What I find surprising is how few on this board will accept that, and most feel that a woman should accrue all the rights due to her physical body but accept none of the limitations
Where am I accruing rights Larry? All I want are the same rights as you to control my own body.
Pregnancy, by the way, is a huge imposition on a woman's life. You might want it and love it but it is also a physical ordeal and by the way, carries considerable risks and costs which span the entire range from damage to the health of your teeth to catastrophic damage and death. No one can take that away from pregnancy - we do try to mitigate risks through medical intervention but pregnancy will never be risk-free. So men and women are very far from being on an equal playing field when it comes to bringing the next generation into the world, physically, let alone socially, politically and economically. Your comments make you look as though you think pregnancy is something you decide to do that is cost free. Sadly not.
My fundamental view on this is that biology has designed human beings so that life can only enter the world through a woman's body. Fine. We can't do much about that. But I must insist on the right to decide whether to be a vessel or not. If I choose to be a vessel then fine - I submit to it. But I will not have that choice taken away from me.
Once the baby is here then it's a whole different rights story. But all the while it needs to use my body as a vessel to get here, the baby has no rights. Unless I choose to give it rights by giving up my own.
Imagine a situation where a woman giving birth and the baby were both in danger and only one of them could be saved. Only the mother has the right to say "Save the baby - I sacrifice myself to the baby". No one else in the delivery room has the right to say "Sacrifice her - the baby wins". Indeed I think most doctors would, if push came to shove, agree that primacy belongs to the woman and I suspect even pro life drs would find it difficult to conclude differently.