When we talk of male and female we generally mean what someone appears to be.
I disagree with this. Male and female relate to the sex of something, not what it appears to be.
So those with Swyer’s are considered female because they have all the appearance of being female.
No, they are considered female because they don't have male determining genes.
So female cannot be about appearance or looks.
True, it's about genes.
Usually I’d go with which gametes are produced, but in infertile individuals this is problematic and unhelpful.
Gametes determine the number of sexes something can be, not the sex of individuals.
So next I’d consider chromosomes - XX is normal female, XY is normal male. Occasionally someone may have a variation of either of these.
I would say main rather than normal, but yes.
Wrt the SRY gene - from what others have said about how this determines sex, it appears that this overrides everything else, and there is no right or wrong place for it, just a usually expected place and a more unusual one.
SRY is the main determination sex gene. It is the switch that turns on main development. It is usually found on the Y chromosome. When things don't turn out as expected and the SRY has transposed or not developed this results in a DSD.
*If that really is the case then surely it cannot form part of the symptoms of a DSD at all?
That is, no matter whether it is absent or present it is the right state for that individual. The fact that someone may have XX with SRY isn’t a problem with the SRY, but a problem with the XX instead. Or a problem with the Y part of XY when the SRY is absent.
This makes no sense to me. I’m trying to understand, but if the normal state for XY is +SRY, I cannot see how XY-SRY is not considered an abnormal state for XY individuals, rather than an abnormal state for XX individuals.*
I don't think you can understand because you are still holding on to the belief that male = XY when male = SRY. Having a Y chromosome is not a determining factor in what sex you are.
Obviously XY-SRY- is a disordered state for XY individuals. Nevertheless those individuals are female.