Who the fuck am I?, you ask. A lesbian who since 2008, when a man walked into my local Women's Centre and announced that he was exercising his right as a woman to attend lesbian events there, has been trying to stop the juggernaut. I've been posting on here since around 2015/16. I was one of those purged with LangCleg, then allowed back without explanation later, only to be locked out again for writing about AGP. On here I've posted at different times as Shedbuilder and Patti Hews and other names I don't remember.
Back in 2008 and in the few years that followed I lost at least half my friends and parts of my family because I'd taken the hateful bigot path. I started a couple of social groups for GC people, one women-only and one mixed. From those groups we've created a support group for people whose children have identified as trans and some of the parents in the original groups have formed a school-watch group and started tackling some of the issues going on in local schools. We encourage everyone in those groups to DO stuff, not to just come along each fortnight for a grumble. As a result, the LA and the Health Board have been getting feedback and questions they'd rather not face and we've seem some rewriting of action plans and material on their websites. A drop in the bucket, but drip by drip...
A couple of the people who are part of those groups went on to be involved in starting SEEN networks in their sectors — which is why I'm bloody annoyed with what HJ has said because I know what they had to go through to do it.
I've been involved with various lesbians groups, disrupted Pride and my MP's face falls when I come through the door because I just won't let up. He's gone from 'You're paranoid, woman' to being GC. Quietly so, but it's traction.
I'm one of the early members of LGBA and I run an LGBA Friends group. I go out every few weeks with WRNers and LWSers and others of all persuasions, leafletting and talking to people on High Streets about women's and children and LGB rights. I've been involved in setting up rallies, organising protests outside events, making banners and parading them when necessary. In the last few weeks I've worked with a couple of local gay men to block a proposed LGBTQ+ children and young peoples' group orchestrated by a man with a very dodgy past. That's just the half of it that I can say here without identifying myself too clearly.
Because I understand how hard it is to stand up and be counted, and how difficult it is to get anything approaching a movement going, I try not to knock other women who are doing something, even if they're not women I agree with on much. There are too many people in this fight who don't do much that's constructive or helpful but criticise and snigger about those who do. I was there at the event at Filia in Cardiff that sparked the Elephant in the Room debate, in which I participated. It's those sly attempts to smear other women that I hate most. I'm not going to play these purity games. I come onto FWR sometimes and open threads like this and half the contributors can be read as being transallies, posting sly jabs at women doing something in order to demoralise and deter. Magdalen Burns wouldn't be having it and neither am I. 'What would Magdalen Burns do' is my mantra.