The people we assume are the intended audience are not always the actual intended audience.
WRT inadequate men, their audience is 'more successful men'. That's the power structure they're working with and the one they care about. Women are seen and used as currency in that context, to either buy status or soothe hurt egos.
For government, the audiences are 1. party members, wrt internal political factions and ambitions 2. lobbyists and 3. personal interests. Constituents are their 'audience' only in the run up to an election - used as currency, a way to gain or exercise power.
So often when we see men display misogyny, we think the motivation is hatred of women. I'd say that that's often secondary - their primary motivation is position in the male hierarchy. And also when we see politicians treat constituents/the public with contempt, we think 'they hate us' - they're just not interested; they are motivated by seeking power and gratification and reward among those three areas I listed.