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Bid in Lords to overturn move to decriminalise abortion for women

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IwantToRetire · 18/03/2026 21:30

A landmark move to decriminalise women terminating their own pregnancies could be overturned as legislation is considered in the House of Lords.

In June, MPs in the Commons voted in favour of decriminalisation, with one saying it would remove the threat of “investigation, arrest, prosecution or imprisonment” of any woman who acts in relation to her own pregnancy. ...

But, with the Bill making its way through the Lords, an amendment has been tabled to remove the relevant clause. ...

https://nation.cymru/news/bid-in-lords-to-overturn-move-to-decriminalise-abortion-for-women/

Bid in Lords to overturn move to decriminalise abortion for women

A landmark move to decriminalise women terminating their own pregnancies could be overturned as legislation is considered in the House of Lords. In June, MPs in the Commons voted in favour of decriminalisation, with one saying it would remove the threa...

https://nation.cymru/news/bid-in-lords-to-overturn-move-to-decriminalise-abortion-for-women/

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OtterlyAstounding · 22/03/2026 10:22

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/03/2026 10:15

Men and women are different in some ways you know...or do you reject that?

i have never said the things you claim I have said. Your tactic is to use extreme examples and high emotion, rather than reasoned ethical argument. This is quite typical of much political dialogue these days.

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Men and women being different doesn't mean women should be forced to have less bodily autonomy, though. That's a moral stance you've chosen.

You have literally said those things.

And you've still not addressed my points about parental organ or marrow donation. You've made assumptions, gone on the attack, dodged like mad, and not once answered that.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/03/2026 10:50

OtterlyAstounding · 22/03/2026 10:22

Men and women being different doesn't mean women should be forced to have less bodily autonomy, though. That's a moral stance you've chosen.

You have literally said those things.

And you've still not addressed my points about parental organ or marrow donation. You've made assumptions, gone on the attack, dodged like mad, and not once answered that.

A woman's body is predicated on not having the sort of 'bodily autonomy' you seem so keen on. That is one of the obvious differences between male and female. A female body is not a male body. It is not lesser; it is different and with different implications.

OtterlyAstounding · 22/03/2026 10:59

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/03/2026 10:50

A woman's body is predicated on not having the sort of 'bodily autonomy' you seem so keen on. That is one of the obvious differences between male and female. A female body is not a male body. It is not lesser; it is different and with different implications.

Still not addressing my arguments, I see. And still just pushing the notion that women should have fewer bodily rights.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/03/2026 10:59

And this from Janice Turner yesterday:

"I don’t subscribe to the fashionable view of abortion as “just healthcare”, except in the rare cases it truly saves a mother’s life. Abortion is always an ethical choice: a balance between a woman’s right to reproductive autonomy and that of the life growing within her. Our laws regard a foetus up to 24 weeks as acceptable collateral for women’s freedom. (For most EU countries it is around 12 weeks."

https://www.thetimes.com/comment/columnists/article/left-has-a-moral-blindspot-on-human-life-ts5fpswh0

Left has a moral blindspot on human life

This week’s vote on late-term abortions, the assisted dying bill: why does this government seem bent on facilitating death?

https://www.thetimes.com/comment/columnists/article/left-has-a-moral-blindspot-on-human-life-ts5fpswh0

Imnobody4 · 22/03/2026 11:00

OtterlyAstounding · 22/03/2026 10:17

Who called a foetus a parasite?

You know what's not a happy ending? Criminalising a girl who self aborted or killed a late term foetus because she was scared, and unable to access help.

I've said over and over that avoiding late term abortions is the goal, through contraception, increased access to early abortion, and support for vulnerable women. But a safe late term abortion, and ensuring the girl or woman has support going forward, is better than criminalising a vulnerable girl or woman who engaged in an unsafe self abortion or infanticide.

You know what's not a happy ending? Criminalising a girl who self aborted or killed a late term foetus because she was scared, and unable to access help.
You know that is not what is being suggested, and is not the current situation. Girls are not being imprisoned. I think only one woman has been and several men.
You seem to be enraged by biology, we're a sexually dimorphic vivaporous species just like many others. In this case men are not to blame.
Have you read 'Brave New World' I think you'd fit right in.

OtterlyAstounding · 22/03/2026 11:08

Imnobody4 · 22/03/2026 11:00

You know what's not a happy ending? Criminalising a girl who self aborted or killed a late term foetus because she was scared, and unable to access help.
You know that is not what is being suggested, and is not the current situation. Girls are not being imprisoned. I think only one woman has been and several men.
You seem to be enraged by biology, we're a sexually dimorphic vivaporous species just like many others. In this case men are not to blame.
Have you read 'Brave New World' I think you'd fit right in.

I'm angered by the deliberate and unnecessary misogyny of a world that has rules for me and not for thee.

Should a parent be forced to donate blood, bone marrow, or organs to save their child's life?

RingoJuice · 22/03/2026 11:38

Imnobody4 · 22/03/2026 11:00

You know what's not a happy ending? Criminalising a girl who self aborted or killed a late term foetus because she was scared, and unable to access help.
You know that is not what is being suggested, and is not the current situation. Girls are not being imprisoned. I think only one woman has been and several men.
You seem to be enraged by biology, we're a sexually dimorphic vivaporous species just like many others. In this case men are not to blame.
Have you read 'Brave New World' I think you'd fit right in.

oh that poor, scared 44-year-old woman who induced a miscarriage at 32 weeks because her daughter suddenly become inconvenient to getting back with her ex. She killed her daughter for a MAN which is a fucking disgrace.

This is who PP is defending

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 11:38

Ironingablueshirt · 20/03/2026 19:32

Read the enquiry report please.

I already have thank you and the consultant very clearly stated they could not act as the foetus has a heartbeat. You can continue spreading misinformation if you want but I'll keep correcting it. Feel free as I said to challenge anything I pasted exactly from the enquiry that you feel is wrong.

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 11:46

Shortshriftandlethal · 21/03/2026 11:32

Do you believe in personal responsibility for anything, other than towards oneself?

Haven't finished the full thread but I've asked you and @OtterlyAstounding has also asked you to who benefits from your stance that someone can't access an abortion if they find out at a certain point in pregnancy. I doubt you'll answer but you exactly do want women to be responsible to exactly? Because you posts are all repeating the same insulation that women owe the world something that no one else does.

MaxandMaggie · 22/03/2026 11:49

OtterlyAstounding · 22/03/2026 11:08

I'm angered by the deliberate and unnecessary misogyny of a world that has rules for me and not for thee.

Should a parent be forced to donate blood, bone marrow, or organs to save their child's life?

You seem very stuck on this point, and if you apply the right to bodily autonomy equitably, then of course you are right, and there is an inconsistency. I wonder actually if the philosophical belief of bodily autonomy in relation to parental tissue donation should be revisited? Most parents are more then happy to donate life saving tissue to their children, so it could be argued that those that don't are negligent. I imagine a lot of people might be persuaded that compulsion of parental organ donation would be a fair trade if the argument is an all or nothing scenario. Conversely, if revisting the issue determined that bodily autonomy is in fact absolute, then applying the principle equitably would require revising current practises in many areas e.g. incarnation, when someone if standing on top of a bridge about to jump etc.

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 11:51

RingoJuice · 21/03/2026 13:22

You're basically saying that past a certain point of gestation, a woman or girl should have her bodily autonomy stripped away, and no longer have the same rights as any other person. There is no other situation in which people have their bodily autonomy stripped away in order to save a life - no mandatory blood, bone marrow, or organ donation. So why should women have this inflicted on them

You don’t have ‘bodily autonomy’ to demand an abortion at any gestation though. Thats just your personal values, but it’s not reflected in law. No doctor will abort a healthy child after 24 weeks for you.

It just doesn’t punish you any longer for taking it into your own hands and trying to terminate your own child at an advanced stage of pregnancy, which I find kind of horrible tbh. They could have squared this circle by stopping pills by post, but alas, they have not.

Oh so now when you wanna argue against bodily autonomy and a principal you can state that no doctors gonna abort a healthy child but earlier in the thread this law change was going to lead women to start murdering their toddlers and there would be Carla fosters everywhere going unpunished. Another great example that the cognitive dissonance and contradiction.

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 11:53

Shortshriftandlethal · 21/03/2026 15:12

To my mind the ''Bodily Autonomy' arguments only get you so far, before they conflict with ethical concerns. We all have autonomy up to a point, but ultimately none of us is separate from the society or culture within which we live, and most people operate with an understanding that individuals also have duties and obligations towards the greater good. This forms the basis of morality.

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Name one of other law that restricts everyone is lees bodily autonomy for the greater good then. By your logical, morally, none of us should be able to opt out of organ or blood donation, yet this argument of a limit to bodily autonomy only gets trotted out when it's the bodies of women and girls.

OtterlyAstounding · 22/03/2026 11:58

MaxandMaggie · 22/03/2026 11:49

You seem very stuck on this point, and if you apply the right to bodily autonomy equitably, then of course you are right, and there is an inconsistency. I wonder actually if the philosophical belief of bodily autonomy in relation to parental tissue donation should be revisited? Most parents are more then happy to donate life saving tissue to their children, so it could be argued that those that don't are negligent. I imagine a lot of people might be persuaded that compulsion of parental organ donation would be a fair trade if the argument is an all or nothing scenario. Conversely, if revisting the issue determined that bodily autonomy is in fact absolute, then applying the principle equitably would require revising current practises in many areas e.g. incarnation, when someone if standing on top of a bridge about to jump etc.

Yes, I do think that applying autonomy equitably is important.

Personally, I would still argue that autonomy over one's own body should be sacrosanct, but I would respect an argument that said abortion past viability should be illegal, and that every adult should be expected to donate blood and bone marrow as part of a nationwide register, in order to save lives while inflicting minimal impact on individuals.

I'd disagree with that position, but I'd respect it, because it's morally consistent and not misogynistic.

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 12:07

Bobblebottle · 21/03/2026 22:11

Bodily autonomy doesn't mean doing anything we like just because we live from our bodies, and there's no regard for others, no such things as crimes or consequences.

It means we have self determination about what happens to our physical bodies and our bodies are not resources for others, for society, for 'the greater good', without our consent. It's one of the 4 pillars of medical ethics in the UK and incredibly important in a free society.

I don't intepret abandoning an infant child out of a desire to do something more fun and interesting as supported by the principle of bodily autonomy.

Absolutely this. But of course they have to malign the definition of bodily autonomy into infanticide to again make it easier to attack because they don't have a reasonable defense to why they want to restrict a woman's bodily autonomy. It's the same on every thread about this topic and straight out of the antic-choice playbook.

Imnobody4 · 22/03/2026 12:07

OtterlyAstounding · 22/03/2026 11:08

I'm angered by the deliberate and unnecessary misogyny of a world that has rules for me and not for thee.

Should a parent be forced to donate blood, bone marrow, or organs to save their child's life?

Should a parent be forced to donate blood, bone marrow, or organs to save their child's life?
What kind of parent would need to be forced?

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 12:09

RingoJuice · 22/03/2026 04:58

She’s defining bodily autonomy as ‘should be able to abort a fetus/baby at any point during a pregnancy’ and trying to shame you as ‘not feminist’ if you disagree.

Feel free to actually articulate an argument of why you disagree with the concept of women and girls have equal bodily autonomy rights as men, or can you not?

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 12:12

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/03/2026 09:09

If 'autonomy' is the defining consideration then the child whether inside or outside of her body is still dependent on the mother for survival. Having something or someone depend on you threatens your 'autonomy'.

Try to follow your 'autonomy' logic through to its various conclusions.

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Can you not understand bodily autonomy and autonomy aren't the exact same concept? Or are you just another unable to articulate why you want to deny women's bodily autonomy so you'll pretend to misunderstand what PP means

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 12:17

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/03/2026 09:26

The biological condition of being female suggests that one's body is not entirely one's own, though. What makes the female body different to the male body revolves and is predicated on reproduction and the female's role in carrying new life and nurturing it.

I suggest you are taking a very utilitarian approach to being female - that suggests to me wanting to reject being female at all ( what is it you think that makes you female, I wonder? Or perhaps you 'identify' as 'non binary'?) Instead valuing the concept of individuality and imagined personal autonomy above and beyond all else -to the extent that ending the life of a pre-term baby is an acceptable cost in order to preserve that.

it is suggestive of an approach to life in which satiating one's own individual desires or preferences is the only moral criteria for making decisions.

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It's quite tiresome how quickly you in particular instantly leap to someone being in disagreement with you on an actual feminist issue to them being a TRA or non binary or whatever else. I'm pretty sure you're the poster who tried to imply I must agree with puberty blockers because I stated abortion would have saved Savitas life. It's really low.

The rest of your post is really unimaginative and just repeating the same old sexist tropes thrown at women throughout history. We actually know much more now on how the health of the fathers body impacts the foetus and it's development - should we start restricting their bodily autonomy for the benefit of their potential future babies? It's only fair if we know that if they drink or smoke it can affect the baby so don't they also owe the world? Why aren't their bodies also not entirely their own? I'm deeply disturbed to see someone on the feminist forum state that women and girls don't entirely own their own bodies 🤢

OtterlyAstounding · 22/03/2026 12:18

Imnobody4 · 22/03/2026 12:07

Should a parent be forced to donate blood, bone marrow, or organs to save their child's life?
What kind of parent would need to be forced?

Are you pretending that absent, neglectful, or abusive parents don't exist?

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 12:27

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/03/2026 10:08

Great logic! I bet you'd think I was a 'transphobe' as well. That seems to be your style...anything or anyone who is in disagreement with you is a 'fascist' or a 'misogynist' or a 'transphobe' etc. Name calling! Very grown up.

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Except you are literally spouting views that are discriminatory against women and.commonly.held by misogynistic men although it's not uncommon for women to internalise misogyny as you have. So her descriptor of you was pretty accurate and yours are made up personal attacks. I see by now you've already accused her of believing TWAW, calling you a trans phone and accused her of being non-binary / not wanting to be female. Basically her logic is triggering your cognitive dissonance so how do you categorise her as an enemy?

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 12:28

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/03/2026 10:15

Men and women are different in some ways you know...or do you reject that?

i have never said the things you claim I have said. Your tactic is to use extreme examples and high emotion, rather than reasoned ethical argument. This is quite typical of much political dialogue these days.

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Every accusations is an admission with you. I really don't know how you type this out without realising you're describing your behaviour the entire thread.

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 12:31

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/03/2026 10:19

Oh my goodness.......I'm out of this degraded and unnecessarily fraught discussion.

You don't like counter arguments or anyone disagreeing with you. It is as simple as that. You've been making personal comments and accusations throughout to a number of people, resorting to name calling. That is the level of your debate.

Is this you backing out a second time now? 😂 You already did that before when you didn't want to argue who your desired restrictions of women's bodily autonomy benefited? Also when you were asked in my friends scenario who the risk of prosecution of her or her HCP benefited?

You've been making personal comments and accusations throughout to a number of people, resorting to name calling.
You literally just accused PP of being non binary and not wanting to be female perhaps even wanting to be a man. From nowhere! Absolute madness that you're so averse to seeing any contradiction in your logic and perhaps changing your mind even slightly or even just recognising a different POV for what it is that you resort to these absurd attacks.

Whyohwhyohwhy26 · 22/03/2026 12:33

Imnobody4 · 22/03/2026 12:07

Should a parent be forced to donate blood, bone marrow, or organs to save their child's life?
What kind of parent would need to be forced?

Well if there's no bodily autonomy they won't even need to be asked will they? Where does it stop - should a parent automatically be assumed willing to donate their heart to the child? Cos no parent would need to be forced ofc and bodily autonomy is no biggie apparently.

MaxandMaggie · 22/03/2026 12:35

OtterlyAstounding · 22/03/2026 11:58

Yes, I do think that applying autonomy equitably is important.

Personally, I would still argue that autonomy over one's own body should be sacrosanct, but I would respect an argument that said abortion past viability should be illegal, and that every adult should be expected to donate blood and bone marrow as part of a nationwide register, in order to save lives while inflicting minimal impact on individuals.

I'd disagree with that position, but I'd respect it, because it's morally consistent and not misogynistic.

Why every adult and not just the parents of the child? Are you opposed to interventions when someone is stood on a bridge about to jump?