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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bristol Council insists women be called ‘people with ovaries’

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IwantToRetire · 23/09/2025 20:24

The comments were made in a 39-page response to a consultation by the Equality and Human Rights Commission (EHRC) on updates to its guidance, following the ruling that sex in equality laws refers to biological sex.

It wrote that “not all pregnant individuals would use the pronouns ‘she/her’” so it could lead to “emotional and psychological distress” for “trans men, non-binary, gender diverse or intersex individuals”.

“We strongly advise the use of more inclusive language such as using ‘they/them’ to refer to all individuals, or include other identities to reflect the diversity of individuals who access maternity or paternity services,” officials said.

“This could include ‘people with ovaries’ or the term ‘people who use paternity services’. We also recognise that individuals may not identify with the word maternity and prefer paternity as it is gender neutral.

“Additionally, it is unclear what support will be available to trans people who chest-feed to ensure they are protected from discrimination.”
Protections based on biological sex are “too vague”, the response added, as: “It is unclear whether it refers to anyone capable of pregnancy, or only those who were assigned female at birth.”

Council officials complained that the new guidance implies that “trans women are not ‘really’ women” and risked “creating a hostile environment in public services”.

Full article at https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/09/22/council-says-women-called-people-with-ovaries/

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:21

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:18

There are. But it is also important to include them in general services so people don't think they have to go to the special queer services. That's why we changed language to include same sex parents.

They are included in general services.

Their GPs should be saying to them, "I understand that you identify as a man/non-binary, but you have a female body and still need female healthcare, such as cervical screening. Would you like a leaflet about cervical screening for trans and non-binary people?" and then they can print off a special version of the leaflet for women who are upset about being referred to as women.

This would avoid reducing the effectiveness of the communication designed for the female population as a whole.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:21

RedToothBrush · 25/09/2025 11:19

You know that arrogance that defines the Lanyards Who Don't Listen....

Well done on providing a Fine Example of The Problem.

YES it matters what you normalise - it impacts on everyone.

Language matters for this reason. Normal language should be used so it doesn't undermine everyone else's care. That means women. None of the rest of the bullshit necessary.

If you then choose to take a different approach for individual patients then you do this - thats how you normally deal with more complex cases.

You don't go around producing leaflets saying 'you can chose to have a vb or a cs' or cavating everything with mental health considerations do you? You have a default approach and anyone who falls outside that then gets individual care as appropriate. You don't shove these additional considerations down everyone elses necks.

Not only that but normalising this 'inclusive' language, also means you fail to have difficult conversations where appropriate because you have already created egg shells of problems where they didn't exist. Because you have legitimises the concept of 'trauma' about mentioning sex. Thus it becomes self fulfilling.

There is an element to anixety, where you have to have exposure but that exposure comes with support. Thats the difference. There is this pandering to the anxiety rather than offering actual support misses the point. You fail people by doing this - you have to acknowledge the anxiety head on. Using pronouns isn't support btw. Its just using pronouns.

And there is a third party minor involved who SHOULD be learning about the concept of sex for their own wellbeing. Saying sex doesn't matter and allowing a generation of indoctrinated children to not understand this puts them at considerable risk.

So no. Stop patronising, start listening to patients telling you that this 'inclusive' language being used across the board in inappropriate settings IS harmful and if you must use it, it should be confined to those individual patients as part of their individual care rather than imposing it on everyone else because its not in the best interests of the mjority of your patients. You are throwing the rest of your patients under the bus in this misguided abusive notion that we should all hail the pronouns and gender language.

NO.

This conversation is not 'taking it to a level' above anyone. If it is that smacks of the heart of the problem where women are not involved in their care and how they are treated at an institutional level. Its top down paternalism where women are told their place and that they are too stupid to understand and we the enlightened understand things beyond you. Which is utter bullshit. THIS IN ITSELF IS HARMFUL AS IT UNDERMINES PATIENT TRUST IN HEALTHCARE PROVIDERS. You are creating a harm RIGHT THERE.

How dare you suggest this to any poster.

You demonstrate my previous point about disrepute finely and accurately.

No. This is not right. This is woman hating, punching down bullshit that hurts our interests.

This is all incoherent rambling. Maybe calm down and rephrase it all. I'll give it another shot when you do. All I can see is that we dont have leaflets that tell people that they can choose their birth mode..we most definitely do.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:23

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:18

You added the commas

Edited

At least I didn't add five superfluous, nonsensical words which obscure the meaning of the sentence and dilute the effectiveness of the communication for everyone else.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:23

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:21

They are included in general services.

Their GPs should be saying to them, "I understand that you identify as a man/non-binary, but you have a female body and still need female healthcare, such as cervical screening. Would you like a leaflet about cervical screening for trans and non-binary people?" and then they can print off a special version of the leaflet for women who are upset about being referred to as women.

This would avoid reducing the effectiveness of the communication designed for the female population as a whole.

Why do they need to say you have a female body? Why can't they say you have a cervix? Can you see how you constantly want to enforce your views that they are a woman/female etc and it is totally unnecessary to inform them of their eligibility for screening?

RedToothBrush · 25/09/2025 11:23

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:21

This is all incoherent rambling. Maybe calm down and rephrase it all. I'll give it another shot when you do. All I can see is that we dont have leaflets that tell people that they can choose their birth mode..we most definitely do.

I'm calling Bad Faith at this point.

This poster has literally just said

'Calm Down Dear'.

Bad Faith.

I do not need to comment further because you demonstrate my point just so well.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:24

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:23

At least I didn't add five superfluous, nonsensical words which obscure the meaning of the sentence and dilute the effectiveness of the communication for everyone else.

Edited

No I really didn't. Its directly from the NHs page I linked. Even when it comes to women, only those with a cervix need attend.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:24

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:23

Why do they need to say you have a female body? Why can't they say you have a cervix? Can you see how you constantly want to enforce your views that they are a woman/female etc and it is totally unnecessary to inform them of their eligibility for screening?

BECAUSE DOCTORS NEED TO DEALING IN REALITY AND NOT PEOPLE'S IMAGINARY IDENTITIES.

You cannot give or receive effective sex based healthcare without acknowledging what sex the patient is.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:24

RedToothBrush · 25/09/2025 11:23

I'm calling Bad Faith at this point.

This poster has literally just said

'Calm Down Dear'.

Bad Faith.

I do not need to comment further because you demonstrate my point just so well.

Yes because youre not making any sense at all. If you want me to respond to your posts, they have to be readable.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:25

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:24

No I really didn't. Its directly from the NHs page I linked. Even when it comes to women, only those with a cervix need attend.

Uh huh.

I said "I didn't". Not "you did".

Accurate language isn't your forte, is it?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:25

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:24

Yes because youre not making any sense at all. If you want me to respond to your posts, they have to be readable.

The irony.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:26

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:24

BECAUSE DOCTORS NEED TO DEALING IN REALITY AND NOT PEOPLE'S IMAGINARY IDENTITIES.

You cannot give or receive effective sex based healthcare without acknowledging what sex the patient is.

You're proving my point. Youre more interested in enforcing your views than ensuring people at risk of cervical cancer have screening. That's why you could never be a HCP. Youre too invested in your own point of view to provide good healthcare.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:26

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:25

Uh huh.

I said "I didn't". Not "you did".

Accurate language isn't your forte, is it?

No i am saying the quote you are talking about wasnt constructed by me, it is off of the NHs cervical screening site.

TheGreatWesternShrew · 25/09/2025 11:27

Paternity means father… how is ‘male’ now gender neutral?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:27

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:26

You're proving my point. Youre more interested in enforcing your views than ensuring people at risk of cervical cancer have screening. That's why you could never be a HCP. Youre too invested in your own point of view to provide good healthcare.

Part of providing good healthcare to trans identifying people is making sure they understand that they have not changed sex.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:27

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:26

No i am saying the quote you are talking about wasnt constructed by me, it is off of the NHs cervical screening site.

I didn't say you wrote it.

I said it is unclear and that adding all these unnecessary words reduces the effectiveness of the communication.

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 11:31

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:15

Men arent idiots either.

I think the crux if the question you maybe want to.ask but cant quite get there is whether whatever they create during a sex change is a cervix.

Interesting question. Is it? There are some women who need to have a cervix created surgically through grafts. Are these really a cervix?

If the ones created in a sex change surgery are surgically similar to the ones created for women without a functional cervix, would that mean they are both not a cervix, or both a cervix? Or can they still be different.

What I really care about is whether either demographic of person who has a cervix created are at increased risk of localised cancer. That to me would.determine their eligibility for routine screening and therefore, the language used in literature.

We already know that trans men and non binary people with a natal cervix are at increased risk, hence the language to include them.

Are you saying David Lammy is not a man oh that he is usually idiotic?

I think the crux if the question you maybe want to.ask but cant quite get there is whether whatever they create during a sex change is a cervix.

No, I know this, and it isn't.

https://genderblog.net/what-exactly-is-a-neo-vagina-then/

I don't know whether the end of a neovagina is susceptible to cancer, or whether smear tests are appropriate, but it is not a cervix. From what I understand there is in increased concern about the impact of the HPV virus on cancers in men (e.g. throat cancer) and if more screening can prevent that then great.

I'm not going to get precious about parts of the body. I have had bits of my body removed because of cancer, and it didn't change my sex.

What exactly is a neovagina, then?

I was recently contacted by an NHS doctor who is concerned about gender ideology and its capture of his profession. Let’s call him Dr J. Following retirement from full time work, Dr J is curr…

https://genderblog.net/what-exactly-is-a-neo-vagina-then/

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:32

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:27

I didn't say you wrote it.

I said it is unclear and that adding all these unnecessary words reduces the effectiveness of the communication.

Only if youre not very bright. Most people would see woman and consider whether they have a cervix and known they are eligible. If have thought the degree educated population of Mumsnet would have had better comprehension skills.

borntobequiet · 25/09/2025 11:33

RedToothBrush · 25/09/2025 11:23

I'm calling Bad Faith at this point.

This poster has literally just said

'Calm Down Dear'.

Bad Faith.

I do not need to comment further because you demonstrate my point just so well.

Once again, this thread is useful because it exposes all the false arguments, wilful misinterpretation and general overreach of the proponents of genderism.
I rather doubt the credentials of our genderist midwife, but if she is indeed a midwife, her dogmatism is rather alarming.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:34

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 11:31

Are you saying David Lammy is not a man oh that he is usually idiotic?

I think the crux if the question you maybe want to.ask but cant quite get there is whether whatever they create during a sex change is a cervix.

No, I know this, and it isn't.

https://genderblog.net/what-exactly-is-a-neo-vagina-then/

I don't know whether the end of a neovagina is susceptible to cancer, or whether smear tests are appropriate, but it is not a cervix. From what I understand there is in increased concern about the impact of the HPV virus on cancers in men (e.g. throat cancer) and if more screening can prevent that then great.

I'm not going to get precious about parts of the body. I have had bits of my body removed because of cancer, and it didn't change my sex.

So that is really the crux, are this demographic more suspectible to cancer that could be detected by routine smear tests. If they are, then you guys don't have any point at all.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:36

borntobequiet · 25/09/2025 11:33

Once again, this thread is useful because it exposes all the false arguments, wilful misinterpretation and general overreach of the proponents of genderism.
I rather doubt the credentials of our genderist midwife, but if she is indeed a midwife, her dogmatism is rather alarming.

Ive said several times what my personal beliefs are, I've also stated that they have nothing to do with my obligation to deliver midwifery care. That's what you don't seem to understand. The concept that you might have to refrain from sharing your views in the workplace and just do your job..

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:36

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:32

Only if youre not very bright. Most people would see woman and consider whether they have a cervix and known they are eligible. If have thought the degree educated population of Mumsnet would have had better comprehension skills.

Guess what? Lots of people who need to know this information are not very bright.

The job of the writer is to write it in such a way that ensures that even the most stupid person can understand it.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:37

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:34

So that is really the crux, are this demographic more suspectible to cancer that could be detected by routine smear tests. If they are, then you guys don't have any point at all.

What evidence do you have to suggest that they are more susceptible to these types of cancer?

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:40

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:37

What evidence do you have to suggest that they are more susceptible to these types of cancer?

I dont. I have no idea. My point is that IF they are, then there is no reason that screening and therefore recruitment, shouldn't be expanded to include them. Would mean more language change.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:40

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 11:36

Guess what? Lots of people who need to know this information are not very bright.

The job of the writer is to write it in such a way that ensures that even the most stupid person can understand it.

I think you're concern trolling tbh.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:41

Look, just admit that what you want is for HCPs to forcibly insist to trans people that their identity is invalid. Even when they've shown up with a broken toe.

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