Kasey - You might like to refrain from calling strangers on the internet "sweetie" if you have such thin skin re "patronising".
"Melissa Hines (author of many of the studies in your link)"
She is one of the authors of two of the studies among many studies in that link.
"... has spoken several times of the need to reduce society's influence with regards to gender stereotyping"
So? Good for her. I agree with that. Gender stereotyping is a bad thing.
"The monkey study was criticised for being subjective in its interpretation. Cooking pans were regarded as a girl's toy"
Are you thinking of some other study? Because this one doesn't have pans. Here are the toys they used:
Materials
Because we hypothesized that some aspects of sexually differentiated toy preferences reflect activity preferences, we categorized our toys not by traditional gender assignment, but by specific object properties that made our categories comparable, though not exact matches, to stereotypical gender assignments. Thus one set of toys was “wheeled,” most comparable to the masculine vehicle toys and the other was “plush,” most comparable to the feminine doll and stuffed animal toys. The seven plush toys were: Winnie-the-Pooh™, Raggedy-Ann™, a koala bear hand puppet, an armadillo, a teddy bear, Scooby-Doo™, and a turtle. The sizes ranged in length from about 14 cm to 73 cm. The six wheeled toys were: a wagon, a truck, a car, a construction vehicle, a shopping cart, and a dump truck. These ranged in length from 16 to 46 cm. Plush and wheeled toys varied considerably in shape and color as well.
"I had said "not much of a biological component". Doesn't mean that I think there isn't one, just not a big one"
I'm not sure that is a meaningful comment. So you know that women and men are different, but not really. Or, you understand that women and men are different but it suits you to say that the difference isn't important?
Do we at least agree that girls and boys tend to choose different toys not just because they are socially conditioned to do so?