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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Good night stories for rebel girls

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SunshineOutdoors · 23/05/2019 21:36

Dd (7) was given this book as a gift. Reading it together she came across one story about a boy who I think became transgender (didn’t look too long at the page or read the whole story). Dd became quite cross because there was a boy in her story that’s meant to be just about girls (her, slightly paraphrased, words). I’m a bit cross too to be honest because I thought the premise of this book was great as a discussion point about women’s history and how hard it has been for them. I appreciate this story has its place and that the person in it has also probably experienced their own challenges, but I’m surprised that it was included in this book and also intrigued by dd’s reaction (which I shared to be honest). Not sure what I hope to gain from this thread but just a bit sad I suppose that what is supposed to be a women themed book felt it needed to include this, and sad that my daughter’s natural reaction to it is probably not going to be seen as acceptable as she grows up. Just highlighted for me the erosion of women only spaces I suppose.

I didn’t really talk it through with dd in much detail(hence not fully reading the story). She just wanted to turn the page and read about someone else, which I was happy to do. I suppose it just jarred with me - thinking in terms of explaining to her how some of these women weren’t allowed to go to school,vote, be who they wanted to be because they are women and I didn’t feel the need for this - an equally valid story of an individual but not someone with the experience of being put down because you’re a woman and all the history and politics that goes with it - to be included in the book.

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AlsoKnownAsMillicent · 24/05/2019 10:02

And I don't know about you, but for me a rebel girl has always been a girl who defies the stereotypes imposed on our sex, not a boy who embraces them.

Yes, why isn't Coy in the Stories of Boys who Dare to be Different?

WhatTheWatersShowedMe · 24/05/2019 10:45

I really like Goodnight Stories for Rebel Girls- my daughter has both volumes. When we got to the page on Coy it let us have a discussion on gender stereotypes and how Coy was really a boy and how silly it was they were in the book.

It pissed me right off that they were included but I didn't want to dismiss the hundreds of other stories in there about actual, remarkable women because the woke publishers thought it would be a good idea to include one boy who doesn't behave according to society's expectations.

DeployTheTut · 24/05/2019 11:55

Yep. Got his book as a gift for DD when she was 6. Great sized stories for bedtime. Feel sick that they included a boy. Haven’t glued pages together, but we’ve compared the experiences of the accomplished women with the boy included because he likes pink. And I won’t lie to my children and pretend they aren’t going to come across this, time and again. I hope they stay angry

Sillydoggy · 24/05/2019 13:25

I’ve said this before but despite hating the story being in there it gave me a chance to talk about stereotypes and remind my girls that pink doesn’t make you a girl. This story is so simplistically written that it is easy for even a young child to see how nonsensical it is and how it doesn’t fit with the achievements or struggles in the rest of the book. Use it to counter the ideology from early on.

MenuPlant · 24/05/2019 13:32

I also didn't get this due to inclusion of someone, can't remember who.

Glad I didn't, read the screen shot of page on coy, how dare they? Pink cake pink shoes. Going to court to make sure girls have to get undressed in front of boys in school. Hooray! Fuck off.

HermioneWeasley · 24/05/2019 13:42

SirVix, I’m with your daughter. Cory comes across as utterly selfish

SirVixofVixHall · 24/05/2019 14:45

Both dds also snorted derisively at the “pink and sparkly” nonsense. I made the mistake of buying this book and then they had another copy as a present. It undermines the impressive achievements of all the women in there, that this tiny tyrant is included, for trampling on the rights of girls. Was the author on glue ? It is a baffling inclusion.

AlwaysTawnyOwl · 24/05/2019 15:32

Your daughter tells it like it is. From the mouths of babes......

pachyderm · 24/05/2019 16:01

I threw that book against the wall in a rage. Then ripped the offending page out.

AnyOldPrion · 25/05/2019 11:00

and sad that my daughter’s natural reaction to it is probably not going to be seen as acceptable as she grows up

Let’s hope that by the time she reaches adulthood, this ideology will have receded. Keep fighting.

3timeslucky · 25/05/2019 11:49

Like others we used that story (which I only became aware of talking to my dd (she's 10) about the short-comings of transgender ideology. Because I hadn't read the book I'd no idea it was there. Once I explained what transgender meant she mentioned the story. Coy was presented as some sort of hero. I asked where were the voices of the girls whose bathroom Coy was now in. There's so much focus on the "oh poor child, must be so confusing and difficult to feel at odds with your sex" that the feelings of all the other children are completely disregarded.

I also hate that I originally wrote this post and where it says Coy I had written the boy and I've edited it because I don't know when and where biological reality can be stated. I am so fucking fed up of this shit.

NeurotrashWarrior · 25/05/2019 17:00

.My daughter didn’t bother reading it when she realised it was just another annoying boy.

Clever lass.

AnyOldPrion · 25/05/2019 19:26

My daughter didn’t bother reading it when she realised it was just another annoying boy.

Clever lass.

Yup. I’d have dismissed it as a child as well, if it’s all pink and sparkly. Ironic if the only truly sexist story in the book is that one. Says it all really. In fact, if they were truly about rebellion, they’dve had THAT story in the boy’s book and he wouldn’t have transitioned.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/02/2026 13:51

I just out this in the charity pile …

Good night stories for rebel girls
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