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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Trade unions have a woman problem. Excellent article by union NEC member Paul Embery

92 replies

Tarquinthecat · 21/02/2025 23:42

https://www.paulembery.com/p/trade-unions-have-a-woman-problem

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Withoutuse · 23/02/2025 10:13

endofthelinefinally · 22/02/2025 01:50

I have asked before on here if there is any union that actually supports women.
I found the RCN absolutely useless when I needed them. Luckily I got out of my situation by getting a better job and I am now retired.
I have a friend going through a horrible grievance process atm. Interestingly, the Women's Officer in her union is the only senior rep that has a full time job in the work place as well. The other senior reps, all men, don't. They get paid to be union reps. ( Local Government)

Affinity Union.
Join them. They are apolitical and have a strong stance in supporting the free speech of members. I used to be a Unison member but would not consider joining them or any of the other ‘legacy’ unions. They’ve just shown themselves to never have left the misogynistic roots of the Union movement.

So I joined Affinity, which is workers Union, as well as the Free Speech Union.

Daffiesmeanspring · 23/02/2025 10:14

needmoresheep · 23/02/2025 09:24

Thanks for this. Most teachers are union members, IMHO, in case of pupil allegations and so want legal support. This looks like a great alternative. No political nonsense

Edapt won't improve your pay or conditions though, since they don't take part in industrial action. So you're still reliant on some people being part of the other unions to campaign on your behalf.

Daffiesmeanspring · 23/02/2025 10:16

needmoresheep · 23/02/2025 10:11

In the current climate that would not be welcome. There would be calls for our ‘re-education’.

I totally agree. I've found some union members who think like me but it's all a bit hush hush. I don't mind speaking out usually but until recently I'd have worried about my job.

needmoresheep · 23/02/2025 10:17

Daffiesmeanspring · 23/02/2025 10:14

Edapt won't improve your pay or conditions though, since they don't take part in industrial action. So you're still reliant on some people being part of the other unions to campaign on your behalf.

Well I don’t think the traditional unions have made much of a difference in recent years as they are too busy with politics.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 23/02/2025 10:18

2pence · 23/02/2025 10:05

Unions are member led though. Therefore the campaigns come from motions put forward by members that have enough representatives voting for it because they have to vote for what their own members have told them they want.

If you are a member of a union, your voice and opinion is as important as another member's. You can talk to the elected (by members) Executive Team and ask them to take your opinion forward as a motion and, if enough members agree with you, it's carried.

If you feel your union doesn't represent your views then you need to step up and become active. Get involved with Union meetings, consider becoming a rep or an even an officer yourself if you feel really passionate. Make sure your own branch executives know what you want so they can take it forward for a democratic vote.

Change comes from people acting. Be the change you want to see.

Not sure you understand much about how women's rights are currently viewed by the unions to make that post.
Look at the behaviour of the RCN in refusing to represent Sandie Peggie in her claim for legal single sex spaces, the UCU in their treatment of Kathleen Stock and other academics. The toxicity of the Unison response in insisting that men must have the right to undress alongside women nurses.
Why on earth would women expose themselves in their workplace to those extreme levels of toxic masculinity and bullying.

Especially as there are finally a number of options to the anti women, trans captured unions.

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/02/2025 10:30

2pence · 23/02/2025 10:05

Unions are member led though. Therefore the campaigns come from motions put forward by members that have enough representatives voting for it because they have to vote for what their own members have told them they want.

If you are a member of a union, your voice and opinion is as important as another member's. You can talk to the elected (by members) Executive Team and ask them to take your opinion forward as a motion and, if enough members agree with you, it's carried.

If you feel your union doesn't represent your views then you need to step up and become active. Get involved with Union meetings, consider becoming a rep or an even an officer yourself if you feel really passionate. Make sure your own branch executives know what you want so they can take it forward for a democratic vote.

Change comes from people acting. Be the change you want to see.

To be honest that all sounds very blithe.....

Most people haven't got the time in their busy lives to devote to trade union activism. They pay their subscription for representation and support when it is required. Trade unions have always been political and tribal...but now they've virtually all ( even including the ones for middle class occupations) become virtual closed shops in which rigid party lines are imposed on the membership.

Those who do get involved in trade union activism tend to use it as basis for a political career, and are always the ones agitating in the staff room or on the shop floor.

Daffiesmeanspring · 23/02/2025 10:32

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/02/2025 10:30

To be honest that all sounds very blithe.....

Most people haven't got the time in their busy lives to devote to trade union activism. They pay their subscription for representation and support when it is required. Trade unions have always been political and tribal...but now they've virtually all ( even including the ones for middle class occupations) become virtual closed shops in which rigid party lines are imposed on the membership.

Those who do get involved in trade union activism tend to use it as basis for a political career, and are always the ones agitating in the staff room or on the shop floor.

You think the union reps in every workplace are planning on a political career...? 😃

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/02/2025 10:35

Daffiesmeanspring · 23/02/2025 10:14

Edapt won't improve your pay or conditions though, since they don't take part in industrial action. So you're still reliant on some people being part of the other unions to campaign on your behalf.

Most people go into teaching knowing full well it is not a highly paid career, and they see the long holidays and decent pension scheme as the real benefits.
And most teachers are not interested in strike action or in working to rule. They take their professional duties seriously and don't want to let the children down.

I'm no longer teaching but when i was the NUT ( now NEU) were continually agitating and instructing teachers " don't do this", "don't do that".....and even when pay had been improved they'd continue to agitate on other fronts.

SidewaysOtter · 23/02/2025 10:39

2pence · 23/02/2025 10:05

Unions are member led though. Therefore the campaigns come from motions put forward by members that have enough representatives voting for it because they have to vote for what their own members have told them they want.

If you are a member of a union, your voice and opinion is as important as another member's. You can talk to the elected (by members) Executive Team and ask them to take your opinion forward as a motion and, if enough members agree with you, it's carried.

If you feel your union doesn't represent your views then you need to step up and become active. Get involved with Union meetings, consider becoming a rep or an even an officer yourself if you feel really passionate. Make sure your own branch executives know what you want so they can take it forward for a democratic vote.

Change comes from people acting. Be the change you want to see.

Admirable as that sentiment is, it’s not borne out in reality. Just look at UCU who wanted to “root out” gender critical staff at universities. Who the hell wants to put themselves in a union’s virtue signalling crosshairs?

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/02/2025 10:39

Daffiesmeanspring · 23/02/2025 10:32

You think the union reps in every workplace are planning on a political career...? 😃

Yes, that's right! Many who become involved in trade union activism end up pursuing that more than they do their primary role or occupation. They become political actors rather than teachers, for example. Always agitating.

The trade union movement is a life time commitment for many...which is why they hold big annual jamborees as with political parties. You'll find many Labour party councillors or MPs used to be trade union reps or activists.

2pence · 23/02/2025 10:40

Change doesn't come from doing nothing. All unions are guided by what their members want. It's the members who speak up who drive the campaigns.

If the unions you mention don't serve your needs then you need to tell them what you want so they can.

I suppose leaving for a Union that is already acting on behalf of people who have expressed similar views to your own is a valid option where available. Otherwise, you could become an activist and bring that change to your current union if there's no alternative.

However, doing nothing will get you exactly that, nothing.

SidewaysOtter · 23/02/2025 10:40

DisappearingGirl · 23/02/2025 10:04

Good article. I agree with this:

Like so many other of our institutions, unions – most of them, at any rate – have been captured by the ideology of hyper-progressivism. Not ordinary rank-and-file trade unionists, many of whom are aghast at the turn of events, but the upper echelons of the movement, which are replete these days with graduates, Guardianistas, social radicals and policy wonks but far too light on ‘normies’ from traditional working-class backgrounds and with first-hand experience of life at the coalface or on the shop floor.

I was a member of the UCU (University and College Union) for around 20 years. I left for two reasons:

  1. The way they put the boot in on Kathleen Stock and other crazy statements they made about gender ideology (google "UCU trans" to see a whole range of batshittery)
  2. Pushing on with extreme forms of strike action (e.g. marking and assessment boycott) even when they had just reached a good agreement on pensions.
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Both of those are exactly why I’ve never joined them. I fundamentally disagree with their stance on strikes and their stance on women’s rights so they’re not getting a damned penny from me.

SidewaysOtter · 23/02/2025 10:42

If the unions you mention don't serve your needs then you need to tell them what you want so they can.

They don’t give one shiny shit that anyone would leave or not join on the basis of gender critical views. They don’t want us.

It’s nice to think that there would be member-led change but we all know that those at the top would stop that happening.

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/02/2025 10:43

2pence · 23/02/2025 10:40

Change doesn't come from doing nothing. All unions are guided by what their members want. It's the members who speak up who drive the campaigns.

If the unions you mention don't serve your needs then you need to tell them what you want so they can.

I suppose leaving for a Union that is already acting on behalf of people who have expressed similar views to your own is a valid option where available. Otherwise, you could become an activist and bring that change to your current union if there's no alternative.

However, doing nothing will get you exactly that, nothing.

That is just naive. Are you aware of how many women have been abandoned and even disciplined/ejected from their union for wrong think in recent years?

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/02/2025 10:44

2pence · 23/02/2025 10:40

Change doesn't come from doing nothing. All unions are guided by what their members want. It's the members who speak up who drive the campaigns.

If the unions you mention don't serve your needs then you need to tell them what you want so they can.

I suppose leaving for a Union that is already acting on behalf of people who have expressed similar views to your own is a valid option where available. Otherwise, you could become an activist and bring that change to your current union if there's no alternative.

However, doing nothing will get you exactly that, nothing.

What do you mean by 'change' anyway? What is it you think that people want from their union?

SionnachRuadh · 23/02/2025 10:46

When I was active in my former union, we had a branch with a paper membership of 600 but less than 10 people turned up to meetings. I got on the branch committee because nobody else was interested.

You may think that makes it easier to have your voice heard. Not so, if you're one of eight people in the room and the other seven are hardened politicos with a fixed position that's opposite to yours.

It would have been easier if there had been some normies in the room, but the normies were too busy doing their jobs.

needmoresheep · 23/02/2025 10:48

God loves a trier @2pence

but if I was going to campaign within a teaching union for more protection on women’s right to single sex spaces, so not sharing with anyone still in possession of a penis, I would be expelled, re-educated and called all sorts of things. We have seen healthcare and education unions in action on these matters and that why we need alternatives.

campaigning from within is just going to cause us/me grief

borntobequiet · 23/02/2025 10:50

Daffiesmeanspring · 23/02/2025 10:14

Edapt won't improve your pay or conditions though, since they don't take part in industrial action. So you're still reliant on some people being part of the other unions to campaign on your behalf.

Well, that’s a consideration, and I’m now out of secondary teaching. But I didn’t rate my union highly then, and if it were now, I’d make the move.

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/02/2025 10:55

My father was a trade union shop steward in the 1970s. He saw his role as a mediator between the men on the factory floor and the management.....but there were plenty of other shop stewards who were far more angry and intent on revolution. It would be they who demanded strikes and who would intimidate other men into going out on strike.

Those around during the 1970s will remember the continual strikes and work to rule that crippled everything from public transport, rubbish collection, the digging of graves, the baking of bread. My father's company eventually gave up and moved their production to Spain instead, leaving lots of men long term unemployed in an area with few skilled engineering jobs, or having to re-locate ( as my family did) to other parts of the country.

Daffiesmeanspring · 23/02/2025 10:56

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/02/2025 10:39

Yes, that's right! Many who become involved in trade union activism end up pursuing that more than they do their primary role or occupation. They become political actors rather than teachers, for example. Always agitating.

The trade union movement is a life time commitment for many...which is why they hold big annual jamborees as with political parties. You'll find many Labour party councillors or MPs used to be trade union reps or activists.

Sorry but that's ridiculous. Almost every primary and secondary school will have at least one, if not more, union reps. They are not seeking political careers! They are trying to support the rights of people in their workplace. This may be seen as "agitating" by some.

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/02/2025 11:00

Daffiesmeanspring · 23/02/2025 10:56

Sorry but that's ridiculous. Almost every primary and secondary school will have at least one, if not more, union reps. They are not seeking political careers! They are trying to support the rights of people in their workplace. This may be seen as "agitating" by some.

Are you speaking from experience of union reps in the school classroom - because I am? When I say 'career' I mean an occupation which becomes a primary commitment; and when that is trade union activism, then, yes, it becomes their 'career', and quite a few end up seeking election either as councillors or MPs or with F/T paid, union roles.

And yes continual agitation and politicking is what many do.

needmoresheep · 23/02/2025 11:01

@Daffiesmeanspring each school does not have a union rep within it. I know because I am in one of those schools. No one wants the grief of dealing with the union directly. If anyone needs support they get a rep from another school but I am going to link Edapt on our WhatsApp group as an alternative

Mittens67 · 23/02/2025 11:04

I had an email from my union RCN this week (I am a retired member) asking me for my ideas for Pride and LGBTQ+ activities. Why is a nursing union wasting time and money on this? I have been a member for about 30 years. Never had this asked before.
A quick google of the sender’s name name showed their LinkedIn profile. 5 years of nursing but all they list as their accomplishments and focus in the job are entirely lgbtq related and then they were off to do a masters in gender, sexuality and culture before back to a desk job to push their own agenda.
My reply said that I would like to see pride return to representing ordinary people who happened to be same sex attracted rather than the fetish shitshow it has become, I want RCN to represent all it’s members not just those who believe in gender ideology, and nurses to be able to change their clothes at work without a male present.
Having read up on this person’s cv I rather think my response will be deleted as wrong think.

borntobequiet · 23/02/2025 11:06

I worked in my early career in a large school with reps for three different unions.

Mine was dedicated to supporting members, though the union was only moderately effective.
Another was ineffective but well meaning.
The third was definitely springboarding.

(My union and the third later combined, much to my surprise, as they started from very different principles.)

2pence · 23/02/2025 11:08

SionnachRuadh · 23/02/2025 10:46

When I was active in my former union, we had a branch with a paper membership of 600 but less than 10 people turned up to meetings. I got on the branch committee because nobody else was interested.

You may think that makes it easier to have your voice heard. Not so, if you're one of eight people in the room and the other seven are hardened politicos with a fixed position that's opposite to yours.

It would have been easier if there had been some normies in the room, but the normies were too busy doing their jobs.

Which I think is a perfect example for anyone wondering why the things that are important to them are not put forward as campaigns.

If it's important then get busy. The only reason the things you disagree with are represented is because someone felt passionately enough about them to ask their Union to create a motion.

The only reason those executives are there is because an engaged member nominated them and then the membership that actually cared enough to turn up voted them in. Of the 600 strong membership, 10 turned up at the AGM, so 10 voted and therein lies the answer to why doesn't my Union represent my views?

If it really matters then why not start a movement? And if you don't have the drive to start a movement, at least start a conversation with your elected officials who are there to represent your interests.

Or do nothing. Choice is yours.