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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Working Group - KCSIE 2026 changes - improve the guidance via the consultation process, promote more responses & more

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 20/02/2026 12:47

Hello everyone - I was hoping to start a working group of some sort in order to respond to the proposed changes to KCSIE (Keeping Children Safe In Education)

Press release https://www.gov.uk/government/news/government-to-publish-new-gender-guidance-for-schools

Proposed changes and response mechanism https://consult.education.gov.uk/independent-education-and-school-safeguarding-division/keeping-children-safe-in-education-2026-revisions/

I have a large personal interest in this. If you are not aware, I am the father in this article in The Times https://archive.ph/C4eXs

Can we come together to build a strategy of supporting the parts the changes which are great, for example the very clear statements of toilets and changing rooms being single sex?

And think how to propose possible changes to the statements about sport and especially about allowing social transitioning at school?

I'd very much love to hear your ideas and suggestions. I don't want to lead the group especially or tell anyone what to do - I am certain there are people with more knowledge than me, but I thought I could start off the conversation?

Government to publish new gender guidance for schools

Guidance for gender questioning children is clear schools should take a careful approach when a child asks to social transition.

https://www.gov.uk/government/news/government-to-publish-new-gender-guidance-for-schools

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womendeserveequalhumanrights · 14/04/2026 17:26

Keeptoiletssafe · 14/04/2026 13:26

I suppose a quick version, off the top of my head, is something like:

To design-out crime you need to look at the design and the crime. Toilets are very sensitive spaces known for sex, drugs and vandalism eg. sexual activity in a toilet is a specific crime under Sexual Offences Act 2003 (71). They are the place pupils go when they feel ill, physically and/or mentally.

All available evidence suggests mixed sex, completely private spaces in schools should be reduced as much as possible, rather than increased, for reasons of safeguarding and health. Risk assessments and equality impact assessments on adding these completely private, mixed sex designs need to be done for: sexual assaults on girls, children who may self-harm, medical emergencies such as seizures, hypos and drug overdoses, children with invisible disabilities and medical conditions, disease control, cleaning costs, supervision costs, vandalism and building evacuation times. These should be done before considering this as policy.

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Please put the above in your own words though if you agree and want to comment.

I hope they will be using software to screen out mass replies that are all the same. With the toilet consultation for document T so many thousands of people cut and pasted Stonewall et al advice, they accounted for most responses and skewed the data.The government analysis showed 79% percent of responses mentioned safety concerns for trans/non-binary people. Fewer than 5% of responses mentioned safety concerns for one of the following groups: girls, boys, children, men, or disabled people. Safety concerns for women were mentioned in 75% of responses; 88% of the responses which mentioned safety concerns of women, specifically mentioned black women, lesbians, and butch women. Which looking at which organisations these specific phrases came from suggests an interesting association with mass cut-and-pastes. The consultation analysis also showed a strong association with making toilet cubicles completely private which is typically the bad solution to a mixed sex washroom outside the toilet cubicle, or only having unisex toilets. Obviously it’s fine to advocate for your cause but the health and safety implications need to be assessed with evidence. Needs not wants.

Thank you. One of the things I'll be saying is that they need to do evidence based risk assessments and do what's best for children's safety as a result of these, not just follow the preferred solution of whoever shouts the loudest and has pet ideas they want to impose on everyone else, which seems to be what's happened so far.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 18/04/2026 13:14

Reddit quasi working group on this worth checking for comments

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1rcwt4i/uk_consultation_on_the_proposed_changes_to_the/

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 18/04/2026 13:16

Absolutely blown away by how much good thinking has gone into this thread

Really hope enough people will be able to submit responses - I don’t think anyone really knows this is happening I’ve not seen much X traffic about it at all

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 18/04/2026 15:00

And just to add - finally sent my own submission in :)

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Leafstamp · 18/04/2026 18:01

Bayswater Support Group have done a useful post on X

that’s says this:

Key concerns:
Social transition has "significant effects on [the child's] psychological functioning and longer-term outcomes", including potential medical implications. Consequently, no education professional has the expertise to assess a child's "best interests" on this matter as suggested by the draft guidance (e.g. para 254, 256 etc.)

Encouraging an assessment of "best interests" in cases of gender-related distress contravenes KCSIE's own stipulation in para. 45 "Only appropriately trained professionals should attempt to make a diagnosis of a mental health problem."

Teachers do not acquire the necessary expertise to assess "best interests" when a child enters puberty (paras. 258, 259, 264, 265).

The draft guidance puts children at risk by encouraging teachers to stray beyond their professional expertise, handing them a highly consequential decision that they are not qualified to make.

This is true even if parents consent to social transition. Parents are not always well-informed about the consequences this may have for a child, so while parental consent is important, teachers must not be given the impression that there is a green light to proceed as long as parents approve. Teachers cannot determine whether this is in the child's "best interests" (257) even if the parents might think so.

The draft guidance fails to define social transition and thus confuses personal expression (which is uncontroversial as long as a child complies with uniform regulations) with teachers treating a child as if they were the opposite sex (which has profound consequences for the child and their peers).

The guidance must articulate more clearly that social transition in the context of a school involves harnessing the child's peers and teachers as a form of 'therapeutic community' to affirm the child as the opposite sex (or non-binary or other identity).

The guidance is not clear that safeguarding considerations take priority over a child's individual agency and their equality/human rights e.g. if an equality claim puts a child at risk of harm.

The guidance mentions 'harm' (para. 261) but does not explain what this means for a cross-sex or non-binary identified child e.g. breast binding, tucking, DIY hormones, heightened dysphoria, online exploitation, misinformation about suicide.

Para 263 promises confidentiality if a child reveals a cross-sex identity to a teacher but does not demand social transition. This means parents are uninformed about something that could indicate underlying mental health issues, trauma, neurodevelopmental issues. This secrecy undermines safeguarding for these children.

Para 252 opens up the possibility of schools drafting their own policies on 'social transition'. This creates a loophole for unevidenced and unsafe policymaking by education professionals, who are not qualified to make decisions relating to mental health.

Para 262 must be reworded to be clear that if a school considers a parent to be such a risk that their child's cross-sex identity should be concealed from them, this would warrant immediate referral to social services (not merely a consultation with the DSL). Otherwise schools will continue to use this as a loophole to exclude parents from decision-making.

Note: The main question to respond to is Question 33 of the consultation. Further information may be added in response to Question 34 on single-sex toilets, changing rooms etc., and Question 35 on single-sex sport.

https://x.com/bayswatersg/status/2045544444066234389?s=46

Bayswater Support (@BayswaterSG) on X

The Department for Education UK is consulting on changes to "Keeping Children Safe in Education" (KCSIE) Deadline: Wednesday April 22 Have your say: https://t.co/F8HN12EILs Key concerns: Social transition has "significant effects on [the child's] p...

https://x.com/bayswatersg/status/2045544444066234389?s=46

Keeptoiletssafe · 21/04/2026 19:43

Can I just check - does this close tonight or tomorrow night?

noblegiraffe · 21/04/2026 19:47

Tomorrow night, 11:59pm

Keeptoiletssafe · 21/04/2026 20:09

Phew

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 22/04/2026 09:11

Notable bullshit from GLP https://goodlawproject.org/good-law-project-warns-draft-schools-guidance-could-encourage-unlawful-discrimination/

It's all bollocks, so don't worry, but this is what other respondents will be saying:

  • The draft guidance is too restrictive toward trans and gender-questioning pupils, in GLP’s view.
  • They say schools should make case-by-case “best interests” decisions, not follow hard rules against social transition.
  • They oppose a strong presumption that parents should be told, arguing this can be unsafe for some pupils.
  • They argue schools may need to accommodate changes of name, pronouns, and presentation, and that refusing may be discriminatory in some cases.
  • They say the draft is too sex-based on toilets, changing rooms and accommodation, and should say more about alternative or private facilities.
  • They argue schools are not generally required to provide single-sex facilities in every case.
  • On sport, they say exclusion by sex may sometimes be lawful, but the draft does not do enough to address possible discrimination against trans pupils.
  • Overall, they frame the draft as risking unlawful discrimination under the Equality Act if schools follow it too rigidly.

Good Law Project warns draft schools guidance could encourage unlawful discrimination

Good Law Project has responded to a consultation on new draft statutory guidance, concerning the inclusion of trans kids in schools

https://goodlawproject.org/good-law-project-warns-draft-schools-guidance-could-encourage-unlawful-discrimination/

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 22/04/2026 09:11

And of course - this closes tonight!

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Keeptoiletssafe · 22/04/2026 10:09

To the Good Law Project. This is wrong:

‘It would be entirely lawful and legitimate for a school to provide toilet and changing facilities entirely in self-enclosed lockable rooms, designed for use by one pupil at a time. Indeed, where this is practicable, this may be the most sophisticated way of addressing the needs of all pupils. The guidance should make this clear.’

It is not lawful and legitimate as there is such a thing as safeguarding.

If you look at more of your own words:

It is indirect discrimination to adopt a policy, criterion, or practice which puts people with a
protected characteristic at a particular disadvantage compared to those without that
characteristic – unless doing so can be justified as a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim’.

So what you are saying here is your ‘sophisticated’ fully enclosed toilets should not put children with heart conditions, epilepsy, or diabetes (ambulant disabilities) at a particular disadvantage compared to those who are medically healthier - unless doing so can be justified as a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.’

Forget legislation and the legalities. Just think about this morally. Can you see now how your ‘sophisticated’ toilet design will be dangerous to the most vulnerable children at school? Do you know anyone with these medical conditions? What about any person in a club/pub/supermarket/school toilet who has had a cardiac arrest (upto 11% of cardiac arrests happen on the toilet)?
There’s at least a dozen children in most big secondary schools with medical conditions that mean they are more likely to collapse, conditions they may or may not even know they have. It doesn’t matter how they identify or how the school identify them. You can’t opt in or out of a medical condition or medical emergency.

You’ve wasted £500k on trying to flog dangerous non-domestic toilet designs on everyone. They will never be as safe for women, children or anyone medically vulnerable as single sex toilets with door gaps.

Where would you rush to if you suddenly felt nauseous? Why do schools have defibrillators? Where do pupils take drugs in schools or smoke spiked vapes? Where are pupils assaulted? Why do companies sell voice activated alarm systems targeted for gender neutral toilets with preprogrammed commands ‘help me’ or ‘stop it’?

Join the dots.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 22/04/2026 10:29

Bumping this because we’ve had more than our share of ploppers this morning, which has pushed this down the threads.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 22/04/2026 10:35

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 22/04/2026 10:29

Bumping this because we’ve had more than our share of ploppers this morning, which has pushed this down the threads.

Pillocks :D

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