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Defiant nuns flee care home for their abandoned convent in the Alps

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IwantToRetire · 13/09/2025 19:15

Three Austrian nuns in their 80s have run away from the retirement home where they were placed and gone back to their former convent.

Sister Bernadette, 88, Sister Regina, 86, and Sister Rita, 82, are the last three nuns at the Kloster Goldenstein convent in Elsbethen, just outside Salzburg.

They regained access with the help of former students and a locksmith.

Church authorities are not happy - but the nuns are.

"I am so pleased to be home," Sister Rita said. "I was always homesick at the care home. I am so happy and thankful to be back."

The trio say they were taken out of the convent against their will in December 2023.

continues at https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y8r2gk0vyo

The Nun's Liberation Movement !!

Three nuns stand in front of the monastery in their habits, with Sister Rita on the left and Sister Regina in the centre both wearing glasses

Defiant nuns flee Austrian care home for their abandoned convent in the Alps

Sisters Bernadette, Regina and Rita needed a locksmith to get back into their convent, defying Church leaders.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y8r2gk0vyo

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EvelynBeatrice · 14/09/2025 07:32

roseyposey · 13/09/2025 23:04

There have to be some rewards for a life of chastity 😝

This is a lovely light thread and you’re casting a sour note. Shame!

I’m not a Catholic. However, I thought that it was the ‘job’ of some orders to live a contemplative life of prayer. Given the horrors of the world, I rather like to think of a community of holy individuals who spend their time praying for good. In that sense, they are benefiting their community.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/09/2025 08:49

These nuns had clearly been teachers (ones whose students now are happy to help look after them). Would they really have received no salary at all for that in this day and age? Wouldn’t they have been individually entitled to some sort of state pension?
Idk how these monastic orders work but if I was running one and didn’t want to be accused of being a financially abusive cult I’d make sure members had the financial ability to leave should they wish.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/09/2025 08:49

EvelynBeatrice · 14/09/2025 07:32

I’m not a Catholic. However, I thought that it was the ‘job’ of some orders to live a contemplative life of prayer. Given the horrors of the world, I rather like to think of a community of holy individuals who spend their time praying for good. In that sense, they are benefiting their community.

Well, they’re not they just think they are.

LaundryGarden · 14/09/2025 08:54

ErrolTheDragon · 14/09/2025 08:49

These nuns had clearly been teachers (ones whose students now are happy to help look after them). Would they really have received no salary at all for that in this day and age? Wouldn’t they have been individually entitled to some sort of state pension?
Idk how these monastic orders work but if I was running one and didn’t want to be accused of being a financially abusive cult I’d make sure members had the financial ability to leave should they wish.

If they taught in a school run by their order, no salary, no. If they worked for an external organisation, any money earned goes to the order. But you’re given money to help you set up on leaving, or, if you arrived with a ‘dowry’, it’s returned to you. No idea about state pension.

Abhannmor · 14/09/2025 09:00

Go sisters!

This reminds me of a similar case in Belgium years ago. The nuns were given eviction notice from their convent which was to be sold by the church. They took legal advice and found the property belonged to their order rather than the diocese. So they sold up and moved to sunny Spain together. They even bought a special ambulance to take one of the sisters who was too ill to fly. Nuns are badass.

Igneococcus · 14/09/2025 09:39

Austria (and Germany) have contribution based welfare systems. I wonder if convent run schools have to contribute to the various welfare systems for their staff who are members of the order, certainly they will have health insurance at the very least. You could make it a condition for being allowed to run a school. They will have to contribute for their staff who aren't nuns anyway. It would make sense, but then many things that would make sense to me aren't implemented.

VaddaABeetch · 14/09/2025 09:42

roseyposey · 13/09/2025 20:18

Oh yes please

Happy to potter around the veg patch and snip the roses if I can look up at the mountain scenery. Plum dumplings as mentioned upthread would be a bonus.

Although not sure about the chastity aspect, perhaps a window of a few hours a week when we can have a lover to visit?!?

Sorry no men allowed in the convent unless necessary tradesmrn

You are welcome to leave the convent for overnight stays elsewhere!

NoBinturongsHereMate · 14/09/2025 09:52

ErrolTheDragon · 14/09/2025 08:49

These nuns had clearly been teachers (ones whose students now are happy to help look after them). Would they really have received no salary at all for that in this day and age? Wouldn’t they have been individually entitled to some sort of state pension?
Idk how these monastic orders work but if I was running one and didn’t want to be accused of being a financially abusive cult I’d make sure members had the financial ability to leave should they wish.

If they're in their 80s, they would probably have joined the order about 60 years ago and may have retired from active work within the order 20 or more years ago. So 'in this day and age' and modern rules on minimum wage, employer pension contributions etc don't really apply.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/09/2025 16:39

If you’ve not seen it yet here’s a thread casting Nuns on the Run
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5410483-this-will-warm-your-cockles-3-nuns-on-the-run-in-austria?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=app_share

IwantToRetire · 14/09/2025 18:56

Abhannmor · 14/09/2025 09:00

Go sisters!

This reminds me of a similar case in Belgium years ago. The nuns were given eviction notice from their convent which was to be sold by the church. They took legal advice and found the property belonged to their order rather than the diocese. So they sold up and moved to sunny Spain together. They even bought a special ambulance to take one of the sisters who was too ill to fly. Nuns are badass.

Fantastic.

Part of what I like about both stories is that despite what might have been difficult times, or getting aggravated (in a quiet contemplative way), they seem to still like each other.

Or at least get on well enough to want to live together.

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NotAtMyAge · 14/09/2025 19:11

Mischance · 13/09/2025 22:48

Yup ... I hold my hand up to that. A convent round here has built itself a huge posh building with fabulous views in lovely grounds and the nuns do nothing for the community ... just live off the vast riches of the catholic church. Nice work if you can get it .....

Where's that? Never-never-land? The nuns I've been fortunate enough to get to know in my now longish life live very simply and work hard, even in old age.

NotAtMyAge · 14/09/2025 19:19

MarieDeGournay · 13/09/2025 23:58

They look weird - most nuns haven't worn those old-style habits for decades, these days they tend to wear sensible skirts and cardis, and no veil.
Maybe these ones have broken out the old habits to look more photogenic...

It's interest to read posters saying they'd like to join them in their convent - becoming a nun was the only way out of compulsory marriage and annual childbirths for girls in Ireland in the past, and also the only way to get teacher training or a university education, which most families couldn't afford.

Obviously there were pretty serious downsides - chastity probably wasn't the worst of them for some nuns, given the alternatives on offer - but it was a choice which gave women a degree of protection, independence from men on a day-to-day basis, educational opportunities and a job.

In the fields of education and nursing, a lot of them did a good job. Obviously nuns are a mixed bunch, and there are negative stories, but many of us convent girls can remember teaching nuns who encouraged and inspired us.

As a previous poster said: underestimate nuns at your peril!

It's interesting that religious orders putting old nuns in retirement homes is unpopular here in Ireland for a different reason - the feeling is that the orders should be paying reparation to the residents of institutions instead of providing comfy homes for old nuns...

Yes, most orders have simplified their habits or adopted more modern clothing, but not all. Some more conservative orders have held onto their traditional habits, especially on the continent or in the US. Interestingly a few at least of these are actually growing and attracting younger entrants.

ForestAtTheSea · 14/09/2025 22:48

Austrian media has more information:
https://salzburg.orf.at/stories/3321288/

Main points:
They were in a catholic care home in a nearby town:
Seniorenresidenz Schloss Kahlsperg in Oberalm (Tennengau)

Now they have medical care through a GP who has her surgery at the same castle (I assume there are several buildings etc)
Food: deliveries through helpers, evening meal cooked by themselves, they used to have a kitchen which was removed in the meantime and which they want back

One nun needs oxygen, another is diabetic

Also removed since they moved out were additional toilets / shower rooms (why?), which they demand back, too.

They had 4 stairlifts in the buildings, which were all removed, and they demand them back, too.

I don't understand why you'd remove parts of rooms when the next use for the building isn't clear yet

There is a dispute about whether you can adapt their building or not; the bishop etc say you can't; but they insist you can and that they didn't refuse adaptation for their needs 3 years ago

Now the church higher-ups say they wouldn't invest any funds for adaptation anymore, all their needs would be taken care of at the care home.

When they moved, the monastery was transferred to an augustinian foundation, and the connected school to the arch diocese of Salzburg.

The previous agreement states that the nuns were allowed to stay as long as it was "justifiable" regarding their health situation. Two of the three were hospitalized before the care home, and then someone (?) made the decision that they couldn't stay there anymore. Possibly they moved everyone so that they could stay together, and realistically one person shouldn't live alone there.

They have a teacher's pension but currently can't access it.

It's a great story, and it is likely that the new owners have financial interests and don't want them living there anymore. If someone lived somewhere 60+ years, it surely is difficult to let that go. There is a danger of de-skilling in care homes, too, when they could do cooking and other tasks by themselves.

On the other hand, when their health varies and one will become more ill, then you will end up with the situation that only 1-2 persons might be left, while the other has to move back to the care home. This will break up their group, too. And the longer they wait with the move, the harder it will be to get used to the new surroundings.

Another aspect which might be important to to them being nuns, is that they are used to a much much calmer environment than a care home is, and that it just drives them crazy, and I can understand that as well.

ScrollingLeaves · 14/09/2025 23:02

It was so nice to see how they were sitting down to eat with everything perfectly laid out - even a table cloth. They evidently still know how to live with simple disciplines.

How sweet they were wheeling along and helping each other. Recently I realised that nuns were in many ways not repressed, but on the contrary, free independent women often pursuing interesting activities.

ScrollingLeaves · 14/09/2025 23:05

ForestAtTheSea · 14/09/2025 22:48

Austrian media has more information:
https://salzburg.orf.at/stories/3321288/

Main points:
They were in a catholic care home in a nearby town:
Seniorenresidenz Schloss Kahlsperg in Oberalm (Tennengau)

Now they have medical care through a GP who has her surgery at the same castle (I assume there are several buildings etc)
Food: deliveries through helpers, evening meal cooked by themselves, they used to have a kitchen which was removed in the meantime and which they want back

One nun needs oxygen, another is diabetic

Also removed since they moved out were additional toilets / shower rooms (why?), which they demand back, too.

They had 4 stairlifts in the buildings, which were all removed, and they demand them back, too.

I don't understand why you'd remove parts of rooms when the next use for the building isn't clear yet

There is a dispute about whether you can adapt their building or not; the bishop etc say you can't; but they insist you can and that they didn't refuse adaptation for their needs 3 years ago

Now the church higher-ups say they wouldn't invest any funds for adaptation anymore, all their needs would be taken care of at the care home.

When they moved, the monastery was transferred to an augustinian foundation, and the connected school to the arch diocese of Salzburg.

The previous agreement states that the nuns were allowed to stay as long as it was "justifiable" regarding their health situation. Two of the three were hospitalized before the care home, and then someone (?) made the decision that they couldn't stay there anymore. Possibly they moved everyone so that they could stay together, and realistically one person shouldn't live alone there.

They have a teacher's pension but currently can't access it.

It's a great story, and it is likely that the new owners have financial interests and don't want them living there anymore. If someone lived somewhere 60+ years, it surely is difficult to let that go. There is a danger of de-skilling in care homes, too, when they could do cooking and other tasks by themselves.

On the other hand, when their health varies and one will become more ill, then you will end up with the situation that only 1-2 persons might be left, while the other has to move back to the care home. This will break up their group, too. And the longer they wait with the move, the harder it will be to get used to the new surroundings.

Another aspect which might be important to to them being nuns, is that they are used to a much much calmer environment than a care home is, and that it just drives them crazy, and I can understand that as well.

I don't understand why you'd remove parts of rooms when the next use for the building isn't clear yet

To be able to keep the nuns out.

ForestAtTheSea · 14/09/2025 23:08

I think I know now where their money is. If they live in a care home, their pensions might pay for it, plus assistance (either from the church or from the health insurance or the state), as usually care home costs are much higher than most pensions.
You would need to officially end that care home contract, which doesn't happen overnight, and then they could access their pension money afterwards. But I imagine the paperwork will take a while.

ScrollingLeaves · 14/09/2025 23:15

Mischance · 13/09/2025 20:45

Well who is paying their electricity bill or their food bill? Anywhere else old women would be paying for their care and day to day expenses. I have no patience with nuns - they are just spongers.

Anything but.

IwantToRetire · 15/09/2025 00:33

I liked this bit in another article:

Provost Markus Grasl, who has been responsible for the women since 2022, reacted with irritation. He is worried about the women: "It is completely incomprehensible to me why the sisters have left the church-run retirement home ad hoc, as they are embedded in a community there and, above all, receive absolutely necessary, professional and good medical care."

Think I have now found their instagram account https://www.instagram.com/nonnen_goldenstein

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/accounts/login/?next=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fnonnen_goldenstein%2F&is_from_rle

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crumpet · 15/09/2025 09:03

murasaki · 13/09/2025 23:39

Actually I might sub out Judi Dench for Stephanie Cole who played Diana in Waiting for God, she was a battleaxe.

Also Carolyn in Cabin Pressure who I adore!

Abhannmor · 15/09/2025 09:35

LaundryGarden · 13/09/2025 21:03

There’s always one.

Yes. No plum pudding for you. And say three Hail Marys. 🙏

Shineonyoucrazy · 15/09/2025 09:59

@MumChpwell that’s their own decision really isn’t it?

Toddlerteaplease · 15/09/2025 10:13

This is not going to end well. If they actually do need proper care. The adaptations they had previously have all been removed.
surprised that they weren’t moved to other convents rather than a care home, as people be usual practice in a situation where a convent closes, that bit makes no sense.

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:23

Mischance · 13/09/2025 22:48

Yup ... I hold my hand up to that. A convent round here has built itself a huge posh building with fabulous views in lovely grounds and the nuns do nothing for the community ... just live off the vast riches of the catholic church. Nice work if you can get it .....

These nuns are Augustinians i.e. teachers, and their nunnery is still an active Augustinian school.

LittleBitofBread · 15/09/2025 15:28

GlassofRosePorfavor · 13/09/2025 19:20

cant wait for the Netflix documentary 😂

I'm envisaging a drama rather than a doc.

LittleBitofBread · 15/09/2025 15:29

murasaki · 13/09/2025 23:39

Actually I might sub out Judi Dench for Stephanie Cole who played Diana in Waiting for God, she was a battleaxe.

DEFINITELY Stephanie Cole.
Atkins and Imrie are excellent choices for the other two.

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