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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Women’s institute announcement

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Itsthecatsfault · 07/05/2025 15:32

Published earlier today.

Women’s institute announcement
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theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 09/05/2025 13:21

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 09/05/2025 12:52

See that’s where we disagree. Because of all the reasons I’ve outlined (which are more reasonable, rational and well understood than you’re all trying to gaslight me into believing) there absolutely is circumstances and ways the WI could still include trans women.

I know this is all about the WI, but I'm kind of bored with Schedule 16. What's your view on Schedule 3 26-27? Can you shoehorn opposite-sex people with GR back into those SSSs, and if so how?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 09/05/2025 13:23

NoBinturongsHereMate · 09/05/2025 13:07

They could also become a transwomen-only org and exclude women, or a trans-only organisation and exclude all.women except transmen.

What they can't do is remain a women's organisation and admit transwomen.

Ironically, (putting aside the question of whether these rules apply to associations or not) I think under the EA to be a TW-only org they'd need to be claiming exemption based on gender reassignment AND sex, and since SEX under the EA exemption rules means biological sex, that means an exemption to discriminate in favour of people with both the PC of male sex and gender reassignment.

spannasaurus · 09/05/2025 13:24

JamieCannister · 09/05/2025 13:19

Could a man not argue that he is being discrimated against because he is made to feel less welcome and or encourage not toajoin, because the name of the mixed sex group explicitly suggests that men like him (men who don't claim to be women) are not welcome?

Could a woman not argue that they joined because they were lead to believe it was single sex, and they were lied to?

I think the man would only be able to claim discrimination if he was actively discouraged from joining. If the WI advertised itself as open to men and women I don't think he could claim on the basis of name alone.

I think the women may be able to claim misrepresentation not sure about discrimination

spannasaurus · 09/05/2025 13:29

A previous poster linked to guidance which used the Black Jazz Musicians Club as an example where they can discriminate on the basis of national origin but not skin colour. This means that black in the name of the club doesn't mean that you have to be black to join. This makes me wonder whether using woman in the name of your club requires it to be a female only club

BundleBoogie · 09/05/2025 13:33

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 08/05/2025 20:10

That doesn’t really work… you can’t just cobble together multiple characteristics because you find them personally appealing, like women who like Black men. That wouldn’t meet the threshold of a legitimate aim under the Act.

Quite.

And what would the legitimate aim be if the WI included men with a ‘gender identity’ and excluded all others (bearing in mind that men with a gender identity seem to retain all the stereotypical manly traits that make women appreciate a bit of time without them)?

MerlinsBeard1 · 09/05/2025 13:33

A trans turned up to my MIL local WI a few months ago. They were warned 10 minutes beforehand, he was called 'Mandy' and allegedly strutted in wearing stilettos, a short skirt and red lippy, effectively a parody of how women dress. Bear in mind the average age of this group of women sits at around 73 and they were glass painting so it was completely inappropriate and uncomfortable for all in attendance.

Personally, I think it is unacceptable.

AngelinaFibres · 09/05/2025 13:39

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 07/05/2025 15:43

It will depend on their constitution and whether they use single sex exemptions to exclude other men.

My mum has been in the WI for over 20 years. It used to be that, if you were a man who was happy being a man, you could attend a specific event or talk( and pay a guest fee) but you couldn't be a member. If you identified as a woman you could join as a member. We all live in beautiful , rural Herefordshire so, up to now, they have never been confronted by a man in a frock wanting to be a member ( they're all too busy farming)

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 09/05/2025 13:46

I do think there are women who, last century (or roundabout), began with feeling terribly uncomfortable at the thought of being in the company of lesbian women, then at some stage discovered (by accident, or deliberatly stepping outside their comfort zone) it was just like sharing the company of any woman. Then when this other kind of marginalised woman(*) came along they proceed with the assumption that their discomfort is prejudice, and they will discover that the company of trans women is just like that of any woman, in time.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 09/05/2025 13:49

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 09/05/2025 13:46

I do think there are women who, last century (or roundabout), began with feeling terribly uncomfortable at the thought of being in the company of lesbian women, then at some stage discovered (by accident, or deliberatly stepping outside their comfort zone) it was just like sharing the company of any woman. Then when this other kind of marginalised woman(*) came along they proceed with the assumption that their discomfort is prejudice, and they will discover that the company of trans women is just like that of any woman, in time.

Except transwomen are men 🙄

BettyBooper · 09/05/2025 13:49

AngelinaFibres · 09/05/2025 13:39

My mum has been in the WI for over 20 years. It used to be that, if you were a man who was happy being a man, you could attend a specific event or talk( and pay a guest fee) but you couldn't be a member. If you identified as a woman you could join as a member. We all live in beautiful , rural Herefordshire so, up to now, they have never been confronted by a man in a frock wanting to be a member ( they're all too busy farming)

Ah so maybe this is the loophole. Exclude males as members but allow them in as 'special guests'?

JamieCannister · 09/05/2025 13:50

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 09/05/2025 13:46

I do think there are women who, last century (or roundabout), began with feeling terribly uncomfortable at the thought of being in the company of lesbian women, then at some stage discovered (by accident, or deliberatly stepping outside their comfort zone) it was just like sharing the company of any woman. Then when this other kind of marginalised woman(*) came along they proceed with the assumption that their discomfort is prejudice, and they will discover that the company of trans women is just like that of any woman, in time.

Is the the clowns driving buses argument?

ArabellaScott · 09/05/2025 13:54

Check the Highway Code. If a clown approaches a roundabout on the left, should they signal?

MrsOvertonsWindow · 09/05/2025 13:55

ArabellaScott · 09/05/2025 13:54

Check the Highway Code. If a clown approaches a roundabout on the left, should they signal?

I always think clowns are an apt metaphor for so many of the arguments being proposed by men determined to breach women's boundaries.

ArabellaScott · 09/05/2025 13:56

The clown-bus is a wonderful metaphor and I'm grateful to the Guilty Feminist for it.

SinnerBoy · 09/05/2025 13:57

MissScarletInTheBallroom · Today 12:09

What legal qualifications do you have, out of interest?

25m swimming against the tide of knowledge: F - Blue Star For Dogged Determination.

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 09/05/2025 13:57

MrsOvertonsWindow · 09/05/2025 13:49

Except transwomen are men 🙄

Yes, of course. That’s why it hasn’t worked. We don’t feel more comfortable or get used to it, in the way that might happen with any other prejudice.

ArabellaScott · 09/05/2025 13:59

It would possibly explain why some people who have been homophobic in the past are extra keen to display their trans-ally status. A 'protest too much' response. See also fawning, and stating that 'trans people deserve love' - a statement that is toe-curlingly false, patronising and reckless in equal measure.

NecessaryScene · 09/05/2025 14:06

Several posters have said that if the womens institute became mixed sex they would need to change their name.

I refer those posters to "Mumsnet".

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 09/05/2025 14:08

I certainly think there are people who entered organisations and professions in the 80s who were too insecure to speak out against the homophobia they saw around them, who seized on the trans movement in the twenty-teens as a source of redemption (by which time they were in positions of senior leadership).

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 09/05/2025 14:08

When you've had an irrational reaction and you know it's irrational after the fact how do you trust your reactions in the future? The women who objected to lesbians in spaces will struggle to rationalize their feelings now.

Homophobia is unfortunately quite common, transphobia isn't though - it's not about trans but about sex.

ArabellaScott · 09/05/2025 14:12

https://wingsoverscotland.com/a-poor-example/

Humza Yousaf's wife is providing another object lesson. She is offering 'women-only' therapy sessions, but including men with 'trans' identities.

TheOtherRaven · 09/05/2025 14:43

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 09/05/2025 13:46

I do think there are women who, last century (or roundabout), began with feeling terribly uncomfortable at the thought of being in the company of lesbian women, then at some stage discovered (by accident, or deliberatly stepping outside their comfort zone) it was just like sharing the company of any woman. Then when this other kind of marginalised woman(*) came along they proceed with the assumption that their discomfort is prejudice, and they will discover that the company of trans women is just like that of any woman, in time.

And many women initially were open minded, open hearted and willing to embrace this and welcome men with trans identities on exactly these grounds.

However many rapidly found that these men are not just like women, do not behave like women, and it often does not end well for the women or the group. Hence the closing down and destruction of many women's illness support groups (for women only conditions) and lesbian groups disbanding officially and going underground. In one case, well documented, men with trans identities actually pursued the group to the private home of one of the women, a measure taken to escape them and their behaviour at a rape support group, and the men tried to get police to permit them to force entry. Sarah Summers tried a mixed sex rape support group and had to leave due to the inappropriate behaviours of a man present. It's not unusual for the inappropriate behaviours to be political and also to be sexually harassing.

These are evidenced facts. This whole mixed sex women's thing has been thoroughly destruction tested on women over the past decade and has not gone well for women to put it mildly. These are not new idea that no one has tried yet, what on earth do you think made women push these court cases for years to try and re establish their right to meet as a women only group? Either its being poorly informed or intentionally disingenuous.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 09/05/2025 14:45

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 09/05/2025 10:26

I just had to come back because I can’t stand to see a bunch of people who don’t understand the law all agree that I’m wrong and pat each other on the back! On the Section 16 point, the idea that a group must all share the same protected characteristic isn’t how the Equality Act works in practice. The Act refers to people who ‘share a protected characteristic,’ but it also allows for initiatives and measures that support different protected groups together. This is clearly reflected in Section 158 on Positive Action. An employer might run a leadership programme for underrepresented groups, and participants might be from different ethnic backgrounds, be disabled, or LGBTQ+. They don’t all have to share the same characteristic, they each have a relevant protected characteristic.

If ‘share a protected characteristic’ meant everyone had to have the same one, then a lot of Positive Action initiatives that bring together different underrepresented groups would be unlawful, but they’re clearly not. My friend works at a big org which has a programme for developing ethnic minority people and females. And it’s perfectly legal. That’s why the legal reading here is about individuals having a relevant protected characteristic, not everyone having the same one.

But back to the WI, which was the whole point of this. The Supreme Court ruling doesn’t require organisations like the WI to exclude trans women.

With all due respect, @WhatNextCatsAsDoctors, an awful lot of people have either deliberately or innocently been misinterpreting the Equality Act for the last 15 years.

The Supreme Court judgment supersedes any contradictory interpretation which might have been adopted prior to now, which is why many "big orgs" like the one your infallible friend works for will now need to go back to the drawing board and rewrite their policies in accordance with the actual law.

It is astonishingly arrogant to come on here and say that you're the only person who understands the law, despite the fact that (a) everyone else here disagrees with you, (b) some of us, unlike you, are actually lawyers, and (c) the best lawyers in the field agree with us on this point and not you.

borntobequiet · 09/05/2025 14:46

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 09/05/2025 12:08

I’m sharing my knowledge of the law, and trying to shine a light on the ways it’s often misinterpreted.

I don’t have the same view of the law as you do. So we don’t share that. See how it works?

TheOtherRaven · 09/05/2025 14:49

spannasaurus · 09/05/2025 13:15

Several posters have said that if the womens institute became mixed sex they would need to change their name.
I'm not convinced that they would need to do so as long as they make it clear that they are mixed sex.
I understand that if a toilet/changing room says womens then it must be single sex but is there anything legally that would require associations to only use female/male terms if they are clear that they are mixed sex.

Oh good grief, it's like all the previous posts never happened.

No, they cannot declare themselves to be women only and still include men. For all the reasons patiently explained over, and over, and over, and over. Would trying this in Latin or French help at all?

Rumour has it if you play a Mr Menno track backwards these days you can hear Akua Reindorf repeatedly screaming FFS.

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