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Bid in Lords to overturn move to decriminalise abortion for women

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IwantToRetire · 18/03/2026 21:30

A landmark move to decriminalise women terminating their own pregnancies could be overturned as legislation is considered in the House of Lords.

In June, MPs in the Commons voted in favour of decriminalisation, with one saying it would remove the threat of “investigation, arrest, prosecution or imprisonment” of any woman who acts in relation to her own pregnancy. ...

But, with the Bill making its way through the Lords, an amendment has been tabled to remove the relevant clause. ...

https://nation.cymru/news/bid-in-lords-to-overturn-move-to-decriminalise-abortion-for-women/

Bid in Lords to overturn move to decriminalise abortion for women

A landmark move to decriminalise women terminating their own pregnancies could be overturned as legislation is considered in the House of Lords. In June, MPs in the Commons voted in favour of decriminalisation, with one saying it would remove the threa...

https://nation.cymru/news/bid-in-lords-to-overturn-move-to-decriminalise-abortion-for-women/

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Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 12:59

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/03/2026 12:27

The time limits refer to the ability of HCPs to perform abortions. What women do to themselves is decriminalised at all stages of pregnancy in NI.

I am really sick of having to explain this distinction.

It's exhausting isn't it that people want to argue about legislation they refuse to read even when you kindly explain it to them against and again.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/03/2026 12:59

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 12:54

Nature doesn't demand women keep their pregnancies, you're back to using nature as an excuse to enforce societies Christian patriarchal ideas about life and women's bodies that aren't universal "natural" facts. Women have aborted for thousands of years, planet have been literally used to extinction for that purpose, society doesn't insist that you treat women with disdain and shrug your shoulders and say it doesnt demand the same as men.

ETA cos I asked PP before and I think I asked you and it keeps getting ignored. If you're going to talk about nature giving women the role of pregnancy why won't you address nature giving mens sperm quality such a significant effect of pregnancy and fetal health? And why can't we then enforce men to adjust their lifestyles to support the best possible pregnancy outcomes?

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planet [sic] have been literally used to extinction for that purpose

The plant was known to the Romans as sylphium, and yes, it was harvested to extinction for use as a abortifacient.

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:00

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 12:54

Nature doesn't demand women keep their pregnancies, you're back to using nature as an excuse to enforce societies Christian patriarchal ideas about life and women's bodies that aren't universal "natural" facts. Women have aborted for thousands of years, planet have been literally used to extinction for that purpose, society doesn't insist that you treat women with disdain and shrug your shoulders and say it doesnt demand the same as men.

ETA cos I asked PP before and I think I asked you and it keeps getting ignored. If you're going to talk about nature giving women the role of pregnancy why won't you address nature giving mens sperm quality such a significant effect of pregnancy and fetal health? And why can't we then enforce men to adjust their lifestyles to support the best possible pregnancy outcomes?

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A lot of men make poor health choices that affect sperm quality too. That's bad...

But I don't suppprt criminalising that. Or criminalising pregnant women for drinking or smoking

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:04

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 12:54

Nature doesn't demand women keep their pregnancies, you're back to using nature as an excuse to enforce societies Christian patriarchal ideas about life and women's bodies that aren't universal "natural" facts. Women have aborted for thousands of years, planet have been literally used to extinction for that purpose, society doesn't insist that you treat women with disdain and shrug your shoulders and say it doesnt demand the same as men.

ETA cos I asked PP before and I think I asked you and it keeps getting ignored. If you're going to talk about nature giving women the role of pregnancy why won't you address nature giving mens sperm quality such a significant effect of pregnancy and fetal health? And why can't we then enforce men to adjust their lifestyles to support the best possible pregnancy outcomes?

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I've stated several times on this thread that I support abortion within the legal limits.

I don't know why you keep implying that I'm against all or most abortion when I've never said that.
Most abortions are not beyond the legal limits.

OtterlyAstounding · 25/03/2026 13:06

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 12:58

I think to be ethically consistent I'd say theoretically there's ground for that.

But in practice that's not a law I'd want there to be some mass movement to pasx now, or enforce. Any woman trying to commit suicide while heavily pregnant probably has severe mental health issues, lack of support etc or worse

I feel Carla Foster's case is very unusual also because it was discovered. Often late term abortions are not.

I don't think there should be a focus on hunting down women who perform illegal late term abortions and/or attempt suicide while heavily pregnant. The focus should be on support and prevention. I do think that in cases like Foster's, where the action is found out explicitly, the law has to be enforced.

I agree that more support for vulnerable women, and prevention via better contraception and easier early abortion access, are the important factors in reducing late term self abortions.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/03/2026 13:06

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 12:58

I think to be ethically consistent I'd say theoretically there's ground for that.

But in practice that's not a law I'd want there to be some mass movement to pasx now, or enforce. Any woman trying to commit suicide while heavily pregnant probably has severe mental health issues, lack of support etc or worse

I feel Carla Foster's case is very unusual also because it was discovered. Often late term abortions are not.

I don't think there should be a focus on hunting down women who perform illegal late term abortions and/or attempt suicide while heavily pregnant. The focus should be on support and prevention. I do think that in cases like Foster's, where the action is found out explicitly, the law has to be enforced.

The focus should be on support and prevention.

Decriminalising her actions is the most reliable legislative approach to enabling support and prevention.

If a woman discloses that she wishes she wasn't pregnant and is signposted to support, then suffers a genuine stillbirth, that disclosure could be interpreted as evidence that she self-aborted. This creates a perverse incentive for her not to make that disclosure and seek that help, increasing the chance of her self-aborting.

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 13:08

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 12:58

I think to be ethically consistent I'd say theoretically there's ground for that.

But in practice that's not a law I'd want there to be some mass movement to pasx now, or enforce. Any woman trying to commit suicide while heavily pregnant probably has severe mental health issues, lack of support etc or worse

I feel Carla Foster's case is very unusual also because it was discovered. Often late term abortions are not.

I don't think there should be a focus on hunting down women who perform illegal late term abortions and/or attempt suicide while heavily pregnant. The focus should be on support and prevention. I do think that in cases like Foster's, where the action is found out explicitly, the law has to be enforced.

If you bothered to read more into Carlas case instead of continuing to bring her up to justify your shady view of women's rights it wasn't "discovered". She openly told medics what she did and was very distressed. Admitting guilt usually gets taken into consideration as a mitigating factor when it comes to sentencing crimes, especially men and unfairly wasn't applied to Carla. She was also denied contact with her children while in prison. Experts in the law and women's health have agreed her punishment was unduly harsh and I think it's disturbing how easily you and similar posters use her case like a thought experiment for you to make out in your head how much you'd like to punish certain women. I expect these kind of comments from young boys who think playing devils advocate is smart instead of showing they lack nuance and emotional maturity, seeing it from grown women is disturbing. I assume you haven't experienced pregnancy or birth to be this cold when talking about prosecuting vulnerable pregnant women or mothers?

OtterlyAstounding · 25/03/2026 13:08

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:04

I've stated several times on this thread that I support abortion within the legal limits.

I don't know why you keep implying that I'm against all or most abortion when I've never said that.
Most abortions are not beyond the legal limits.

I think one of the issues is that some of the arguments you and pp have used to argue against late term abortions can also be used to argue for a complete ban on abortions.

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 13:09

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:04

I've stated several times on this thread that I support abortion within the legal limits.

I don't know why you keep implying that I'm against all or most abortion when I've never said that.
Most abortions are not beyond the legal limits.

Because like PP your arguments against later abortions (which no one is pro) are inconsistent with supporting early abortion. You're repeating the same antichoice rhetoric that gets applied to all abortions.

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 13:10

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:00

A lot of men make poor health choices that affect sperm quality too. That's bad...

But I don't suppprt criminalising that. Or criminalising pregnant women for drinking or smoking

Why not sorry? It can cause preeclampsia that can kill a woman and cause significant fetal health issues. Can you explain why it's different for a woman to hard a fetus and not a man?

theilltemperedamateur · 25/03/2026 13:13

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 12:28

Miscarriages and stillbirth are usually not something people want to induce. Especially as we have safe abortion available.

Taking a substance like alcohol won't take the foetus' life.

I also differentiate between a viable foetus and one in the earlier stages.

I also differentiate between a viable foetus and one in the earlier stages.

Viability is both a red herring and a complication.

A red herring, because people use it, pointlessly, to bolster arguments about term limits, which should more logically be seen as an issue of the balance of convenience between mother and child.

A complication, because HCPs must factor it into decisions about the mother's welfare, on pain of a possible criminal conviction if they get it wrong in later pregnancy. In practice though, this seems adequately covered by the existing exemptions. Early induction for psychiatric reasons is not unknown, for example.

There is no legal obligation to treat a premature baby if the level of suffering outweighs their interest in continuing to live. So failing to treat an unwanted baby in this situation- who then dies - won't lead to a charge.

Late-term abortion won't be legalised for HCPs, because parliament and the public won't have it, so the debate on that point is moot.

LilyYeCarveSuns · 25/03/2026 13:16

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 24/03/2026 17:32

That's not the case.

a woman's desire to end her pregnancy always trumps the value of the foetus' life

is the case, without implying that the foetus is valueless.

Exactly, you've got it. There's absolutely no need for activists to promote the idea that the life of a foetus has no inherent value. Fine if that's a person's genuinely held values, but why would you seek to attach those values to the cause of decriminalisation of abortion - when it's completely unnecessary, and so politically inexpedient?
I feel like I have alot more clarity thanks to this thread (so I'm probably best to go back to lurking 😂). I could never understand why, if I truly believe that access to abortion should be part of proper healthcare for pregnant women, was I so uncomfortable with the abortion rights movement. And @Shortshriftandlethal has put her finger on it: "it goes too far though to think the equivalence of the situation should be that the late term baby never matters at all except when the mother accepts it."
There have been repeated examples on this thread of the shift from asserting that a woman has a right to end her pregnancy even though her foetus's life has it's own inherent value, to the assertion that a foetus is a valueless thing if its mother doesn't want to bring it to term - she can evict it, it's like a parasite, it's like a rapist's penis (more I'm sure I've missed).
I can see that the responsibility a woman has to nurture and preserve the life of her foetus/ child places very different demands on her before and after birth. I think there is alot of strength to the argument that the level of demand and the imposibility of commuting those demands means a mother should always be able to (safely) end a pregnancy, even at the same time as the life of the foetus is precious and it would have been a good thing for that life to grow and be born.
I refuse to have any truck with the elision into the denigration of a foetus, the demeaning language, the lack of respect for the process of creating life and that value of that life once formed.
(minor edit- was sure I pressed "preview" not "post" 🙃)

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 13:20

LilyYeCarveSuns · 25/03/2026 13:16

Exactly, you've got it. There's absolutely no need for activists to promote the idea that the life of a foetus has no inherent value. Fine if that's a person's genuinely held values, but why would you seek to attach those values to the cause of decriminalisation of abortion - when it's completely unnecessary, and so politically inexpedient?
I feel like I have alot more clarity thanks to this thread (so I'm probably best to go back to lurking 😂). I could never understand why, if I truly believe that access to abortion should be part of proper healthcare for pregnant women, was I so uncomfortable with the abortion rights movement. And @Shortshriftandlethal has put her finger on it: "it goes too far though to think the equivalence of the situation should be that the late term baby never matters at all except when the mother accepts it."
There have been repeated examples on this thread of the shift from asserting that a woman has a right to end her pregnancy even though her foetus's life has it's own inherent value, to the assertion that a foetus is a valueless thing if its mother doesn't want to bring it to term - she can evict it, it's like a parasite, it's like a rapist's penis (more I'm sure I've missed).
I can see that the responsibility a woman has to nurture and preserve the life of her foetus/ child places very different demands on her before and after birth. I think there is alot of strength to the argument that the level of demand and the imposibility of commuting those demands means a mother should always be able to (safely) end a pregnancy, even at the same time as the life of the foetus is precious and it would have been a good thing for that life to grow and be born.
I refuse to have any truck with the elision into the denigration of a foetus, the demeaning language, the lack of respect for the process of creating life and that value of that life once formed.
(minor edit- was sure I pressed "preview" not "post" 🙃)

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Meh this is a lot of words to accuse people who say women should have bodily autonomy as an absolute right means we don't think foetuses or babies have value. I haven't seen anyone say they don't, but if we're all honest with ourselves a baby or fetus is really mostly valued by those who want it. I'll believe society as a whole truly believe a fetus' life has value when the venn diagram of people who shout that from the rooftops also want to see that child fed, educated and cared for but that never happens. The majority of people who insist on this special value a fetus' has above a mother don't value that child once it's born, they are usually conservative and against taxes funding that child and go back to trotting out lines that people shouldn't have kids they can't afford and shouldn't rely on benefits.

OtterlyAstounding · 25/03/2026 13:29

LilyYeCarveSuns · 25/03/2026 13:16

Exactly, you've got it. There's absolutely no need for activists to promote the idea that the life of a foetus has no inherent value. Fine if that's a person's genuinely held values, but why would you seek to attach those values to the cause of decriminalisation of abortion - when it's completely unnecessary, and so politically inexpedient?
I feel like I have alot more clarity thanks to this thread (so I'm probably best to go back to lurking 😂). I could never understand why, if I truly believe that access to abortion should be part of proper healthcare for pregnant women, was I so uncomfortable with the abortion rights movement. And @Shortshriftandlethal has put her finger on it: "it goes too far though to think the equivalence of the situation should be that the late term baby never matters at all except when the mother accepts it."
There have been repeated examples on this thread of the shift from asserting that a woman has a right to end her pregnancy even though her foetus's life has it's own inherent value, to the assertion that a foetus is a valueless thing if its mother doesn't want to bring it to term - she can evict it, it's like a parasite, it's like a rapist's penis (more I'm sure I've missed).
I can see that the responsibility a woman has to nurture and preserve the life of her foetus/ child places very different demands on her before and after birth. I think there is alot of strength to the argument that the level of demand and the imposibility of commuting those demands means a mother should always be able to (safely) end a pregnancy, even at the same time as the life of the foetus is precious and it would have been a good thing for that life to grow and be born.
I refuse to have any truck with the elision into the denigration of a foetus, the demeaning language, the lack of respect for the process of creating life and that value of that life once formed.
(minor edit- was sure I pressed "preview" not "post" 🙃)

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Why are you making things up?

No one has said a foetus's life has no value. No one has been denigrating or demeaning about the foetus.

We've said that, as with any other human being on earth, the foetus's life should not outweigh the right of the pregnant woman to have control over who uses her body, and to remove consent to the usage thereof.

That doesn't mean it has no value, but it does mean that its value is irrelevant to the situation.

In fact, no one has said anything negative about the foetus at all, just about the situation, in which being forced to remain pregnant against her will is profoundly violating for a woman.

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:44

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/03/2026 13:06

The focus should be on support and prevention.

Decriminalising her actions is the most reliable legislative approach to enabling support and prevention.

If a woman discloses that she wishes she wasn't pregnant and is signposted to support, then suffers a genuine stillbirth, that disclosure could be interpreted as evidence that she self-aborted. This creates a perverse incentive for her not to make that disclosure and seek that help, increasing the chance of her self-aborting.

I see that ..that is one of the strongest arguments for decriminalising.

Setting aside Carla Foster's case for the moment : is that how illegal abortions are found and reported usually? I mean - if a woman says she's unhappy & then miscarries? Foster's was unusual as I said because she was found out due to the ambulance needing to come.

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:48

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 13:10

Why not sorry? It can cause preeclampsia that can kill a woman and cause significant fetal health issues. Can you explain why it's different for a woman to hard a fetus and not a man?

I've made clear that I don't support criminalising women for harming foetuses via health choices either.

I draw a line between health choices like smoking and deliberately aborting a late term foetus.

Smoking is not done primarily with the interior of ending a late term foetus' life. Nor are the others.

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:50

theilltemperedamateur · 25/03/2026 13:13

I also differentiate between a viable foetus and one in the earlier stages.

Viability is both a red herring and a complication.

A red herring, because people use it, pointlessly, to bolster arguments about term limits, which should more logically be seen as an issue of the balance of convenience between mother and child.

A complication, because HCPs must factor it into decisions about the mother's welfare, on pain of a possible criminal conviction if they get it wrong in later pregnancy. In practice though, this seems adequately covered by the existing exemptions. Early induction for psychiatric reasons is not unknown, for example.

There is no legal obligation to treat a premature baby if the level of suffering outweighs their interest in continuing to live. So failing to treat an unwanted baby in this situation- who then dies - won't lead to a charge.

Late-term abortion won't be legalised for HCPs, because parliament and the public won't have it, so the debate on that point is moot.

'So failing to treat an unwanted baby in this situation- who then dies - won't lead to a charge."- sorry, what situation?

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 13:50

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:44

I see that ..that is one of the strongest arguments for decriminalising.

Setting aside Carla Foster's case for the moment : is that how illegal abortions are found and reported usually? I mean - if a woman says she's unhappy & then miscarries? Foster's was unusual as I said because she was found out due to the ambulance needing to come.

Needing an ambulance to come isn't being 'found out' it was already noted that she made admissions early, if she hadn't been honest about her actions there would have been no way for anyone to know that she self induced an abortion rather than miscarried. Her case was unusual because it was exceedingly rare whereas you're wording your post and though she was a rare case of being "found out"

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:51

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 13:50

Needing an ambulance to come isn't being 'found out' it was already noted that she made admissions early, if she hadn't been honest about her actions there would have been no way for anyone to know that she self induced an abortion rather than miscarried. Her case was unusual because it was exceedingly rare whereas you're wording your post and though she was a rare case of being "found out"

Sorry, I meant that she was 'found out' due to being honest when they arrived. I agree the ambulance alone wasn't the reason.

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 13:52

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:48

I've made clear that I don't support criminalising women for harming foetuses via health choices either.

I draw a line between health choices like smoking and deliberately aborting a late term foetus.

Smoking is not done primarily with the interior of ending a late term foetus' life. Nor are the others.

So you're saying if a man knows he is TTC and doesn't alter his lifestyle knowing his behaviour can cause preeclampsia and fetal issues that's all fine? Why is it ok in your eyes to cause health issues to a fetus' that will live with the outcome of that forever but ending a pregnancy isn't? One surely has a long-term worse outcome?

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 13:53

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:51

Sorry, I meant that she was 'found out' due to being honest when they arrived. I agree the ambulance alone wasn't the reason.

So what you mean is she wasn't "found out" at all. She was a vulnerable distressed women who was honest and was penalised harsher than men who commit violent crimes who don't admit guilt or cooperate. And yet you don't see the misogyny.

LilyYeCarveSuns · 25/03/2026 13:55

@Whyohwhyohwhy26 you're experience is very different to mine. What I see are women with plenty of social capital securing a setup in which their access to abortion is as convenient as possible, without regard for the risks this passes on to more vulnerable women.
And I know lots of people who work incredibly hard for the well-being of children, and towards a more just society generally, who don't share your bodily autonomy absolutism. They're not shouting anything from rooftops - I don't know what you're talking about. I get the feeling you're not really interacting with me, you've got some idea of an Evil Repubilcan Patriarch in mind, and you're in a game of rhetorical point scoring.

@OtterlyAstounding wasn't it you yourself who said an unwanted foetus was something to be evicted? And, yes, I'll grant you, people who consider women's bodily autonomy absolute have indeed admitted that a foetus has value - about the same value as a parasite. You can read the words on this very thread, I'm not making it up.
I'm ready to bow out, but my parting advice would be: leave off the disparaging language about unwanted foetuses being evicted, or like parasites, forget the argument about corpses that make choices, or weird thought experiments about diseases that can only be cured by sex, stay well away from the idea that there's nothing unique or significant about a mother's relationship with her offspring. Just stick to argument that the level of demand and the imposibility of commuting those demands means a mother should always be able to (safely) end a pregnancy, even at the same time as the life of the foetus has value.

Batties · 25/03/2026 13:55

OtterlyAstounding · 25/03/2026 13:08

I think one of the issues is that some of the arguments you and pp have used to argue against late term abortions can also be used to argue for a complete ban on abortions.

You’re absolutely right. the thread started by Mmmchocolatebuttons in AIBU, apparently in response to my views, has now spiralled to the point where her arguments are being used to justify a complete abortion ban by some posters.

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 13:56

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 13:52

So you're saying if a man knows he is TTC and doesn't alter his lifestyle knowing his behaviour can cause preeclampsia and fetal issues that's all fine? Why is it ok in your eyes to cause health issues to a fetus' that will live with the outcome of that forever but ending a pregnancy isn't? One surely has a long-term worse outcome?

I'm not just saying that for the man, that applies to women who don't alter their lifestyle too.

Lifestyle choices can be horribly harmful but aborting late term takes a viable foetus' life.

Carla786 · 25/03/2026 14:00

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 25/03/2026 13:53

So what you mean is she wasn't "found out" at all. She was a vulnerable distressed women who was honest and was penalised harsher than men who commit violent crimes who don't admit guilt or cooperate. And yet you don't see the misogyny.

She was vulnerable and distressed, and that's horrible. But she still took the late term foetus' life. People who do illegal things can't just be excused due to being vulnerable. A vulnerable man might break the law, being vulnerable should not be his excuse, nor should it be for a woman.

I do not condone misogyny. It's disgusting men are given lighter sentences for far worse crimes.

But the solution is the raise the bar for men, not lower it for women