Gah, because I wanted to be absolutely clear that no one thought you personally had expected me personally to wash your mug, for pity's sake.
It was an illustration that back then, there were some feminists who were often seen as authorities on feminism, de facto leaders of collectives, who didn't seem particularly interested in engaging with other feminists as equals -hence the mugs left for others to wash after meetings.
Sorry, I don't buy the idea that after the revolution, whether it's a feminist one, a marxist one or any flavour, that all oppression will magically melt away.
Stars, I've been putting the point across since I joined here that feminist have a far better chance of success if we value each other, recognise that many feminists are at different points on their journey and they're more likely to get on board if we engage with rather than patronise and put them down. Uniting to work towards common goals has got to be a better way than prescribing what we should all do and think and sniping with each other all the time. That's doing the work of patriarchy for them, for free, and with relish.
So really, there's not alot of point of me sticking around here. The culture seems to be one of conformity - wagons in a circle, if they're not 100% with us, they're against us. Disappointing, as there have been moments where I've learned alot from engaging with others here, and have sensed that at times my contributions have been valued by some. But the slap downs of those who don't conform mean there ain't much space left for the dialogue stuff, sadly.
Night all, good luck in your future endeavours.