@InvisibleBuffy I should be interested to hear why you consider the claim that transgender women are more than twice as likely than cis women to experience domestic abuse is unreliable or not evidenced.
The referenced Stonewall report, in the section headed 'Intimate partner violence' on page 10, contains this sentence: "One in five trans people and non-binary people (both 19 per cent) have faced domestic abuse from a partner in the last year. This includes 21 per cent of trans men and 16 per cent
of trans women."
In the preceding paragraph of the same Stonewall report is written: "According to the Office for National Statistics six per cent of women and three per cent of men in the general population have experienced domestic abuse from a partner in the last year." This agrees to the ONS report link that I posted above. Given the proportion of cis women in the population of all women, I think we can take it that six per cent is therefore, to the nearest percentage point, the figure for cis women in the population. And we are comparing 'apples and apples' - same time period etc.
Although the Stonewall report does not include this calculation itself, primary school arithmetic tells us that 16 per cent divided by 6 per cent is 2.7 times, which can be described in words as 'more than twice as likely'. That isn't, for me, a great leap to get to that multiple from those percentages, and I would hardly describe it as 'a made up stat'.
It is demonstrably clear that the chart in the Stonewall report posted above by @OldCroneshows a wider set of categories of abuse than the one described as 'domestic abuse from a partner' in the figures above. If that weren't the case, the figure cited in the text of 11% of LGBT people experiencing domestic abuse would instead be at a level of, say, 59% (highest percentage in the chart). The link between the percantages in the text and table could certainly be better explained, but it is obvious to anyone who spends more than a few seconds analysing it that the 16% for trans women will not include 'using the wrong pronouns' or 'ridiculing their gender identity'.
I have also done what I would always do if I wanted to check a figure, and looked for other research in the same area. There isn't much, but US data also has results for trans women experiencing what they term Intimate Partner Violence at rates very roughly double those of cis women.
The debate is not edified by either misreading data or by using personal experience or views on gender to override an objective view of the facts. Which do very much point to LGBT individuals in general, and homosexual male and trans people in particular, experiencing significantly more domestic abuse and violence than in the wider population. In a civilised society, this is not something we should stand by and see, without trying to address it.