A friend of our went on for ages about how they were now a one car household and how much they are saving the planet because of it and how they really didn't need two cars. They made a massive big deal about how wrong we were to still have two cars (we drive a car we've had over ten years and a tiny city car which is very efficient on fuel - we try to walk wherever we can too).
Here's the killer - their other car (which was definitely not theirs and definitely doesn't count) was actually being used by their son at university. He's come home and they've just sold it (dunno how because it's definitely not their second car honest gov) and bought a brand new second new car. It's huge, but it's electric so they are saving the planet still but apparently we still aren't. God knows how much energy etc went into building it.
Also they have just installed a heat source pump to go green. They only had a new gas boiler about three years ago, so it wasn't at the end of its life. Apparently it's 'warm enough' but it's ok because they have a wood burning stove to help on very cold days. We have been berated for not saving the planet enough on that (despite our energy bill being considerably lower than theirs despite not having a wood burner).
The cognitive dissonance and ability to explain away things to suit an ideological agenda has got to a point where it actually amuses me with it's staggering levels of hypocrisy and lack of self awareness and bewilderment at why it's sparking a backlash. It's known that a lot of this green washing is actually leading to increased energy consumption because there's a bunch of fuckwits like my friend who thinks they are saving the planet far more than they actually are because they don't think it through or actually change behaviours. The trans stuff is exactly the same.
I now have come to the conclusion that people who shout about how progressive they are, really really probably aren't. Its all for show.