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Employer orders: Get Married or Get Out

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MsAmerica · 19/03/2025 01:10

Chinese Company to Single Workers: Get Married or Get Out
As China’s government worries about the falling birthrate, some private employers have ordered workers to do their part, or else.
By Vivian Wang

The ideal worker at the Chinese chemical manufacturer, according to the internal memo, is hardworking, virtuous and loyal. And — perhaps most important — willing to have children for the good of the country.

That was the message that the company, Shandong Shuntian Chemical Group, sent to unmarried employees recently, in a notice that spread widely on social media. It instructed them to start families by Sept. 30, or else.

“If you cannot get married and start a family within three quarters, the company will terminate your labor contract,” the memo said.

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/03/04/world/asia/china-marriage-companies-childbirth.html

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MsAmerica · 27/03/2025 00:55

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 25/03/2025 01:35

Not really, as actually having the children and most of the associated effort will fall to women.

A currently childless man could become a dad in 9 months and then walk straight back into work the next day (or even the same day) and continue as though nothing had changed; how many women can do that?

Lol. He could even work the day before

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MsAmerica · 27/03/2025 01:09

Here are some links, if you're curious. I don't think anyone has ever asked him if he would equally punish a woman who can't bear children, or whose child has died.

JD Vance's Put-Downs of Childless Americans
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/here-are-all-of-jd-vances-put-downs-of-childless-americans_n_66a93368e4b0e33a3bb855ac

JD Vance really, truly believes childless women are 'valueless'
https://www.msnbc.com/all-in/watch/jd-vance-really-truly-believes-childless-women-are-valueless-2185503417388

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RedToothBrush · 27/03/2025 01:09

MsAmerica · 21/03/2025 21:10

It's not necessarily a matter of communism. Some American politicians want to prioritize women with children. Vice president Vance has said that perhaps childless women shouldn't be allowed to vote, or should have their votes count less.

If men were told they couldn't vote if they don't support their kids, a few things would happen.

  1. more men would pay up
  2. more women would be prepared to have more children
  3. women would have more political influence and power.
selffellatingouroborosofhate · 27/03/2025 12:48

MsAmerica · 27/03/2025 01:09

Here are some links, if you're curious. I don't think anyone has ever asked him if he would equally punish a woman who can't bear children, or whose child has died.

JD Vance's Put-Downs of Childless Americans
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/here-are-all-of-jd-vances-put-downs-of-childless-americans_n_66a93368e4b0e33a3bb855ac

JD Vance really, truly believes childless women are 'valueless'
https://www.msnbc.com/all-in/watch/jd-vance-really-truly-believes-childless-women-are-valueless-2185503417388

Someone should ask him what he thinks of childless men.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 27/03/2025 13:12

RedToothBrush · 27/03/2025 01:09

If men were told they couldn't vote if they don't support their kids, a few things would happen.

  1. more men would pay up
  2. more women would be prepared to have more children
  3. women would have more political influence and power.

All of this.

I'd argue that any man who provably sires a child that he does not financially support should be denied the vote, have his passport confiscated, have his property other than his own home sold and the resulting funds placed in escrow, and be barred for applying for any form of credit.

JohnKettleyIsAWeathermanAndSoIsMichaelFish · 27/03/2025 14:02

Blessed be the fruit.

CruCru · 28/03/2025 09:10

China has a difficult problem. They brought in the one child policy because they were worried about feeding their population. But the result is that people of childbearing age don’t have a culture of having siblings or aunts / uncles. So the government asking people to have more children isn’t going to result in an immediate increase in births - having two or three children is now a bit weird (in the same way that having eight is weird to me).

sunbum · 28/03/2025 09:19

Can someone explain to me why governments are suddenly panicking about falling birth rates? 5 minutes ago we had roo many people on the planet and overpopulation was a thing. Wouldn't less people, or even just an end to the previous exponential.growth, be better environmentally and allow them to meet all their net zero etc targets more easily?

Painful for a couple of generations with too many old people and difficulty in staffing the old people's homes, but then would balance out wouldnt it?

duc748 · 28/03/2025 10:00

I've thought the same, and doubtless plenty have too, sunbum. To me, it just seems like a big Ponzi scheme: governments need more workers cos they need the tax receipts to pay for the pensions of an ageing population, but where are all the jobs for these extra people to do, and if the government ends up just 'creating' jobs, that costs money too. Meanwhile, on a planet with finite resources, the mantra of "more growth" is a dubious one anyway. But people don't even ask the likes of Starmer about that any more.

"Sir Keir, in the modern world, do you believe continual long-term economic growth is feasible?"

It's a fair question.

CruCru · 28/03/2025 11:37

The problem that a government has is that a population with loads of old people (particularly when they are paid an old age pension) starts to feel unbalanced and can lead to civil unrest.

A while ago there was some discussion of increasing the pension age of women in China (it was much lower than in the UK). It caused a lot of upset because there’s an expectation that “old” people will be looked after. Realistically, either the government increases the pension age or it increases the number of people of working age.

MsAmerica · 02/04/2025 02:22

RedToothBrush · 27/03/2025 01:09

If men were told they couldn't vote if they don't support their kids, a few things would happen.

  1. more men would pay up
  2. more women would be prepared to have more children
  3. women would have more political influence and power.

Sorry, but I disagree. Voting shouldn't be tied to money.

By the way, why would you want women to be "prepared to have more children"? Statistics tend to indicate that when women are more educated, they don't want more children.

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MsAmerica · 02/04/2025 02:23

CruCru · 28/03/2025 09:10

China has a difficult problem. They brought in the one child policy because they were worried about feeding their population. But the result is that people of childbearing age don’t have a culture of having siblings or aunts / uncles. So the government asking people to have more children isn’t going to result in an immediate increase in births - having two or three children is now a bit weird (in the same way that having eight is weird to me).

But do you think that also maybe it dawned on parents that life might be easier by not having two or three times the burden of a single child?

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IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 02/04/2025 07:14

JohnKettleyIsAWeathermanAndSoIsMichaelFish · 27/03/2025 14:02

Blessed be the fruit.

Spot on

RedToothBrush · 02/04/2025 07:26

MsAmerica · 02/04/2025 02:22

Sorry, but I disagree. Voting shouldn't be tied to money.

By the way, why would you want women to be "prepared to have more children"? Statistics tend to indicate that when women are more educated, they don't want more children.

I don't think voting should be tied to money too. But I do think that having children should be linked to taking responsibility for them and there's not much that is going to force that.

RobinHeartella · 02/04/2025 08:45

sunbum · 28/03/2025 09:19

Can someone explain to me why governments are suddenly panicking about falling birth rates? 5 minutes ago we had roo many people on the planet and overpopulation was a thing. Wouldn't less people, or even just an end to the previous exponential.growth, be better environmentally and allow them to meet all their net zero etc targets more easily?

Painful for a couple of generations with too many old people and difficulty in staffing the old people's homes, but then would balance out wouldnt it?

I think the issue is how fast and far they've fallen. It's economic disaster when you have such a high ratio of old people (who need health care, pensions) to young people (providing the health care and tax revenue.

It might technically be a temporary problem eg 2-3 generations, but in the meantime the economy will have tanked and standard of living fall significantly, which no one wants.

RobinHeartella · 02/04/2025 08:52

Just to be clear I really don't agree with the bonkers incentives listed on this thread by the chinese company and American politicians etc.

I do think the very low birth rate is a real problem though.

I think the solution needs to be investment in subsidised childcare, paid paternity leave, more generous maternity pay, and other measures.

Somewhat controversial but I think there should be tax breaks for middle to higher earning people with children (as well as benefits for poorer people with children). Because the birth rate is lower in that demographic

BettyFilous · 02/04/2025 08:57

CruCru · 28/03/2025 09:10

China has a difficult problem. They brought in the one child policy because they were worried about feeding their population. But the result is that people of childbearing age don’t have a culture of having siblings or aunts / uncles. So the government asking people to have more children isn’t going to result in an immediate increase in births - having two or three children is now a bit weird (in the same way that having eight is weird to me).

I’ve spoken to people born during the single child policy era. They described feeling responsible for their elders, grandparents as well as ageing parents, and flattened by an all-consuming work culture. They didn’t feel able to shoulder more responsibility by adding spouses and children to the mix.

RobinHeartella · 02/04/2025 08:58

I also think there's a cultural problem in the uk with small children being seen as irritating in public. I don't know how that can be changed though.

In some other countries, like in some of europe and elsewhere, small children and their antics are seen as delightful and adorable, whether that's in a restaurant or shop or whatever.

However, those countries have falling birth rates too, so maybe that has no effect.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 02/04/2025 09:01

sunbum · 28/03/2025 09:19

Can someone explain to me why governments are suddenly panicking about falling birth rates? 5 minutes ago we had roo many people on the planet and overpopulation was a thing. Wouldn't less people, or even just an end to the previous exponential.growth, be better environmentally and allow them to meet all their net zero etc targets more easily?

Painful for a couple of generations with too many old people and difficulty in staffing the old people's homes, but then would balance out wouldnt it?

You’re right, and the unprecedentedly massive human population is what’s fuelling climate change and pushing other species into extinction. But ‘growth at all costs’ is an easier answer. So that’s what politicians push for.

nfkl · 02/04/2025 09:16

They put pressure on women because due to selective pregnancies, there are a lot more men than women (same problem as in India).

Funny thing is that there are millions of unregistered people living in China. The one-child rule was strictly applied in cities but less so in the countryside because farmers need hands to work on the farm and want a son to inherit and there is less control from the authorities. So if the first child was a girl or if a second pregnancy happened, you just didn’t declare the birth officially and everyone would be looking away.

These poor people have no birth certificate, official existence, cannot leave their village, attend official school or receive public healthcare. One day I visited a school in Shandong that « didn’t exist », it was an unofficial private school for unregistered kids.

ASISAYNOTASIDO · 02/04/2025 09:18

monsterfish · 21/03/2025 07:14

Swings and roundabouts. China had a 1 child only policy from 1979 to 2015 because of over population, then they were allowed 2 and then 3.

same problem everywhere, falling birthrate, increasing ageing population, less workers. Elon Musk is saying the same thing, now we have something like birthrate wars!

Once they work out the best contraceptive is educating women it will be interesting to see the next move.

I suspect a real push back on female education - not least because young women often outperform in formal examinations. There are areas of education where ‘additional’ tests based on ‘other’ skills are being introduced. I often wonder why but then I’m cynical because I’ve lived long enough to be! Educated females are indeed a threat.

duc748 · 02/04/2025 11:33

I also think there's a cultural problem in the uk with small children being seen as irritating in public. I don't know how that can be changed though

Yes, maybe, but it's an old refrain: back in the 50s, people were saying, ah, the British don't like kids like the Italians do!

RobinHeartella · 02/04/2025 12:31

I think people are a bit naive/idealistic when they say things like, but the world is overpopulated, it's good for climate change etc.

We are hugely privileged to have the public services that we have. The reality is that if uk birth rates continue to fall, the short-medium term outcomes will be:

  • Ever rocketing nhs waiting lists, including for dentists etc
  • failing local council services like bins, roads, libraries etc as they are necessarily lower priority than caring for dying old people
  • cuts in provisions and services for retirees, like the winter fuel payments, as there is just not enough money for the many retirees
  • much older pension age, with no correlating increase in life expectancy
  • as the country becomes poorer, we'll get less young people immigrating here from poor countries to fill our employment gaps, so worsening staffing crises in health care, skilled trades, etc.

And probably many more issues that I can't think of, many of which are already happening. We take these services hugely for granted.

All of this would/will happen, with a negligible impact on climate change.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 03/04/2025 20:01

RobinHeartella · 02/04/2025 12:31

I think people are a bit naive/idealistic when they say things like, but the world is overpopulated, it's good for climate change etc.

We are hugely privileged to have the public services that we have. The reality is that if uk birth rates continue to fall, the short-medium term outcomes will be:

  • Ever rocketing nhs waiting lists, including for dentists etc
  • failing local council services like bins, roads, libraries etc as they are necessarily lower priority than caring for dying old people
  • cuts in provisions and services for retirees, like the winter fuel payments, as there is just not enough money for the many retirees
  • much older pension age, with no correlating increase in life expectancy
  • as the country becomes poorer, we'll get less young people immigrating here from poor countries to fill our employment gaps, so worsening staffing crises in health care, skilled trades, etc.

And probably many more issues that I can't think of, many of which are already happening. We take these services hugely for granted.

All of this would/will happen, with a negligible impact on climate change.

All of this would/will happen, with a negligible impact on climate change.

If, as you say, the birth rate is falling elsewhere as well, then it will be good for climate change.