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Abortion decriminalisation ‘undermines feminism’ - Kathleen Stock

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IwantToRetire · 19/06/2025 00:36

The historic vote has divided public opinion, with many welcoming the “hard-won victory” for women, and others warning that it goes too far.

Kathleen Stock, a former philosophy professor at the University of Sussex, who was forced to quit her job following a row with the institution over her views on gender rights and its transgender policy, was among those criticising the ruling.

“Late-term abortions kill babies,” she said. “Viable babies.”

Writing on X, formerly Twitter, she added: “There is no good case for full decriminalisation as voted for today. And there is no genuine political will for it either, because most people haven’t been slowly boiled in a vat of hyperliberal feminism and progressive technocracy like overheating frogs, until they can’t tell which way is up.

“All this will do is further undermine the legitimacy of <a class="break-all" href="https://archive.is/o/ThZhc/www.telegraph.co.uk/feminism/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">feminism generally (by association, even if some feminists are actually against it) and also undermine public trust in lawmakers (How could this have been decided so quickly without any proper consultation or discussion of a wide range of views? Why wasn’t it in the manifesto, if it is so important?).”

available in full at https://archive.is/ThZhc

Extracts from https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/06/18/abortion-decriminalisation-undermines-feminism/

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Flustration · 19/06/2025 15:48

Yes, I do in the sense that I think she has an ethical duty to seek medical care for the baby - the same as she would with any born children she may have. I think she also has an ethical duty to at least pick up a phone and dial 999 if she sees a stranger bleeding out on a pavement or whatever.

I also think a woman has an ethical duty to seek medical care in advance of birth if she can reasonably assume that a live baby will be born and that baby will require medical care - regardless of gestational age or whether the baby is wanted/unwanted.

I don't think she should be compelled to use her body to incubate a baby or to sustain another human life in any way (through bone marrow donation, for example). I also think that her life should be prioritised over the baby's until the point at which it is physically separate from her body - like in cases over severe shoulder dystocia for example, or a theoretical situation in which the baby needs to be born immediately but c-section would be a risk to the mother's health.

These positions are not set in stone. They are where I am at the moment.

Flustration · 19/06/2025 15:49

Merrymouse · 19/06/2025 14:30

Also just thinking about hypothetical positions, do you think the position changes at the point of birth, and that the mother (as defined in UK law) then has an ethical duty to ensure that the baby stays alive?

This is also compelling her to do something, on the basis that she may be the only other person present.

Sorry, meant to quote this in my post.

Livpool · 19/06/2025 15:59

FeralWoman · 19/06/2025 07:29

Babies at late term have unambiguous interests of their own. They are not just narcissistic extensions of mother. They are not parasites or invaders. They are human beings. They are dependent human beings and is weird to see feminists who talk about value of care and dependence become psychopathically detached about the value of the life of a dependent, viable baby because the mother doesn't want it. It sounds dementedly callous to try to deny the interests of babies in this sort of issue by defining them out of existence, or just ignoring the fact they do exist at all.

I disagree with KS. Until the foetus is born it doesn’t have rights or interests. It’s not a human being until it’s born. Foetal personhood means that the woman becomes an incubation vessel and loses her rights over her own body because the foetus’ rights and interests have to be considered too. The living, breathing woman’s interests and rights should always be the most important, and the only ones that should be considered. Foetal personhood is a slippery slope that leads to brain dead women being kept on life support to incubate a foetus to viability.

Yep - we aren’t just incubators

Jumpupjumphigh · 19/06/2025 16:13

TooSquaretobehip · 19/06/2025 04:56

Late term abortions aren't even a thing so what is this all about? Do people like Stock genuinely believe a woman risk her health with weight gain, high blood pressure, gestational diabetes, non-stop nausea and vomiting, back aches, preeclampsia, pelvic pain etc etc etc etc and let it go until say 37 weeks and then say 'nah, not bothering with it anymore'? I mean, it does not happen! Any abortions at that age is because the foetus has a severe non-survivable abnormality. And mother has to go through labor to get it out anyway.

This isn't even an issue. No abortions ever happen that late.

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So what's the problem with them being illegal then?

fiveIsNewOne · 19/06/2025 16:16

Jumpupjumphigh · 19/06/2025 16:13

So what's the problem with them being illegal then?

The issue is that late term miscarriage/stillbirth is a thing.

And to find the potential late term abortion, you would harass very existing women who haven't done anything wrong, just had the misfortune to lose the baby.

Arran2024 · 19/06/2025 16:43

MagicMichaeICaine · 19/06/2025 15:36

I don't think we can say this definitively. It sounds too much like the "it never happens" trans stuff which turned out to actually be happening a fair bit.

There are many reasons why a woman might suddenly decide she doesn't want the baby. Maybe she finds her loving husband in bed with her best friend and suddenly realises she'll be raising the baby alone. Maybe she never wanted it in the first place but was being coerced by an abusive partner - what if she finally escapes him and still doesn't want the baby?

There are many possibilities. I'm not saying we should or shouldn't allow it, just that we shouldn't start telling porkies to try and back up a viewpoint.

There are women who commission babies through surrogacy and don't them up because they have changed their minds or something has changed.

There are women who abuse or neglect their children even when they know it's wrong.

We cant assume that all pregnant women are doing all they can to have a successful pregnancy and outcome.

I find the comments about how vulnerable and desperate the women who go for late abortions are a bit infantilising. Where is the evidence that it's people like this who do it? Could it actually be steely, organised women with the organisational skills to go online, order drugs, take them at the time that suits them? Like Sarah Catt.

Zanibazar · 19/06/2025 20:13

Willowkins · 19/06/2025 01:39

Regardless of the view on abortion, late term or otherwise, I think this change to the law will protect future women who have miscarriages or stillbirth from being accused of murder, at a time when they're grieving and vulnerable. That's a good thing right?

Not if they killed their baby. Avoiding questionable investigations isn't a good reason to legalise murder.

Grammarnut · 19/06/2025 22:35

GrammarTeacher · 19/06/2025 15:35

A foetus doesn’t have legal personhood though (regardless on whether you say it has rights). The Soho bomber was not charged with the murder of the unborn child who died in his attack because there was no legal person involved.

He should have been charged with child destruction - that is the killing of a child in utero. Why was he not?

fiveIsNewOne · 19/06/2025 23:08

Zanibazar · 19/06/2025 20:13

Not if they killed their baby. Avoiding questionable investigations isn't a good reason to legalise murder.

Natural miscarriages/stillbirths will always happen. Which means dead foetuses in a "viable age" will appear. Sometimes without a clear reason.
Harassing those women is just wrong.

And, every woman have a natural right to eat, drink and treat herself medically as she wishes. It isn't illegal to smoke, drink, take medication not approved for pregnancy or do any other thing which can harm the foetus. Taking medication into her own body isn't a murder.

FlappySnaps · 19/06/2025 23:19

At the risk of falling into conspiracy theories I struggle to understand what the motivation around this vote was?

Despite the rights and wrongs it looked like a political lose/lose scenario due to how it would be reported.

A handful of vulnerable women aren't typically high on the political agenda?

Mollyollydolly · 19/06/2025 23:33

I thought this was very good from Sarah Ditum and I agree with it. The furore around this shows we should beware of unintended consequences in what was a largely settled matter.
https://unherd.com/2025/06/stella-creasys-fight-for-relevance/

Stella Creasy’s fight for relevance

https://unherd.com/2025/06/stella-creasys-fight-for-relevance/

Slothtoes · 19/06/2025 23:53

Whoah that is a serious hatchet job. It doesn’t make Sarah Ditum look great actually. Creasy only suggested an amendment that wasn’t popular. She’s not committed a crime.

I disagree totally with the idea that abortion law needs to be not touched for safekeeping.
That’s why Northern Irish women had to put up with decades of travel to mainland GB for their abortions- only if they had the means of do so of course. So many people love telling us not to ask for too much lest we upset the apple cart, when it’s women’s issues at stake. I don’t think it’s a tactic that’s serving women well.

Sausagenbacon · 20/06/2025 06:50

I thought the Ditum article was fine. I'm not keen on the concept of tone policing, but SC always seems incapable of understanding why anyone would disagree with her, unless they were of evil intent.
Plus she has been hopeless on Gender Issues. I know that shouldn't matter in the grand scheme of things, but it does to me.

GrammarTeacher · 20/06/2025 06:56

What should matter is the relentless campaign of harassment that SC and her constituency office have experienced from ‘pro-life’ campaigners.
The Spectator had an even worse article which used her motherhood as a reason she shouldn’t have that opinion. It’s all about controlling women into the perfect idea of motherhood.

Sausagenbacon · 20/06/2025 07:23

Did she speak up to support Rosie Duffield when she was harassed? No.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 20/06/2025 08:01

FlatWhiteExtraHot · 19/06/2025 08:44

On this thread though, most people who are against it are so because of women, not babies/foetuses or however they are regarded.

Women at risk of death due to unassisted childbirth.

Women’s mental health issues due to having no support during what is almost bound to be a traumatic process.

Women being coerced into having late term abortions due to a man thinking he has the right to decide a child’s sex.

On this thread, yes, and I have no problem with that.

Shortshriftandlethal · 20/06/2025 08:08

Livpool · 19/06/2025 15:59

Yep - we aren’t just incubators

And a mature foetus is not just a lump of tissue.

Shortshriftandlethal · 20/06/2025 08:10

Sausagenbacon · 20/06/2025 06:50

I thought the Ditum article was fine. I'm not keen on the concept of tone policing, but SC always seems incapable of understanding why anyone would disagree with her, unless they were of evil intent.
Plus she has been hopeless on Gender Issues. I know that shouldn't matter in the grand scheme of things, but it does to me.

Yes, anything that Stella Creasy proposes needs full scrutiny.

Slothtoes · 20/06/2025 09:32

I don’t have any opinion on Creasy as a person, I don’t know her or particularly pay attention to what she’s doing. But that was a personal attack of an article. If we strip out the mean stuff, Ditum seems to be saying that abortion rights are fragile so women’s asks need to not be ‘extreme’ and we must let sleeping dogs lie for fear of worse consequences coming in future. If the worse consequences come, then if we asked for too much, it will be our own stupid fault.
This has been the basic line of the Tories and Labour for more decades than I can remember. Women! Stop asking for stuff. You don’t understand, you’ll put people off if you look greedy. You can maybe start talking about this after we’ve sorted out xyz.

So actually I respect anyone- however much of an ego they may or may not be - who is trying to make pro choice change or push the Overton window on abortion issues. That goes even if I disagree the specifics of their policy ideas. We should be able to openly have debates about abortion rights and women should be able to point out where things are wrong and what could be done better. Because over my lifetime, the dial for women’s rights around abortion has still been moving forward incredibly fucking slowly. Less than no attention is paid to it in research. Doctors who can do surgical abortions are retiring more than joining

So I think the time is long gone to meekly accept that we are lucky to have rights to abortion at all because some women don’t have that. We are no longer a majority religious society in the UK. What we are left with is a culturally misogynistic society in the UK. So let’s stop telling women not disagree with each other on policy issues in public because it’s making the cause look bad. Or that it might alienate people. Or we’re being too extreme. Women’s rights should be able to move forward with social and medical changes. They should not be held in the 1960s because some people might not like women. That’s not how rights works.

Shortshriftandlethal · 20/06/2025 09:46

I think the point is that abortion, in certain types of circumstance, isn't simply a 'women's rights' issue. It is a human issue; a moral issue and one that society does need to engage with.

My sense is that some people have been poking the bear....pushing the boundaries....and for no good reason. in doing so they are re-igniting controversy around a settled issue.

JeremiahBullfrog · 20/06/2025 09:52

If wider trends are anything to go by, this will affect female babies more than male ones. That's something feminists need to think about seriously, at the very least.

I'm not buying the "only desperate women would ever do this" argument either. You could make exactly the same argument for mothers killing their children at any age, but that doesn't mean it should be legal to kill your sixth-month-old or your six-year-old. Neither does the fact that such killings are mercifully very rare.

(I note these arguments are suspiciously similar to "no man would ever identify as a woman unless he was in serious distress" and "no trans woman has ever done anything bad": it's the same catastrophic conflation of rarity with impossibility.)

Now probably we need more compassion in police investigation of stillbirths and in sentencing for this sort of crime. But you do that by targeting these things directly, not passing some all-encompassing decriminalisation law without even the usual process of public and parliamentary debate.

It's a serious issue that has been hijacked by extremist MPs who have fallen prey to the US Democrat approach of just uncritically adopting the polar opposite to what the Republicans think, aided by their do-gooder buddies who will vote for anything if you tell them it's progressive.

Shortshriftandlethal · 20/06/2025 09:56

Some of the "my body, my choice" rhetoric is far too strident in my view; people carrying banners saying " parasites don't have rights" is just distasteful in the extreme.

Women do have to be their own moral arbiters when it comes to pregnancy.....but once the pregnancy develops beyond a certain point the issue is no longer so straightforward, and as moral beings we have to recognise that.

Animals, for example, don't automatically have rights: they have rights because we are moral beings and recognise that not everything in life is just about us and our desires alone. Women, naturally...courtesy of their intimate role in pregnancy, childbirth and as mothers are necessarily aligned with this fact.

"Women are not just incubators" goes the other way too.......and which is why issues around surrogacy are so heated. Nobody carries a pregnancy without being symbiolotically entwined on every level with that pregnancy...even if the dominant feelings towards it are of rejection.

Arran2024 · 20/06/2025 10:04

Slothtoes · 20/06/2025 09:32

I don’t have any opinion on Creasy as a person, I don’t know her or particularly pay attention to what she’s doing. But that was a personal attack of an article. If we strip out the mean stuff, Ditum seems to be saying that abortion rights are fragile so women’s asks need to not be ‘extreme’ and we must let sleeping dogs lie for fear of worse consequences coming in future. If the worse consequences come, then if we asked for too much, it will be our own stupid fault.
This has been the basic line of the Tories and Labour for more decades than I can remember. Women! Stop asking for stuff. You don’t understand, you’ll put people off if you look greedy. You can maybe start talking about this after we’ve sorted out xyz.

So actually I respect anyone- however much of an ego they may or may not be - who is trying to make pro choice change or push the Overton window on abortion issues. That goes even if I disagree the specifics of their policy ideas. We should be able to openly have debates about abortion rights and women should be able to point out where things are wrong and what could be done better. Because over my lifetime, the dial for women’s rights around abortion has still been moving forward incredibly fucking slowly. Less than no attention is paid to it in research. Doctors who can do surgical abortions are retiring more than joining

So I think the time is long gone to meekly accept that we are lucky to have rights to abortion at all because some women don’t have that. We are no longer a majority religious society in the UK. What we are left with is a culturally misogynistic society in the UK. So let’s stop telling women not disagree with each other on policy issues in public because it’s making the cause look bad. Or that it might alienate people. Or we’re being too extreme. Women’s rights should be able to move forward with social and medical changes. They should not be held in the 1960s because some people might not like women. That’s not how rights works.

There has been no debate though. Mps have taken advantage of what is basically a loophole here. They aren't changing the Abortion Act. They are decriminalising something via another Bill which just handily presented them with an opportunity. It wasn't in any manifesto and there is no evidence that the public want it, that the public share the unhappiness of pro abortion activists at prosecutions, that the public think that women should be able to choose to abort a child past 24 weeks.

PandoraSocks · 20/06/2025 10:12

Arran2024 · 20/06/2025 10:04

There has been no debate though. Mps have taken advantage of what is basically a loophole here. They aren't changing the Abortion Act. They are decriminalising something via another Bill which just handily presented them with an opportunity. It wasn't in any manifesto and there is no evidence that the public want it, that the public share the unhappiness of pro abortion activists at prosecutions, that the public think that women should be able to choose to abort a child past 24 weeks.

there is no evidence that the public want it

There was a yougov poll the other day that showed 55% were in favour of decriminalisation.

Abortion decriminalisation ‘undermines feminism’ - Kathleen Stock
Shortshriftandlethal · 20/06/2025 10:16

Ask any blunt and un-nuanced question and you tend to get a blunt and un-nuanced answer.

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