I think you're grasping at straws there vanilla. You have made an enormous amount of assumptions in your posts, and apparently have completely changed your mind as to why they mentioned the headphones without acknowledging that a few posts back you made a completely different assumption as to why they mentioned them.
I would still think that, if hoping to get members of the public to remember a person they saw in a day, the report would say something like "We would like people to try and remember if they saw this person and if so contact X" and then list characteristics such as sex, age, race, attire, and finally accessories such as bags, scarves or indeed headphones.
I would not think it likely that, if hoping to get members of the public to remember a person they saw in a day, the report simply say "she was wearing headphones" and leave it at that.
Now I'm guessing that no-one except the OP saw the piece. However, based on what the OP says, which is all we have to go on, it seems odd to first state that they included it because it's police safety advice (erm OK), and then when realising that the people who made the report said something quite different, to immediately say "yes that makes a lot of sense, they obviously wanted people to come forward and so to do that mentioned one aspect of her appearance only I think that's quite normal".
There are a lot of stretches there.
I also wonder why it matters to you. It matters to the OP and to others as they see it as victim blaming and because of that are upset. It matters to you that you argue against that point - why? For what purpose? Just for the sake of disagreeing? You are happy with what the piece said so that's fine. The response to the OPs complaint was get stuffed so that's fine. So what is it that you want here? Just to argue the toss? With people who think that this sort of thing directly contributes to low levels of rape reporting etc? Why? What do you gain?