I'm not well versed in academic feminist discourse to apologies if this makes no sense.
I've long felt that liberal feminism (taken from the point of view that women no longer have societal barriers and have full agency to change structures and systems from within) relies on girls understanding what those structures and systems are from a very young age and being able to recognise them.
For example, if you are a confident, high achieving girl who is able to go on to have a good career then maybe on many levels liberal feminism can work for you. Especially if you make a good choice of partner to have children with who is very pro shared parenting and domestic workload.
Where though does it leave young girls who start off in life not making good choices or have no recourse to them for a myriad of reasons. Women and girls should be allowed to fuck up and be able to understand the class analysis of how this might have happened.
Teen motherhood is a prime example of this. Girls who become mothers at a young age rarely if ever understand (at the time) that this puts you on a back foot for decades even if she goes on to complete education at a later date. There is a snowball effect of consequences in trying to parent whilst you are still figuring out who you are and your place in the world. This isn't a swipe at teen mums by the way - I was one.
Not sure quite what I'm trying to express here, perhaps someone else can better articulate.
I suppose it's that for all female choices to be feminist ones you would have to be absolutely sure that every individual girl or women understands fully how society works in any given situation and they don't.