Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Faith school where women are banned from wearing trousers becomes state funded

430 replies

ArabellaSaurus · 27/09/2025 22:37

https://www.secularism.org.uk/news/2025/09/faith-school-which-bans-women-wearing-trousers-becomes-state-funded

'The National Secular Society has expressed alarm that a London faith school which bans women from wearing trousers and penalises families who attend non-kosher restaurants will now be funded by the state.
Nancy Reuben Primary School re-opened as a voluntary aided (VA) state school this month, after operating as an independent school for 26 years. Its decision to join the state sector follows the Government's move to charge VAT on independent school fees.'

'Women may not wear trousers, mini skirts, shorts, low necklines or sleeveless tops
The school's dress code for parents and visitors says men "must have their head covered at all times" and women "must wear skirts of knee length (a maximum of 2" above is acceptable)". It says trousers "may not be worn" by women.
Additionally, women must cover their underarms and may not wear cap sleeves. Women may not wear clothes with necklines lower than "4 fingers from the collar bone" either "in front or back of the garment".
Trousers are permitted for aupairs and nannies but they may not wear mini skirts, shorts, plunging necklines or sleeveless tops.'

OP posts:
Thread gallery
5
AMillionTomorrows · 29/09/2025 08:09

I wouldn’t tick anything letting you know I was Jewish in a healthcare setting. Your disgust is palpable and terrifying.

deadpan · 29/09/2025 08:13

RawBloomers · 28/09/2025 23:15

The Equality Act exists, though. And the school is subject to it. You saying you aren’t discussing so you don’t have to square your opinion on what the school should be able to do with the legal requirements the act place on it is saying you don’t think it should apply.

"Faith schools' uniform policies must comply with the Equality Act 2010, which prohibits discrimination based on religion or belief, and other protected characteristics. While uniform policies generally apply equally, they must not indirectly discriminate against a religious group by placing them at a disadvantage, such as preventing the wearing of religious attire like a headscarf or modest dress. Schools must be able to justify any restrictions on dress as a proportionate means to achieve a legitimate aim, and they should consider allowing for reasonable adjustments to accommodate religious requirements."

Before you continue to Google Search

https://www.google.com/search?client=ms-android-tef-gb-revc&sca_esv=3bab500e56fb6678&cs=1&sxsrf=AE3TifPj_xlSYLGOPkXfXTjGrjKwkANt1w%3A1759129761280&q=Equality+Act+2010&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiq1oKEtf2PAxV0SEEAHZLXOXcQxccNegQIAhAB&mstk=AUtExfAsT1qx7NUByEFk0WYaK38m6rEvP5gHc1un0UHuqPW7Aazwzbjykj7SjrypsVmrKx62S44m6qakKMR9wc4MR6uEIjbWoKIV8Rw5xIcYKYU1JBG2lRBTm3mFNLROtLuvRWSG32ud7tX4GDfnqBnJB0CZt0CpSIUguoKNAe7HNGhjQ3mljAGVS2RQRfpJTlcjumIGGywuzwba5UJB3nuHMdywJO9frU9rZMy2O8hnHJLlM9HS_Di_6CFGD_-SCeRKZPa-w1AaNKaNgBCt9igFZy9m&csui=3

CurlewKate · 29/09/2025 08:18

NoYAgenda · 29/09/2025 07:48

Why should we respect Muslim rules in Britain?

They should respect our rules.

What are “our rules”?

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 08:26

AMillionTomorrows · 29/09/2025 08:09

I wouldn’t tick anything letting you know I was Jewish in a healthcare setting. Your disgust is palpable and terrifying.

Ap you wouldn't tell your medical providers that you are of an ethnic background with some higher risks? More fool you.

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/09/2025 08:27

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 20:10

Hang on, when you mention October 7..do you mean they were referencing Palestine?

No, I'm saying I encountered this before the events of October 7th and therefore before the more recent emphasis on Gaza/Islam/muslims and so on. It had nothing to do with Gaza, it was more about a muslim kind of evangelism. It did have a very activist feel, though...most likely because of their youth.

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 08:29

Anyway as the statistics clearly show, the majority of Jewish people perceive themselves as white and identify that way even when they have the option of describing their ethnicity as something other than white. This isn't a revelation of any kind. These statistics are easily found in public data. You may not agree with how other people identify but that is how they feel about themselves.

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/09/2025 08:30

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 08:26

Ap you wouldn't tell your medical providers that you are of an ethnic background with some higher risks? More fool you.

For someone who claims they are a professional you are posting in a very unprofessional way about your supposed client groups.

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/09/2025 08:32

CurlewKate · 29/09/2025 08:18

What are “our rules”?

I imagine the established 'laws of the land' rather than sharia law?

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/09/2025 08:32

AMillionTomorrows · 29/09/2025 08:09

I wouldn’t tick anything letting you know I was Jewish in a healthcare setting. Your disgust is palpable and terrifying.

Yes, it comes across as obsessive and vindictive.

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 08:36

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/09/2025 08:30

For someone who claims they are a professional you are posting in a very unprofessional way about your supposed client groups.

By saying that they statistically identify as white ? Okay.

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 08:37

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/09/2025 08:32

Yes, it comes across as obsessive and vindictive.

Vindictive because I don't believe someone's religious beliefs should influence the care of other service users? Okay.

TheignT · 29/09/2025 08:43

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 07:27

  1. ,you can get a taxi which is what most do. There isn't transport.

  2. youre allowed to break the rules of shabbos for things related to health

  3. one's religious beliefs shouldn't dictate the care of other people.

There is no reason the religious beliefs of one person should be put before someone's else's desire to also be home with their new baby. We don't do that for any other religion..we don't ask the Christian women if they need to get to church on a Sunday and discharge them first.

Maybe it varies but my Orthodox friend wouldn't use transport on Shabbos even if the driver wasn't Jewish. I was told this even included getting someone unable to walk to Synagogue. Maybe that is at the extreme end of things, I have another Jewish friend who describes herself as a secular Jew so she isn't religious at all but follows some traditions, so a bit like people who aren't pracitcing Christian celebrating Christmas and Easter. She'd have no problem with driving or using a taxi on Shabbos.

I would hope the rule was breakable if someone needed to get to hospital if they are unwell, I'm not sure if getting home when you are well would always be considered health related.

I would imagine a busy hospital would want to make sure they could discharge people who no longer needed to be there.

NoYAgenda · 29/09/2025 08:53

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/09/2025 08:32

I imagine the established 'laws of the land' rather than sharia law?

Sharia Law needs to be purged from this country, for the safety of women and girls we need to fight back on every front.

AMillionTomorrows · 29/09/2025 08:55

Vindictive because you are purposely conflating your experiences with a very extreme religious sect with the entire Jewish community, on a thread about dress codes at a modern orthodox school which are nothing to do with the religious codes you have mentioned (tights for 3 year olds, brothers and sisters not touching). It has been pointed out to you more than once but you continue to refer to they and them as if you are talking about the same communities or about Jews in general. When a Jewish person has told you that attitudes like yours would make them withhold information about their ethnicity in a healthcare setting your response is to say “more fool you”. You are coming across as deeply unpleasant and anti semitic and if that makes you shrug or think anything about Jews in general it only confirms my suspicions.

You have also gone from saying bad behaviour from Jews (again not specifying the community) is tolerated because they are white, yet Jewish history shows that we have been persecuted for hundreds of years due to not being white enough.

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 08:56

TheignT · 29/09/2025 08:43

Maybe it varies but my Orthodox friend wouldn't use transport on Shabbos even if the driver wasn't Jewish. I was told this even included getting someone unable to walk to Synagogue. Maybe that is at the extreme end of things, I have another Jewish friend who describes herself as a secular Jew so she isn't religious at all but follows some traditions, so a bit like people who aren't pracitcing Christian celebrating Christmas and Easter. She'd have no problem with driving or using a taxi on Shabbos.

I would hope the rule was breakable if someone needed to get to hospital if they are unwell, I'm not sure if getting home when you are well would always be considered health related.

I would imagine a busy hospital would want to make sure they could discharge people who no longer needed to be there.

No no, we work with an ultra orthodox community. They dont even push buggies on Shabbos. But it is clear that where health is an issue, you can break the rules of Shabbos. However, you dont usually need to do that by driving yourself due to firm links with local taxi companies. We have some numbers behind the desk in the wards in case people don't have them.

Getting home with your new baby would be counted as a health issue if there was seriously no other way you could take them home without driving. Most would liase with their rabbi first but as I said, it isnt necessary due to links with taxi firms and it is accepted this is how you leave the hospital on Shabbos. Staying longer than you need to is actually also wrong because you can be at more risk of infection etc by staying longer than you need to. So to balance the sanctity of life vs not performing labour on Shabbos, a taxi is seen as the most reasonable compromise.

We work very, very closely with hasidic communities to meet their needs.

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 09:01

AMillionTomorrows · 29/09/2025 08:55

Vindictive because you are purposely conflating your experiences with a very extreme religious sect with the entire Jewish community, on a thread about dress codes at a modern orthodox school which are nothing to do with the religious codes you have mentioned (tights for 3 year olds, brothers and sisters not touching). It has been pointed out to you more than once but you continue to refer to they and them as if you are talking about the same communities or about Jews in general. When a Jewish person has told you that attitudes like yours would make them withhold information about their ethnicity in a healthcare setting your response is to say “more fool you”. You are coming across as deeply unpleasant and anti semitic and if that makes you shrug or think anything about Jews in general it only confirms my suspicions.

You have also gone from saying bad behaviour from Jews (again not specifying the community) is tolerated because they are white, yet Jewish history shows that we have been persecuted for hundreds of years due to not being white enough.

So when there is a thread about Muslims and people bring up the extremes of Sharia, is that also totally unreasonable? This is an orthodox school that not only has extreme rules for children, it attempts to control how visitors are dressed on site. That is pretty full on.

CurlewKate · 29/09/2025 09:41

NoYAgenda · 29/09/2025 08:53

Sharia Law needs to be purged from this country, for the safety of women and girls we need to fight back on every front.

Tell me about the extent of Sharia law in this country.

stomachamelon · 29/09/2025 10:07

@AMillionTomorrowsagreed and continuing to. Then backtracking when they think they have gone too far.

It’s thinly veiled unsemitism.

Yadsevet · 29/09/2025 10:17

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 09:01

So when there is a thread about Muslims and people bring up the extremes of Sharia, is that also totally unreasonable? This is an orthodox school that not only has extreme rules for children, it attempts to control how visitors are dressed on site. That is pretty full on.

Trust me it’s really really not full on. What this school is asking parents to do is not wear v short skirts and to not wear sleeveless low cut tops. For the chukdren they want the girls in skirts. You can see for yourself on their website that the girls are wearing ankle socks and normal length skirts. Equally it’s a co-ed school. It bears not even the slightest resemblance to the ultra orthodox community you’re obviously familiar with.

It’s perfectly possible to disagree with the ethos of the school and to think that it’s silly but this is a mainstream primary school. The ultra orthodox wouldn’t even consider it Jewish much less send their kids there

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 10:54

Yadsevet · 29/09/2025 10:17

Trust me it’s really really not full on. What this school is asking parents to do is not wear v short skirts and to not wear sleeveless low cut tops. For the chukdren they want the girls in skirts. You can see for yourself on their website that the girls are wearing ankle socks and normal length skirts. Equally it’s a co-ed school. It bears not even the slightest resemblance to the ultra orthodox community you’re obviously familiar with.

It’s perfectly possible to disagree with the ethos of the school and to think that it’s silly but this is a mainstream primary school. The ultra orthodox wouldn’t even consider it Jewish much less send their kids there

Yes telling visitors what to wear is full on. There is no 2 ways about it. Instructing visitors to dress in accordance with your religious beliefs is full on.

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 11:00

stomachamelon · 29/09/2025 10:07

@AMillionTomorrowsagreed and continuing to. Then backtracking when they think they have gone too far.

It’s thinly veiled unsemitism.

I most certainly have not backtracked on anything. I do think it is wrong that hospitals often prioritise Jewish patients for discharge around Shabbos to the detriment of other patients. We do not do this for any other religious beliefs. Most Jewish people do identify as white, even when they could choose something other than white. That is proven by statistics.

Antisemitism isn't just calling out problems that occur in communities or every mention of grooming gangs would be islamophobia. We can see by the numerous threads on Muslims that is not seen that way on this site, so why would talking about what happens in Jewish communities, backed up by facts, qualify as such?

25milesfromhome · 29/09/2025 11:15

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 08:56

No no, we work with an ultra orthodox community. They dont even push buggies on Shabbos. But it is clear that where health is an issue, you can break the rules of Shabbos. However, you dont usually need to do that by driving yourself due to firm links with local taxi companies. We have some numbers behind the desk in the wards in case people don't have them.

Getting home with your new baby would be counted as a health issue if there was seriously no other way you could take them home without driving. Most would liase with their rabbi first but as I said, it isnt necessary due to links with taxi firms and it is accepted this is how you leave the hospital on Shabbos. Staying longer than you need to is actually also wrong because you can be at more risk of infection etc by staying longer than you need to. So to balance the sanctity of life vs not performing labour on Shabbos, a taxi is seen as the most reasonable compromise.

We work very, very closely with hasidic communities to meet their needs.

I really, really don't think you should be working very, very closely with any Jewish community or, in fact, at all.

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 11:21

25milesfromhome · 29/09/2025 11:15

I really, really don't think you should be working very, very closely with any Jewish community or, in fact, at all.

Yet I'm often requested as the midwife by both women and their birth supporters from the community. Who do you think I'll listen to? Them? Or some person on Mumsnet who can't be objective and refuses to listen to research?

Exactly.

Antisemitism my arse.

Pharazon · 29/09/2025 11:27

RawBloomers · 28/09/2025 15:51

You didn’t say that, but it’s your position, nevertheless. You are saying that the equality act should not apply to the school. That it’s okay for a public or commercial institution to disadvantage women and girls because it’s part of the religious belief that formed its foundation.

She's right though, large parts of the Equality Act don't apply to schools. There are multiple exceptions listed in Chapter 6 and Schedule 11.

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/09/2025 11:43

LoftyRobin · 29/09/2025 08:37

Vindictive because I don't believe someone's religious beliefs should influence the care of other service users? Okay.

You've been going on about jews being 'white' and therefore getting preferential treatment to 'brown' people ( in your view).

Swipe left for the next trending thread