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Assisted dying and coercion

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ArabellaScott · 28/01/2025 16:37

This is live right now, so I'm not sure how well linking to it will work. Copy-pasting below, aswell.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cy5k0qyled2t

'Rachel Clarke, a palliative care doctor, opts to answer a question about coercion and whether some MPs are right to feel concerned about this when considering the bill. (Earlier, MPs heard how medical and clinic staff are trained in safeguarding, though a retired GP acknowledged coercion was hard to spot.)
Clarke says she'd "strongly push back" on the suggestion coercion is something all medical staff are trained in spotting.
"I'm the kind of doctor who believes there is nothing to be gained by sugar-coating reality...about shortcomings, failings, areas where my profession the rest of the NHS are getting things wrong", she tells MPs.
"It is my clinical experience that not only are the majority of doctors not necessarily trained in spotting coercion explicitly, they're often not trained explicitly in having so-called advanced care planning conversations with patients around the topic of death and dying."'

Assisted dying bill: Most doctors not trained in spotting coercion, medic tells MPs at assisted dying hearing

Rachel Clarke, a palliative care doctor, was speaking to MPs considering the proposed law on assisted dying.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cy5k0qyled2t

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/06/2025 12:27

Cordially, I’m not going to engage further with you on this issue. I refer to all the things I’ve already said. I’ve made it clear that we disagree. The end.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/06/2025 12:30

Good post @RedToothBrush

RedToothBrush · 18/06/2025 12:36

Ultimately if the government pass a law on assisted dying, and they fail to safeguard adequately what could happen is a legal challenge to the government under human rights legislation which would ultimately be a scandal and expensive to the state if a court found that the government had been in breach of its human rights obligations.

Not to mention they've killed a bunch of people unlawfully (for which there could potentially prosecutions).

The government should be doing everything they can to cover their own arses and demonstrate they have answers to the fears of groups representing particularly vulnerable individuals. Basically due diligence.

The problem with the bill as it stands is those who are pushing it through parliament are starting to look fucking incompetent on this point. That's really concerning.

dodin · 18/06/2025 12:36

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/06/2025 12:06

I’m not going to change my view based on either your attempted gotcha twisting my words to serve your own argument or emotional blackmail, so I’ll save you the effort there.

Well I don't think I'm twisting your words or engaging in emotional blackmail. I wonder why you say that?

I think you mistaken and have tried to explain why. Yes, I'd be pleased if you changed your views on account of this, and no, based on long experience I don't think it likely you will. But really you shouldn't mistake disagreement - however baldly expressed - for some kind of malevolent or spiteful attack.

I know you disagree with me about assisted suicide. I've set out some arguments why I think it morally and socially desirable. If you think these arguments unsound in some way, I'd be interested to read why. I'm not interested in insulting you or blackmailing you. (Though I am interested in why you seem to think I am.)

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2025 12:49

WomanDaresTo · 18/06/2025 09:53

concerned by the cavalier attitude of many of its supporters towards safeguarding the truly vulnerable

Yes: I wrote up the recent history of the British AD movement to help understand how this can very quickly go wrong. Major campaigners spent the 1980s offering a criminal death service to the public (mostly vulnerable women), publishing a how to manual where all safeguards failed and it was quickly used by people not in the 'vision' for assisted death, and trying to free the violent men who killed their dependent wives. It's a grim toll and of course completely forgotten about.

https://otherhalforg.substack.com/p/the-killers

'Nicholas Reed was a Labour Councillor, former Oxford don, and led his campaigning organisation ‘EXIT’ from a mansion in ‘Kensington’ (really Pimlico). EXIT were serious about delivering their aims: their board had included luminaries of politics, media and sciences, and at least one doctor and lawyer. Their Chairman was past chair of the Liberals and patron of the trans rights campaign group Press for Change'

Sorry for being dim - was Nicholas Reed the Chairman?

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/06/2025 12:50

WomanDaresTo · 18/06/2025 09:53

concerned by the cavalier attitude of many of its supporters towards safeguarding the truly vulnerable

Yes: I wrote up the recent history of the British AD movement to help understand how this can very quickly go wrong. Major campaigners spent the 1980s offering a criminal death service to the public (mostly vulnerable women), publishing a how to manual where all safeguards failed and it was quickly used by people not in the 'vision' for assisted death, and trying to free the violent men who killed their dependent wives. It's a grim toll and of course completely forgotten about.

https://otherhalforg.substack.com/p/the-killers

Wow. That was horribly fascinating and chilling. Thank you.

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2025 12:53

'EXIT rebranded quickly after Reed’s imprisonment, first to the Voluntary Euthanasia Society (its longtime name) and then to Dignity in Dying'

Holy FUCK!!!!

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/06/2025 12:55

I think I’m going to write to my MP with a link to the blog. The points about the kind of men drawn to this movement are very well made.

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2025 12:55

redboxer321 · 14/06/2025 15:07

I too am very much in favour of the bill being passed.
But I can't agree that we don't allow other animals to suffer unnecessary pain: we absolutely do imo. And only a tiny percentage of those are prosecuted (much of the time it's unintentional and prosecution may not be the best option).

Fair point.

The difference being that people are rightly prosecuted for not doing the right thing.

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2025 12:56

Vote this Friday. My MP, being Scottish, won't vote (I assume).

Others may wish to write to their MP:

https://www.writetothem.com/

Or a form letter in the link here:

https://writeonad.theotherhalf.uk/emailmp

WriteToThem

WriteToThem is a website which provides an easy way to contact MPs, councillors and other elected representatives.

https://www.writetothem.com

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Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 18/06/2025 13:21

Lyn348 · 28/01/2025 20:20

Can we be 100% sure that women aren't being coerced into having abortions? No? Perhaps we should ban abortions then.

Or perhaps it's not a valid reason in either case because it's more important to give people choices even if there is a small risk attached.

Would you rather thousands and thousands of people died drawn out horrible deaths because of that small risk? I guess so.

But please do campaign against abortion on the off chance that they're coerced if you're going to campaign on the same grounds against AD.

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Soooo this👆

RedToothBrush · 18/06/2025 13:26

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 18/06/2025 13:21

Soooo this👆

In law in England and Wales, life doesn't begin at conception but at birth in terms of law.

That makes it different in terms of threshold of problems with coercion compared to assisted dying because it doesn't fall under obligation for the right to life under the ECHR.

Grammarnut · 18/06/2025 15:24

dodin · 18/06/2025 11:12

"But you are deciding what I should do ..." Hmm.

I think your intention here is a good one: "what's sauce for the goose ...", "Universalise maxims ...", "do unto others as ..." are individually useful tenets in moral argument. (They express something essential to right-and-wrong.) But something doesn't quite sit right, does it? Are you really being even-handed? Let's see.

It's sometimes useful to look at argument structure if we want to see the ethical wood as well as the moral trees. I suggest we try here.

Suppose A says, "My autonomy entails you shouldn't stop me doing X to myself"; suppose B rejoins, "My autonomy entails I should be able to stop you doing X to yourself." (A: me; B: you.)

OK, now try to universalise. A is OK; no obvious structural difficulties there: "for every P and Q, P's autonomy entails Q shouldn't stop P doing X to P".

Try B: "for every P and Q, P's autonomy entails P should be able to stop Q doing X to Q". This is problematic, since stopping someone doing something denies that person's autonomy, doesn't it? (That's what autonomy is, you might say.) So B is making two contradictory claims: that everybody should have his or her autonomy respected, and that everybody can have their autonomy denied.

B's rejoinder can't stand as a moral principle - it could not be true, because when universalised it both asserts and denies a person's right to have her/his autonomy respected. Do you see, @Grammarnut?

In short, you are mistaken.

As for society or the state arrogating to itself decisions of life and death (and this includes eugenics), this is a straw man here. No-one is saying (certainly I am not saying) the state should decide whose life is valuable or worthless.

We all agree there need to be safeguards. Of course we do. (Which makes many of the arguments put here and elsewhere on this matter simply insulting.) But this should not - does not, cannot - override my autonomy, and hence my choice, as a basic moral principle deciding matters of my own life and my own death.

That's not what I am arguing. I am arguing that giving everyone this specific piece of autonomy - the right to end their life when they wish to - impinges on the rights of those who may not wish to end their life but because 'ending your life' is now an option for autonomous being then they can be persuaded to end their life as 'the right thing to do' for whatever reason and be treated as 'autonomous beings' in this regard when, in fact, they are not.
So it is a general, not a personal, automomy I am referring to. In order to protect those who have little autonomy from coercion and the assumption that their life is not worth having we must curtail the autonomy of others who may indeed have the agency to decide they want to die - but because this agency must be available to all it means those without agency can be pushed into a position that they otherwise would not take i.e. they would prefer to stay alive.
So your right to die when you choose must give way to the right of society to protect those who cannot protect themselves.
Certainly a universal principle, but not the one you think I am discussing.
And one should indeed treat others as one would wish to be treated - I wish to live until I die. I do not desire to be guilt-tripped into assisted suicide (though I would not be). I wish the same freedom for everyone else.

Arran2024 · 18/06/2025 15:34

Just to add, we are discussing ASSISTED suicide, not the right to die per se. It is the very fact that someone else is brought into the act that makes the moral issues and safeguarding in particular so important. It isn't just about a personal wish to die but how people who wish to assist have got there. Some people will be very happy to assist - the cancer support nurse at the hospital where my dad was diagnosed last year was hard as nails and I can only imagine the sorts of conversations she would have had with him if she could have. It is this third party business that is so concerning.

Grammarnut · 18/06/2025 15:49

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 18/06/2025 13:21

Soooo this👆

I get tired of the constant tales of terrible suffering. Most deaths happen after a short illness (or a catastrophic event) and are both peaceful and painless. We need assisted dying like a fish needs a bicycle.
The safeguards against coercion in this Bill seem to assume everyone is as competent as the drafters of it and as full of agency. They seem unable to understand that not everyone is like them.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 18/06/2025 15:53

Grammarnut · 18/06/2025 15:49

I get tired of the constant tales of terrible suffering. Most deaths happen after a short illness (or a catastrophic event) and are both peaceful and painless. We need assisted dying like a fish needs a bicycle.
The safeguards against coercion in this Bill seem to assume everyone is as competent as the drafters of it and as full of agency. They seem unable to understand that not everyone is like them.

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You can get tired of it all you like. Have you watched someone you love the most in world die a slow painful death.
I have.
Palliative care in Scotland is shite

Grammarnut · 18/06/2025 15:57

@dodin I should perhaps add that I am not against you having the right to kill yourself if you wish - you already have that right since suicide is now legal. My problem is with 'assisted dying' and you do not appear to understand that though you may have a will of iron to resist pressure not everyone does and people can be persuaded (coerced) into allowing themselves to be killed when they do not wish to die. It is this I am worried about. You do you and die when you wish, but this Bill will allow people - carers, relatives watching money drip away in care fees, husbands desirous not getting rid of wives who can no longer care for them but need care - to persuade vulnerable people into suicide which will really be murder without penalty.
Can you not see that this is a danger and the Bill as it stands does not address it which is why disable groups and women's groups in particular are afraid of it and want it at least amended in ways that will have some hope of stopping murder under the guise of 'her/his wish was to die'?

Grammarnut · 18/06/2025 16:03

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 18/06/2025 15:53

You can get tired of it all you like. Have you watched someone you love the most in world die a slow painful death.
I have.
Palliative care in Scotland is shite

I sat by my husband for 18 days waiting for his heart to stop beating after he had a massive cardiac arrest. The care we received from the NHS and our local hospice was amazing and kind. But yes, I know that people die in pain - it is the lack of will and also doctors who are afraid of hastening death with heavy painkillers. But this bill will not alleviate any of that, it will simply replace whatever palliative care now exists with death.
I watched my brother die as well and a close relative has a hereditary degenerating disease - so I know. I am still against assisted dying, it is a carte blanche to get rid of people who are expensive to keep alive.

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2025 16:05

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/11/26/aiding-abetting-suicide-sinister-past-group-assisted-dying/

A short history of 'Dignity in Dying'.

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Thelnebriati · 18/06/2025 16:05

I'm in favour of assisted dying, I don't think doctors who treat pain should be prosecuted, but I don't support this bill.

Its so ill thought out it was obviously written by activists with an agenda and a very limited world view. For example, there's absolutely no mention in it of women who may be pregnant. Its as if it hasn't crossed their mind that people can be categorised in two groups at once.

RedToothBrush · 18/06/2025 16:14

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 18/06/2025 15:53

You can get tired of it all you like. Have you watched someone you love the most in world die a slow painful death.
I have.
Palliative care in Scotland is shite

We should be campaigning for good palliative caring AT THE SAME TIME as assisted suicide, otherwise there is no incentive to give palliative care. This means vulnerable people are not given reasonable choices because of cost concerns and institutional level coercion.

The two should be walking hand in hand.

The absence of this is one of the key flaws in the proposals.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/06/2025 17:17

RedToothBrush · 18/06/2025 16:14

We should be campaigning for good palliative caring AT THE SAME TIME as assisted suicide, otherwise there is no incentive to give palliative care. This means vulnerable people are not given reasonable choices because of cost concerns and institutional level coercion.

The two should be walking hand in hand.

The absence of this is one of the key flaws in the proposals.

I agree.

WomanDaresTo · 18/06/2025 18:15

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2025 12:49

'Nicholas Reed was a Labour Councillor, former Oxford don, and led his campaigning organisation ‘EXIT’ from a mansion in ‘Kensington’ (really Pimlico). EXIT were serious about delivering their aims: their board had included luminaries of politics, media and sciences, and at least one doctor and lawyer. Their Chairman was past chair of the Liberals and patron of the trans rights campaign group Press for Change'

Sorry for being dim - was Nicholas Reed the Chairman?

The Chairman was Lord Beaumont, who was also in charge of the Albany Trust in the 1970s and patron of Press for Change in the 1990s.

Grammarnut · 18/06/2025 18:22

RedToothBrush · 18/06/2025 16:14

We should be campaigning for good palliative caring AT THE SAME TIME as assisted suicide, otherwise there is no incentive to give palliative care. This means vulnerable people are not given reasonable choices because of cost concerns and institutional level coercion.

The two should be walking hand in hand.

The absence of this is one of the key flaws in the proposals.

I totally agree about the need to write in palliative care provision and that it needs to be campaigned for. I'm not sure that the lack of such provision in the Bill is a flaw, I think it might be (unconsciously, perhaps) intentional. The people writing the bill are totally in favour of very ill people being able to commit suicide with help if they need it. It hasn't occurred to the activists that if people can be persuaded to die then palliative care becomes less necessary and thus it will no longer be prioritized (not that it is).

redboxer321 · 18/06/2025 18:26

To those who are advocating for better palliative care, do you really think that's possible? I mean with all the challenges we face as a society. Personally I struggle to see that it is.