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I will protect trans people in single-sex spaces row, new human rights chair says

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IwantToRetire · 31/12/2025 21:38

Meanwhile, Stephenson said the commission had, under her predecessor Kishwer Falkner, given “legally sound” guidance to the UK Government on single-sex services and were awaiting ministers’ responses.

The Government has said it will not be rushed in publishing an updated code of practice which will be used by businesses and other organisations to inform their provision of single and separate-sex services such as toilets and changing rooms.

The guidance requires ministerial approval and would only come into force 40 days after the Government had laid the draft code in Parliament.

Asked if she would be prepared to accept changes to the draft, Stephenson said: “We’ve made the draft, and we think that it’s legally sound on the basis of extensive legal advice, and we provided it to Government.

“Government obviously has to assure themselves that they’re confident that it’s legally sound, and they’re doing that, and we’re really happy to provide them with any evidence that they need in order to do that.

“We’re waiting to hear back from them about their views on the guidance.

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/protect-trans-people-single-sex-050000412.html

This is just one of the many articles that have been written based on an interview by PA. Each one has a slightly different slant depending of which paper it is published in.

I will protect trans people in single-sex spaces row, new human rights chair says

THE new head of the UK’s human rights watchdog has said she will “endeavour” to protect trans people amid the ongoing row over access to single-sex spaces ...

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/protect-trans-people-single-sex-050000412.html

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RedToothBrush · 01/01/2026 14:45

Everyone who hasn't already bought 'invisible women', your task for this year is to buy it and read it AND then lend it to everyone OR gift it like crazy to everyone possible.

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 15:07

5128gap · 01/01/2026 13:57

I don't see any issue with what she's said. Obviously there has to be measures to protect people from discrimination due to a protected characteristic. And while GR is a PC, there will need to be measures to protect people from discrimination on the basis of it. Nothing new there. And certainly no suggestion the protection will involve allowing people to access facilities intended for the opposite sex.
This interpretation has been manipulated by the headline.
Her comment that a GRC will not be useful in gaining trans people access to opposite sex spaces, but could be useful 'in other ways' is important too.

The assumption is that it is discrimination to use the correct sex facilities needs to be challenged.

Its as if the GRA and the PC of GR have made a class on 'non male, non female' people. These men arent female so can't use the ladies, but aren't male either so can't use the gents.

But for safeguarding, we need to knoe everyones sex, not promote the myth that a group of self declared men aren't male.

Shortshriftandlethal · 01/01/2026 15:20

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 11:29

The argument TRA are making is that going to a unisex toilet when they have been using the womens previously will out them, especially at work.

The 'right to a private life' has been used to before to hide a mans 'trans history'.

This is going to go on for years unless someone in government starts prioritising women.

That falsely assumes everyone doesn't already know their actual sex or 'trans status', which is pretty unlikely.

Shortshriftandlethal · 01/01/2026 15:23

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 15:07

The assumption is that it is discrimination to use the correct sex facilities needs to be challenged.

Its as if the GRA and the PC of GR have made a class on 'non male, non female' people. These men arent female so can't use the ladies, but aren't male either so can't use the gents.

But for safeguarding, we need to knoe everyones sex, not promote the myth that a group of self declared men aren't male.

Discrimination is not a bad word, though, or necessarily a negative process. Being able to discriminate means being able to tell different types of things apart from each other. It is a fundamental skill that is naturally used during the process of categorisation. Categorisation is how the brain functions and makes sense of the world.

If something is designated 'single sex' then the act of discrimination has already occured, and this judgment has been made for a good reason.

Shortshriftandlethal · 01/01/2026 15:26

OldCrone · 01/01/2026 11:47

I wasn't actually thinking about them being 'outed'. My comment was about the TIMs who insist on using women's spaces (because they have women in them) even when everyone knows that they're TIMs. There was one incident where India Willoughby made a big show of refusing to use the unisex toilet which was right next to him and walking miles to a women's loo.

They don't want unisex spaces because they're not validating and they're not full of unconsenting women who think they're in a women-only space. It's nothing to do with being outed.

I agree.....but that is irrelevent in the court of public opinion. Public opinion ( and the law) tends towards common sense and fairness; and is not interested in validating egos.

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 15:35

But there is a suggestion that men with gender are going to be protected as 'non men'. That is, they cant possible use the male toilets and need other facilities.

This is promoting the idea that men with a GRC or PC of GR aren't male. And that isnt good for women and children.

I might be wrong, and the protection might be to tell men to not to be mean to other men in toilets.

FWSsupporter · 01/01/2026 15:48

onlytherain · 31/12/2025 21:55

She said “I think it’s really important when we’re looking at this issue around single-sex spaces, to make sure that you also protect the rights of trans people. And yes, I will endeavour to do that.” That is unspecific. She could protect the rights of trans people by saying they need third spaces. Plus, she said "ALSO the rights of trans people", so she is clearly intending to protect women's rights too.

This.⬆️
As the regulator there is a responsibility to uphold the law. This means protecting single sex spaces whilst also protecting the pc of gender reassignment.

Third spaces are the most obvious solution that many reasonable people have been advocating.

Newspapers and other media make their money by creating conflict. Headlines that skate very close to misrepresentation are very common as they are designed as click bait.

One key skill I believe we are losing is the ability to critically assess information. FWR is one place I find posters do critically assess.

WhatterySquash · 01/01/2026 16:01

This means protecting single sex spaces whilst also protecting the pc of gender reassignment... Third spaces are the most obvious solution that many reasonable people have been advocating.

But protecting the PC of gender reassignment means protecting people from unfair discrimination, harm and persecution on that basis. It does not mean having to agree that anyone is not the sex they actually are, or give them any special rights on the basis of what they say they are or their unevidenced beliefs.

Just as a Christian should be protected from persecution and unfair discrimination on that basis - but religion being a PC doesn't means that everyone has to agree (or pretend to agree) with the Christian about their beliefs, or let them influence policy. A Christian might think praying is effective, but you wouldn't let a Christian airliner engine safety checker just pray instead of doing all the right checks, in case they feel upset that you don't share their beliefs.

Likewise the PC of "gender reassignment" protects the person, but it does not validate the beliefs. If it does, it's out of line with the other PCs and discriminating unfairly against them.

Talkinpeace · 01/01/2026 16:16

Discrimination is not in itself a bad thing

we accept it when jockeys are forced to carry weights
or boxers disqualified for being too heavy for their class

Exclusion is not in iself a bad thing

height limits on amusement park rides
age limits on who can start school
age limits on getting a bus pass

Keeptoiletssafe · 01/01/2026 18:28

FWSsupporter · 01/01/2026 15:48

This.⬆️
As the regulator there is a responsibility to uphold the law. This means protecting single sex spaces whilst also protecting the pc of gender reassignment.

Third spaces are the most obvious solution that many reasonable people have been advocating.

Newspapers and other media make their money by creating conflict. Headlines that skate very close to misrepresentation are very common as they are designed as click bait.

One key skill I believe we are losing is the ability to critically assess information. FWR is one place I find posters do critically assess.

From a two year academic study: ‘According to survey data, the most frequent locations identified by students as places where sexual harm happens in school were in the toilets (33% of students indicated this in the survey)..’

Nine years ago an inquiry by the Women and Equalities Select Committee laid out the devastating extent to which girls experience sexual violence and harassment in schools: 5,500 sexual offences were recorded in UK schools over a three-year period, including 600 rapes. Those figures were from a BBC investigation where they FOI every police force. They still didn’t get the actual locations as data isn’t recorded this way. This lack of ‘where’ is a massive safeguarding fail has repeatedly been noted by Parliament, Ofsted and recently the Sarah Everard inquiry into women’s safety in public spaces.

This, and safety for all in medical emergencies, is why we need to go back to single sex toilets (with cubicle door gaps within single sex environments) in schools and as many non-domestic places as possible. I have been evaluating the design of the toilets where bad things happen for several years now.

We don’t need more private, mixed sex toilets in public spaces.

There have already been tragedies in ‘gender neutral’ toilet designs. This is why I teared up when the Supreme Court verdict was announced. I know the correct designs save lives and prevent assaults. The tears of relief that I didn’t have to talk about toilets again was short lived though!!

FWSsupporter · 01/01/2026 20:32

@Keeptoiletssafe I am aware of the H &S aspects relating to toilets but not all third spaces are toilets e.g. communal changing rooms etc.

What we can’t have is truly single sex spaces and no compromise at all for people with the pc of gender reassignment. The SC was clear the pc of gender reassignment is law and people have protections under it.

I would expect third spaces, including toilets, to require a public debate with input from specialists on the safest design. This is where I expect the EHRC and HSE to both play key roles.

A key concern of mine is the HSE having gone completely silent on this issue. Both Sandie Peggie and Darlington Nurses wanted single sex communal changing rooms. Why has the HSE not intervened?

Keeptoiletssafe · 01/01/2026 22:22

FWSsupporter · 01/01/2026 20:32

@Keeptoiletssafe I am aware of the H &S aspects relating to toilets but not all third spaces are toilets e.g. communal changing rooms etc.

What we can’t have is truly single sex spaces and no compromise at all for people with the pc of gender reassignment. The SC was clear the pc of gender reassignment is law and people have protections under it.

I would expect third spaces, including toilets, to require a public debate with input from specialists on the safest design. This is where I expect the EHRC and HSE to both play key roles.

A key concern of mine is the HSE having gone completely silent on this issue. Both Sandie Peggie and Darlington Nurses wanted single sex communal changing rooms. Why has the HSE not intervened?

I have had correspondence with HSE and the last time they passed me to Ministry of Housing, Communities & Local Government. I hope they are telling the government that all the building standards and their HSE documents will have to be altered because legislation and HSE say mixed sex toilets have to be private, enclosed and in their own room.

I know which toilet designs are healthiest and safest. I think communal changing rooms are safe and healthy but obviously having them as single sex (with exceptions for children). I know that the common factor for misuse and danger in a public place is complete privacy.

Disabled (non-ambulant) people have to compromise. They can’t have single sex. They often do not have a choice. Their toilets are often the most abused and dirty. For them to have the safest and healthiest toilets they should be included in the single sex toilet block.

Disabled (ambulant) people don’t have the option of a reasonable adjustment of a life-saving door gap if they have a collapsible condition, if all toilets lead onto a mixed sex area. They do have an adjustment that helps - ALL new toilets should be openable from the outside. If someone has a cardiac arrest, hypo, seizure or head injury they need to be rescued asap. But that’s not useful if you don’t know they have collapsed. However, it is so well known that people do collapse in toilets that for new non-domestic cubicles and rooms that it is stated there should be mechanism that opens the toilet door outwards so a body can be retrieved.

Being able to open the door from the outside is already a compromise for women’s safety that has been abused. But that’s why mixed-sex enclosed sound resistant cubicles are worst of both worlds. You can’t tell who is outside either.

People of certain religious groups have no provision if all the toilets are mixed sex.

Age plays into it as well as the sexual assaults of children take place in mixed sex toilets.

Frailer, older people are the ones that statistically have strokes in toilets and falls. Bizarrely ambulant toilets have a hand rail specifically for people who have had strokes but if you did have a stroke a door gap would be more appropriate.

Being female is obviously a big factor. Unisex toilets are hated and resisted worldwide by women and girls. In India, schoolgirls who rather go in the open rather than use the unisex toilets because of rape risks.

There are so many compromises. We already have so many compromises.

A very high % of council-run toilets have closed because of misuse. They cost about £10,000 per toilet per year and more when they are vandalised. Having no provision is a real thing which affects disabled and elderly more so that they are house-bound.

I really, really hope the delay is because all of the above are being factored into the decisions of what to do. I think adding a unisex toilet in certain situations will do more harm than good. And I know that from research that they will cause a lot of harm then be closed down.

There’s a good quote from a book from Rose George that sums it up (and this was 2008 even before gender ideology gathered pace):
'Anthropologists and sociologists should be infesting public toilets. There's nothing else in human society quite like them. Not in society, not quite out of it. Needed but rarely demanded. A place where all sorts of human needs and habitats intersect: fear, disgust, conversation, grooming, sex. It's an ambiguous space that is not quite in the public eye, though the public uses it. A place of refuge and sociability: of necessity and criminality.'

Trans gender people are safest using the toilets for their biological sex. Whether they want to is another matter. 11% of people having a cardiac arrest do so on the toilet. Having a medical emergency like that or an overdose is much more of a risk than being killed (0).

I have looked at all the literature from TransActual and Stonewall. The very worse one in TransActual is an account of a man flashing a transwoman outside the toilet block in protest of them using the ladies. The other from Stonewall (from their 2018 booklet quoted in most of all the replies to Document T consultation) which when you look is two women pushing a transwoman out of a women’s toilet after they all shouted and the transwoman wouldn’t leave. Edit to say there’s also the account of someone being spat at in The Guardian.

In contrast I have pages of sexual assaults and deaths in toilets that have made it to court/newspapers and can be officially documented. The deaths are of secondary school pupils, women and men. The sexually assaults are on boys, girls and women.

Do you know who else has been collecting the data of what happens in toilets? No one.

I have asked the HSE, police, DfE, the Ministry of Housing, Communities & Local Government, RSPoA. No one knows what goes on in them.

That’s why adding a unisex toilet here and there to make the noise go away is so short-sighted.

Also: I really do want everyone to be safe. I am looking at ways to do this. What is wanted can’t override what is needed. I do have ideas of different designs but no one in government is listening.

Keeptoiletssafe · 01/01/2026 23:15

That last post came over slightly more ranty than I meant - apologies.

Tonight I have been pulling together a few more cases, before going back to work, and preventable stuff gets to me. Considering you are supposed to be able to access a toilet easily, there are many people that are in a very vulnerable state and aren’t rescued
in time as the fire brigade has had to get involved, once it is ascertained someone is still in the enclosed toilet. There are some talked about new ‘inclusive’ toilets that I know for a fact the staff have no idea how to get into them and would have to dismantle the whole structure. The irony is not lost that you can have a defibrillator in these places too.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 02/01/2026 09:52

Hedgehogforshort · 31/12/2025 22:22

I may get deleted for this but i do not give an actual flying fuck about trans peoples rights because they do not give a shiny shit about women.

Me neither tbh. They took OUR rights away without a second thought. It's not RIGHTS they're after anyway, it's extra privileges.

Keeptoiletssafe · 02/01/2026 11:04

There’s a lot of younger women out there keen to promote gender neutral toilets until the reality of mixed sex private design sets in. Jolyon Maugham needs to research what he is using people’s money to fight for. He is not making toilets designs Heathier or Safer for anyone, though as a healthy male he has less of a problem.

If he really wants to make toilets safer for trans people, he will need to change health and safety legislation, building regs and standards and have a big education campaign on how we can all go to the toilet blocks with gaps above and below the doors satisfied that men won’t listen or view women. And refine the Sexual Offences Act or scrap sections of it because it doesn’t work with single sex designs for a mixed sex environment. Good luck with that.

If there’s any ambiguity of which sexes are outside the toilet door, the designs currently go private. ‘Inclusive’= privacy.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 02/01/2026 11:17

Absolutely protect trans people.

AND equally protect women.

That means third spaces, additional resources. Protecting trans people cannot equal sacrificing non consenting women and their single sex spaces to men, which is the part that is actually in conflict if everyone was able to be honest about it.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 02/01/2026 11:21

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 15:35

But there is a suggestion that men with gender are going to be protected as 'non men'. That is, they cant possible use the male toilets and need other facilities.

This is promoting the idea that men with a GRC or PC of GR aren't male. And that isnt good for women and children.

I might be wrong, and the protection might be to tell men to not to be mean to other men in toilets.

Well we're at another tipping point really.

Either men with gender identities accept that they can have special recognition, resources, labelling and facilities, in addition to all the legal rights and protections they enjoy alongside everyone else - which allows the space for personal beliefs to be expressed and enjoyed and indulged while other people's rights are equally respected -

if they won't, and it's women's facilities or nothing, then ok, it's nothing. There's men and women and that's the end of it.

Keeptoiletssafe · 02/01/2026 12:26

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 02/01/2026 11:17

Absolutely protect trans people.

AND equally protect women.

That means third spaces, additional resources. Protecting trans people cannot equal sacrificing non consenting women and their single sex spaces to men, which is the part that is actually in conflict if everyone was able to be honest about it.

I want everyone safe. But what if the ‘third spaces’ are dangerous spaces, especially for women and children? That’s what my research shows. EHRC is increasing overall risk by increasing the number of dangerous locations.

If anything should be added, it’s more accessible single sex provision.

That would leave mixed sex provision for disabled people with an opposite sex carer, people who need total privacy in order to empty their bowels or urinate, and people who have a fear of using the toilets of their sex. And crucially this provision would be the most visible, scrutinised, cleaned and attended to by employers. See Euan’s Guide Charity for how far we have to go to change for this. There would need to be a code of conduct that people respect the right of others to use the toilet of their sex however they present. And that accessible mixed sex toilets are used by those of greatest need. And I would do some design changes too like add downward facing grills on outer doors and carefully positioned cctv.

The public (usually men) being respectful that toilet spaces are just used for toileting would be the first time in history that’s happened. Men’s behaviour is the main problem that it always boils down to mitigating for, and that includes other males as well, but particularly boys.

This could be the chance to increase visibility and inclusivity for disabled people, medically vulnerable people, women and children who are safer using single sex toilets, designed with health and safety in mind.

It will take years though and most businesses haven’t got the money.

Talkinpeace · 02/01/2026 13:33

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 02/01/2026 11:17

Absolutely protect trans people.

AND equally protect women.

That means third spaces, additional resources. Protecting trans people cannot equal sacrificing non consenting women and their single sex spaces to men, which is the part that is actually in conflict if everyone was able to be honest about it.

Male born trans people
have different needs from
female born trans people

RedToothBrush · 02/01/2026 13:53

The assumption that 'protecting trans people' leads to better outcomes for trans people is an interesting bias.

We are going to start seeing that affirmation only is likely to be a cause of harm...

Talkinpeace · 02/01/2026 14:01

@RedToothBrush
Have a read of the HHS report - page 58 covers the actual outcomes of the kids from the Dutch study

Unemployed and single is not a life goal I'd want for a child

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 02/01/2026 14:03

RedToothBrush · 02/01/2026 13:53

The assumption that 'protecting trans people' leads to better outcomes for trans people is an interesting bias.

We are going to start seeing that affirmation only is likely to be a cause of harm...

Well precisely. Protection them from what, exactly?

From mean old Terfs who hurt their feelings in the same way that mummy hurts the toddler’s feelings when she says no, you can’t have ice cream for dinner?

Or from the medical industry who tell them that yes, it is possible to “fully change sex” and that destroying their endocrine system and sexual function is the way to do it?

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 02/01/2026 14:05

Talkinpeace · 02/01/2026 14:01

@RedToothBrush
Have a read of the HHS report - page 58 covers the actual outcomes of the kids from the Dutch study

Unemployed and single is not a life goal I'd want for a child

And living in Greenland?

Sorry, couldn’t resist!

As you wish were.

RedToothBrush · 02/01/2026 14:08

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 02/01/2026 14:03

Well precisely. Protection them from what, exactly?

From mean old Terfs who hurt their feelings in the same way that mummy hurts the toddler’s feelings when she says no, you can’t have ice cream for dinner?

Or from the medical industry who tell them that yes, it is possible to “fully change sex” and that destroying their endocrine system and sexual function is the way to do it?

There's plenty to suggest that the same cohort who were anorexic now identify as trans.

Affirming with 'single sex' provision, is enabling harm.

It's hardly protective.

Justme56 · 02/01/2026 14:11

Outing is one of those ideas to control the narrative. Why should a transperson have the right to a private life and no one else. Imagine if the person had been using SSS and women find out he’s male. Women are just supposed to say yeh that’s absolutely fine, there has been a man in there for years, but he passed so well we weren’t told. This is a problem created by years of misinformation and abuse of female spaces and the whole idea that some people can hide their sex at the expense of others.

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