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Moira Deeming defamation trial - Thread 2 from Australia

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TheSandgroper · 24/09/2024 10:54

Thread 1 https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5167282-in-australia-moira-deeming-defamation-trial-now-on?page=40&reply=138525746

Tribunal Tweets Substack https://tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/moira-deeming-v-john-pesutto-a-case?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share. Thanks to @BezMills

Thanks to everyone on thread 1. I am pleased it generated such interest and conversations. I have learnt a lot from many very bright women.

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LongtailedTitmouse · 03/10/2024 09:24

CassieMaddox · 03/10/2024 08:26

I doubt it. This is why I think Deeming was nuts not to settle. All the material was heard in court, ABC can now legitimately report on what was said in the public interest.

It's blown the whole "you can't say that, it's defamatory" thing out of the water. Huge own goal really.

They cannot just repeat defamatory statements made in court as though they are true. And would be very foolish to do so. They would still be defamatory. They could report ‘respondent stated “[defamatory statement]”’ and the claimant could then use that to argue for increased damages from the respondent. If media simply said ‘claimant did x’ then they could also find themselves in court for defamation.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 03/10/2024 09:26

Datun · 03/10/2024 09:10

“There is research to show that, as well as feeling a sense of power and control in sexual encounters with adults, children can frequently experience sexual pleasure … It is imperative that children’s sexual desires and sense of power and pleasure not only be recognised but also normalised.”

To misquote the Stone Cold Legend, I wouldn't care if it was the devil himself who called out these creeps.

Also, it's important to bear in mind that queer theorists getting control of sexual education materials is something which has happened globally. You linked a few good U.K. examples yesterday.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 03/10/2024 09:26

NotBadConsidering · 03/10/2024 09:11

This is an open message board. You can't control who joins a conversation. Feel free to discuss safeguarding as much as you want, I'll also continue to provide my input as much as I want. That's the point of a forum.

Why am I trying to control the conversationConfused?
I am pointing out your discriminatory beliefs as part of an open message board. You can continue to provide your input as much as you want and others can point out what it means.

Only one of us is making comments about "purity" and strawmanning/ misrepresenting the other.

Really? Why did you make a point of pointing out that the people raising concerns about Safe Schools were religious, then?

Nobody should be intimidated out of speaking up by allegations that they're the wrong religion, sex, race etc.

One of the processes involved with safeguarding is discussing - listening and evaluating whether a behaviour is abusive or something different. It's often a collaborative effort as you tease out how dangerous to a child something is - and scary because if you get it wrong, a child continues to be harmed. Claiming that that this or that religion is problematic in terms of using safeguarding as a tool to influence SRE is a very discriminatory approach and works to silence.

It's depressing to see safeguarding being used like this. Children's safety depends on adults being able to raise challenging issues without being shut down with "oh that's just what they (religious group, race, sex etc ) do"

Ereshkigalangcleg · 03/10/2024 09:28

Nobody should be intimidated out of speaking up by allegations that they're the wrong religion, sex, race etc.

Exactly. That's a safeguarding problem in and of itself.

NecessaryScene · 03/10/2024 09:29

Thinking that religion should have no place in SRE is not a "discriminatory belief", any more than thinking gender ideology should not have a place in SRE.

But thinking that religious people should not express views on it, or that their views should be dismissed because the people expressing them are religious, is discriminatory. That's what you were expressing. Nothing about content, just views on individuals.

And not only discriminatory, it's immensely dangerous. The combination of using social pressure to persuade your in-group to not talk about X, along with declaring that any concerns raised by the out-group should be dismissed about X, purely because they're the out-group, basically guarantees X will happen.

NotBadConsidering · 03/10/2024 09:32

CassieMaddox · 03/10/2024 09:21

Thinking that religion should have no place in SRE is not a "discriminatory belief", any more than thinking gender ideology should not have a place in SRE.

You saying this is a discriminatory belief that I hold is why I think you are being defensive. It's my opinion. It's a fairly mainstream opinion. You can just disagree without saying I'm implying "purity" or being discriminatory Confused

Thinking that religion should have no place in SRE is not a "discriminatory belief", any more than thinking gender ideology should not have a place in SRE.

No. But stating that religious people must only be raising concerns about safeguarding because of some sneaky motive, other than just, being concerned about safeguarding is. You wrote:

My point is that very religious people often have reasons that are nothing to do with "safeguarding" for getting involved in how schools teach SRE. Usually to do with notions of "sin" and being concerned for children's souls.

You have made a presumption of negative motive about people you know nothing about raising appropriate concerns about a subject you don’t think they should get involved in because of their religion. That is the discriminatory belief.

LongtailedTitmouse · 03/10/2024 09:37

My point is that very religious people often have reasons that are nothing to do with "safeguarding" for getting involved in how schools teach SRE. Usually to do with notions of "sin" and being concerned for children's souls.

“Notion of sin” could otherwise be expressed as their morals or ethics. Are you suggesting you have no morals and how schools teach SRE should be entirely amoral? If so, you are advocating for extreme Queer theory.

NotBadConsidering · 03/10/2024 09:40

”We can’t have the wrong sort of people talking about safeguarding.”

”We can’t have the wrong sort of people speaking at women’s rights rallies.”

“We can’t have the wrong sort of people raising concerns in parliament.”

“We can’t have the wrong sort of people calling out paedophile apologists.”

”We can’t have the wrong sort of people meeting with the wrong sort of people to discuss the right sort of issue, because that adds up to wrong.”

It’s just another form of bigotry.

Datun · 03/10/2024 09:43

NotBadConsidering · 03/10/2024 09:40

”We can’t have the wrong sort of people talking about safeguarding.”

”We can’t have the wrong sort of people speaking at women’s rights rallies.”

“We can’t have the wrong sort of people raising concerns in parliament.”

“We can’t have the wrong sort of people calling out paedophile apologists.”

”We can’t have the wrong sort of people meeting with the wrong sort of people to discuss the right sort of issue, because that adds up to wrong.”

It’s just another form of bigotry.

This.

And if the right sort of people suddenly go to the wrong sort of rally, now they're the wrong sort of people.

And if the right sort of people defend those rally goers, they are also the wrong sort of people.

Datun · 03/10/2024 09:45

AND if the right sort of people use the wrong sort of words about paedophile apologists, they are suddenly also the wrong sort of people

Helleofabore · 03/10/2024 09:46

NecessaryScene · 03/10/2024 09:29

Thinking that religion should have no place in SRE is not a "discriminatory belief", any more than thinking gender ideology should not have a place in SRE.

But thinking that religious people should not express views on it, or that their views should be dismissed because the people expressing them are religious, is discriminatory. That's what you were expressing. Nothing about content, just views on individuals.

And not only discriminatory, it's immensely dangerous. The combination of using social pressure to persuade your in-group to not talk about X, along with declaring that any concerns raised by the out-group should be dismissed about X, purely because they're the out-group, basically guarantees X will happen.

Edited

And also, why shouldn't people from different religions have some say in how religion is taught in school. They should not have any greater say than other experts, but they should not be simply excluded because they are have a 'religious belief'.

At all times what is taught to our children needs to be written and thoroughly evaluated by educational professionals for each age group. I don't think any outside organisation should be providing teaching content or aids directly, certainly not branded and certainly not taught by people who are not impartial or heavily invested in getting a particular message across.

I also think for consistency that one department should oversee what is being used in schools.

However, religions and parents should be part of the process of development of the curiculum and the content. Of course they should.

Helleofabore · 03/10/2024 09:48

Datun · 03/10/2024 09:45

AND if the right sort of people use the wrong sort of words about paedophile apologists, they are suddenly also the wrong sort of people

Yes. Based on what a UK politician should and shouldn't say... when the politician involved is from Australia which has had its very own political system and been governing itself as a nation since 1901.

MessinaBloom · 03/10/2024 09:54

Datun · 03/10/2024 08:58

And we're derailed again.

You're only "derailed" because a number of you are throwing questions at Cassie at the same time, and you'd be annoyed and she ignored them, so she answers them. Calling that a derail is hardly fair.

CassieMaddox · 03/10/2024 09:58

LongtailedTitmouse · 03/10/2024 09:24

They cannot just repeat defamatory statements made in court as though they are true. And would be very foolish to do so. They would still be defamatory. They could report ‘respondent stated “[defamatory statement]”’ and the claimant could then use that to argue for increased damages from the respondent. If media simply said ‘claimant did x’ then they could also find themselves in court for defamation.

I'm pretty sure they will have watertight legal advice on this.

MessinaBloom · 03/10/2024 09:58

BezMills · 03/10/2024 09:14

The topic is the Proscuitto (very thin slices of porkies) and the ALP fucking around and now in the process of finding out.

ALP = the Australian Labor Party, not the Australian Liberal Party. They are opposed. Pesutto is the Victorian Liberal Party leader.

Datun · 03/10/2024 10:00

FeralWoman · 03/10/2024 02:29

The secret recording made by Deeming of the meeting with Pesutto and Crozier on 23 February 2023 was played to the court. 30-35mins long.

Crozier is on the stand. She’s been the deputy leader of Vic Libs since 2018. She needs to do up another button on her shirt before she flashes her boobs or bra. It seems to be her style. Not appropriate.

Crysanthou is laying her breadcrumbs to lead Crozier into a trap, like she has with the other politicians. Crozier is getting defensive. Crozier is giving much shorter answers than the men. Crysanthou has already told Crozier to answer her question. She was avoiding giving a straight answer.

Crozier has admitted to watching some of the court case, including Pesutto. I believe that they aren’t supposed to until they’ve appeared in court. She’s also admitted to talking to Pesutto but claims to only be about daily political things, not the defamation case. Lol, sure.

Now we’re hearing about Deeming not attending a parliamentary meeting that Crozier granted her permission to not attend. Crozier assumed it was a medical appointment for one of her four children. It was for a hair appointment on the day of her maiden speech. She subsequently scolded Deeming like a child. Crysanthou is asking if Crozier understands the demands of balancing 4 children, full time work and personal appointments. Ouch. Crozier became upset (crocodile tears?) and said that sadly no she doesn’t know. I’m guessing she has no children.

Now onto Deeming’s maiden speech and Pesutto dealing with media fallout from it.

Now we’re hearing about Deeming not attending a parliamentary meeting that Crozier granted her permission to not attend. Crozier assumed it was a medical appointment for one of her four children.

I wonder why she assumed it was a medical appointment for one of her children. That's very specific.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 03/10/2024 10:02

This.

And if the right sort of people suddenly go to the wrong sort of rally, now they're the wrong sort of people.

And if the right sort of people defend those rally goers, they are also the wrong sort of people.

Yes, exactly.

CassieMaddox · 03/10/2024 10:06

MrsOvertonsWindow · 03/10/2024 09:26

Nobody should be intimidated out of speaking up by allegations that they're the wrong religion, sex, race etc.

One of the processes involved with safeguarding is discussing - listening and evaluating whether a behaviour is abusive or something different. It's often a collaborative effort as you tease out how dangerous to a child something is - and scary because if you get it wrong, a child continues to be harmed. Claiming that that this or that religion is problematic in terms of using safeguarding as a tool to influence SRE is a very discriminatory approach and works to silence.

It's depressing to see safeguarding being used like this. Children's safety depends on adults being able to raise challenging issues without being shut down with "oh that's just what they (religious group, race, sex etc ) do"

Equally people can raise a safeguarding risk to children of religious people inappropriately inputting to SRE.

I know posters on this board are most comfortable focusing on the risks of transition, but there are a whole load of other safeguarding risks out there. Teenage girls being raped and sexually abused by boys in their schools. Boys getting warped by porn to think coercive sexual behaviour is normal. Gay children being made to feel strange and different, affecting their mental health.

Conservative and religious groups often want to shut down SRE to purely discussing the mechanics of sex in science classes, and all the "relationship" stuff to be dealt with by parents. That opens teenagers up to loads of risks, even more so now than ever before when their alternative source of information is the Internet.

Many children don't have parents who are equipped to inform them about healthy relationships and sex, for a whole multitude of reasons. So I think an attitude that relies on "parents know best" is paradoxically a safeguarding risk.

CassieMaddox · 03/10/2024 10:09

NecessaryScene · 03/10/2024 09:29

Thinking that religion should have no place in SRE is not a "discriminatory belief", any more than thinking gender ideology should not have a place in SRE.

But thinking that religious people should not express views on it, or that their views should be dismissed because the people expressing them are religious, is discriminatory. That's what you were expressing. Nothing about content, just views on individuals.

And not only discriminatory, it's immensely dangerous. The combination of using social pressure to persuade your in-group to not talk about X, along with declaring that any concerns raised by the out-group should be dismissed about X, purely because they're the out-group, basically guarantees X will happen.

Edited

Which "individuals" did I express aview on please? Can you quote the post that has given you that impression?

The only individual I've mentioned is Moira Deeming using the term "paedophile apologists" about a whole group of educators, when in fact she meant one person in that group. I think its inflammatory and unreasonable to call everyone involved in the Safe Schools programme "paedophile apologists". It's an offensive over generalisation in my opinion.

CassieMaddox · 03/10/2024 10:11

NotBadConsidering · 03/10/2024 09:40

”We can’t have the wrong sort of people talking about safeguarding.”

”We can’t have the wrong sort of people speaking at women’s rights rallies.”

“We can’t have the wrong sort of people raising concerns in parliament.”

“We can’t have the wrong sort of people calling out paedophile apologists.”

”We can’t have the wrong sort of people meeting with the wrong sort of people to discuss the right sort of issue, because that adds up to wrong.”

It’s just another form of bigotry.

It’s just another form of bigotry
Don't be ridiculous. You can't go round calling people "bigots" for expressing a mainstream, reasonable concern.

LongtailedTitmouse · 03/10/2024 10:12

Equally people can raise a safeguarding risk to children of religious people inappropriately inputting to SRE.

Once again discriminating against religious people. It is entirely valid for religious people to input to SRE. Why shouldn’t they have a say in how their children are taught? It would be a breach of the ECHR to prevent it.

CassieMaddox · 03/10/2024 10:14

LongtailedTitmouse · 03/10/2024 09:37

My point is that very religious people often have reasons that are nothing to do with "safeguarding" for getting involved in how schools teach SRE. Usually to do with notions of "sin" and being concerned for children's souls.

“Notion of sin” could otherwise be expressed as their morals or ethics. Are you suggesting you have no morals and how schools teach SRE should be entirely amoral? If so, you are advocating for extreme Queer theory.

Confused I have come across religious people before who feel that non religious people have no morals, its an odd point of view to me. Humans innately have morals because we are social animals.

"Sins" are specific things forbidden in religious texts that are not universal "morals". Such as - homosexuality. Eating pork. Envying your neighbours mansion. Mixing fibres. Working on Sabbath. Having sex without a relationship. Using contraception. Those kinds of things.

CassieMaddox · 03/10/2024 10:15

LongtailedTitmouse · 03/10/2024 10:12

Equally people can raise a safeguarding risk to children of religious people inappropriately inputting to SRE.

Once again discriminating against religious people. It is entirely valid for religious people to input to SRE. Why shouldn’t they have a say in how their children are taught? It would be a breach of the ECHR to prevent it.

By the same argument, why shouldn't people with a particular gender ideology input to SRE? It would be a breach of the ECHR to prevent that too Confused

CassieMaddox · 03/10/2024 10:17

Datun · 03/10/2024 09:45

AND if the right sort of people use the wrong sort of words about paedophile apologists, they are suddenly also the wrong sort of people

Yep. See also using the wrong sort of words about far right people.

Maybe we should all be allowed to insult each other with impunity. Scrap defamation laws!

CassieMaddox · 03/10/2024 10:18

Helleofabore · 03/10/2024 09:46

And also, why shouldn't people from different religions have some say in how religion is taught in school. They should not have any greater say than other experts, but they should not be simply excluded because they are have a 'religious belief'.

At all times what is taught to our children needs to be written and thoroughly evaluated by educational professionals for each age group. I don't think any outside organisation should be providing teaching content or aids directly, certainly not branded and certainly not taught by people who are not impartial or heavily invested in getting a particular message across.

I also think for consistency that one department should oversee what is being used in schools.

However, religions and parents should be part of the process of development of the curiculum and the content. Of course they should.

However, religions and parents should be part of the process of development of the curiculum and the content. Of course they should.
Should LGBT people/charities also be part of the process? If not, why not? Why are they different to religions?

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