.

I anticipated just that. I presume you are also a biologist and expert? Do you interact with Sir Robert Winston to tell him he has got it all wrong and ergo is a transphobe. I do not believe for a minute all men are rapists but most rapes are carried out by men. Does that make me a man hater. Of course not.
Hopefully link works Sir Robert Winston - you cannot change sex

- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music that you love, upload original content and share it all with friends, family and the world on YouTube.

https://youtu.be/pFHVV_GcykI?si=SBlkzY5yPuYmbeDk

AidaP · 19/03/2026 15:12

BlueLegume · 19/03/2026 15:06

@AidaP and there you have it in a nutshell. I have a differing opinion to you on the trans issue so that immediately makes me a transphobe. Zero debate.

I anticipated just that. I presume you are also a biologist and expert? Do you interact with Sir Robert Winston to tell him he has got it all wrong and ergo is a transphobe. I do not believe for a minute all men are rapists but most rapes are carried out by men. Does that make me a man hater. Of course not.
Hopefully link works Sir Robert Winston - you cannot change sex

You literally spoused transphobia in your post, this is less 'gotcha' thank you think it is. Just more of complete ignorance and endless victim syndrome.

lanadelgrey · 19/03/2026 15:13

As a parent of a disabled child who was right in the middle of transmania at uni, I think the transdisabilism was already rife in late 2010s. First it was anxiety, then it was ASD and Autism. DD could barely get a look in when she had to explain why she was falling over all the time and couldn’t get served in a pub or get a taxi home as people thought she was drunk. She laughs at the sticks that are now so popular among her peers but tells me there are forums all over TikTok about how to ‘present’ your disability to get PIP.
Her benchmark is that if you didn’t get an EHCP or DLA as a child as she did then it’s all about wanting another way to be ‘special’. DD would give her dodgy right arm ti be normal

Wednesdaytoday · 19/03/2026 15:25

AidaP · 19/03/2026 13:39

A hilarious read.

She invents a lurid fake category (“transdisabled”), loads it with every scary thing she can think of, then says that because her made-up scenario is grotesque, trans people must be grotesque too.

The absolute peak of “I made something up, got mad at it, and decided that proves I was right all along”, real smelling-her-own-farts stuff.

You've utterly and completely missed the point.

BlueLegume · 19/03/2026 15:28

@AidaP where on earth is my transphobia in that post? That would be like calling me Islamophobic when I discover a Muslim has carried out a terror attack on concert or synagogue as happened in Manchester last year.

This is exactly where the ‘be kind’ mantra has been weaponised. Agree with us or we label you transphobic. There is zero debate.

InconvenientlyMaterial · 19/03/2026 15:30

Does anyone know which tradies fix irony meters? Mine's exploded.

BlueLegume · 19/03/2026 15:31

@lanadelgrey great post and appreciate it as you have recent experience in the real world. I was still working at that time and the number of girls taking time out for endocrinology appointments was mind boggling. And my did they make sure everyone knew. Dental appointments didn’t get quite the same fanfare.

I hope your daughter is doing well. 💐

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 19/03/2026 15:38

AidaP · 19/03/2026 13:39

A hilarious read.

She invents a lurid fake category (“transdisabled”), loads it with every scary thing she can think of, then says that because her made-up scenario is grotesque, trans people must be grotesque too.

The absolute peak of “I made something up, got mad at it, and decided that proves I was right all along”, real smelling-her-own-farts stuff.

She loaded it with real examples of behaviour around transgender people, their demands, and the actions of people responding to these demands.

KnottyAuty · 19/03/2026 18:00

DingyHall2026 · 19/03/2026 09:12

The discussion above between PP makes it even clearer to me what is so infuriating about this whole thing.

There is clearly a spectrum of disability. I'm also inclined to think there is a spectrum of race. Therefore there is a grey area and a discussion to be had about where the line is for provision entitlement in different circumstances

The one thing which is not a spectrum is sex, it is literally binary. I know DSD but a) numbers where there is any real discussion about which sex they are are miniscule and b) everyone is actually, at base, one sex or the other

This is one of the things I find most gaslighty about the whole discussion.

Quite - I think I once heard Naomi Cunningham use the analogy of life and death for sex. That there are edge cases - moment of birth before first breath, life support machine, heart stopped then re-started etc - but we all accept it’s binary. Just like sex.

OP posts:
Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/03/2026 18:12

KnottyAuty · 19/03/2026 18:00

Quite - I think I once heard Naomi Cunningham use the analogy of life and death for sex. That there are edge cases - moment of birth before first breath, life support machine, heart stopped then re-started etc - but we all accept it’s binary. Just like sex.

She did, I think she was cross examining Upton.

PriOn1 · 19/03/2026 18:52

For the skeptics, desperately pretending this doesn’t happen, here’s a medical article about it:

https://daily.jstor.org/the-complicated-issue-of-transableism/

In addition, it has been noted that men pretending to be women also are more likely to also pretend to be disabled.

Search Jorund Viktoria Alme for an example.

It’s also been suggested it’s erotic for these men too.

No surprise there then.

I also think it’s telling us how close to the bone this is that a derailing attempt is already being so strenuously made.

Undoubtedly more attempts will occur, which will confirm that we really have hit a nerve.

So glad the article has been posted.

The Complicated Issue of Transableism - JSTOR Daily

Some people born in able bodies feel as if they were meant to have disabilities. How should the medical community be responding?

https://daily.jstor.org/the-complicated-issue-of-transableism/

KnottyAuty · 19/03/2026 20:43

AidaP · 19/03/2026 13:39

A hilarious read.

She invents a lurid fake category (“transdisabled”), loads it with every scary thing she can think of, then says that because her made-up scenario is grotesque, trans people must be grotesque too.

The absolute peak of “I made something up, got mad at it, and decided that proves I was right all along”, real smelling-her-own-farts stuff.

Have you heard of satire. Or is it all too close to the bone for you?

OP posts:
KnottyAuty · 19/03/2026 20:44

AidaP · 19/03/2026 14:05

By that logic, I could invent “transphobe-identification disorder”, say it mostly affects people who mistake control for “boundaries”, treat disagreement from their adult children as coercion, and interpret being challenged by younger people as proof of a dangerous social contagion.

I could add that one of its clearest symptoms is the belief that if a child dares to say “you don’t get to define my relationship for me”, that itself is evidence of ideological capture and civilisational decline.

Would that prove anything? No. It would just mean I had made up a category, packed it with behaviours I already resent, and then pretended my disgust counted as evidence.

Which is exactly what that article does.

Don’t give up the day job. Satirical writings aren’t your strong point

OP posts:
BlueLegume · 20/03/2026 06:21

@AidaP cutting some slack here. In reading the piece by WRN was it not glaringly obvious to you that the author had literally taken everything that happened in the trans gender movement?

That is all they did. They didn’t ’make anything up’.

Everything in that list happened. It happened to men and women. We were and are expected to believe people identified as the opposite sex.

When that was flipped to suggest this could also happen to the disabled community-as in they would be expected to be accept people identified as disabled your main reaction was to mock the piece and then claim I was transphobic.

Men cannot become women.
Women cannot become men.

You dismissed my use of Sir Robert Winston’s comments as an example of transphobia. I presume you are questioning this brilliant scientist directly with your argument that he is transphobic too?

We are all old enough, well I am, to know that stereotype male female presentation was ripped up in the 70s and 80s and frankly it was fabulous. I went out with lads who wore makeup on the weekend and we girls cut our hair short and wore suits. But we knew we were male or female.

I understand the internet porn industry and beauty and aesthetics procedures have sadly reduced women and men to Barbieesque and Kenesque looks wise. But I consider that contagion on a par with the trans ideology.

It is selling everyone a lie.

I hope you can sit back and realise that as a society we have lost our moral compass. People cannot change sex.

BlueLegume · 20/03/2026 06:31

People are disabled or not disabled. Identifying as disabled is an utter middle finger those people with true disabilities who have had to fight hard for their rights.

Just as gay men and lesbians had to and rightly won.

hholiday · 20/03/2026 06:53

There was a succinct quote at the end of a recent Victoria Smith column about the BAFTA pushback against John Davidson and those who took offence –

Sometimes what you feel matters, but it just doesn’t matter the most.

https://thecritic.co.uk/we-should-challenge-our-complacency-around-disability/

That was about competing rights but there is a strange modern tendency to identify as a particular category of person in order to feel more significant or to gain more power as some kind of representative for that group.

Identifying into something you’re not is always offensive. But when you then force the entire issue to be about you, at the expense of others with far greater needs – the selfishness is breathtaking.

AmbiguityIsKey · 20/03/2026 07:05

There was a surgeon in Scotland, I think, who cut off someone’s leg because they identified as disabled. And felt this leg shouldn’t be part of them. But then got told not to do this anymore.

AmbiguityIsKey · 20/03/2026 07:10

And different to the case above is this guy www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5yvpx20le2o

NotBadConsidering · 20/03/2026 07:22

The unanswered questions with Neil Hopper are how many people’s legs did he remove as part of a secret agreement to help out another fetishist, and how many unsuspecting people’s legs did he remove under persuasion or manipulation as part of his own fetish.

OldCrone · 20/03/2026 07:26

Transableism has been around for a long time. This article is from 2012, written by a genuinely disabled woman.

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/spinal-column-no-truck-with-transableists-r3qrr3glx73

https://archive.ph/rIKDk

There are some unexpected perks from my situation. One of them, if you possess a fertile sense of the ridiculous, is discovering the lunacy that lurks around the edges of disability. In this regard, one of the most spectacular bits of low-hanging fruit is a person called Chloe Jennings-White, a fake paraplegic who features in a National Geographic documentary to be broadcast next month.

Unsurprisingly, 'Chloe' is actually a man called Clive. The article is hilarious, having been written before everything about trans people was compulsorily peppered with how brave and stunning these people are.

BlueLegume · 20/03/2026 07:26

Yet when we suggest the mutilation of healthy bodies by double mastectomy or removal of the penis as a mental illness we are deemed transphobic.

Any body modification to make yourself look like another sex has to begin with a mutilation.

DrBlackbird · 20/03/2026 07:54

we let the kids dictate

This is definitely happening. To no one’s benefit.

Swipe left for the next trending thread