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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Words used soley to describe women

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BumperlicicusTotalus · 10/07/2011 09:55

I've been thinking of some:
Sassy
Feisty
Hysterical
Gossip
Strident
Mumtrepeneur
Career woman
Slut

These are used to describe women having an opinion, working or having sex. I can't think of male equvilents.

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VelveteenRabbit · 14/07/2011 20:25

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jennyvstheworld · 14/07/2011 20:27

I seem to recall that when Rebekah Brooks was arrested for punching her then husband Ross Kemp, it was all treated as a bit of a joke. Maybe hen-pecked is indeed funnier, even when it includes DV. The joke's lost on me though...

jennyvstheworld · 14/07/2011 20:29

Most men are assholes Velveteen Rabbit? (I prefer arseholes, but I'm old-fashioned)

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MyNameIsInigoMontoya · 14/07/2011 20:38

I wrote a whole essay once at school on words where the masculine version was (normally) seen as positive, and the feminine version as more negative - just can hardly remember any of them!

I do remember Wizard vs. Witch - where wizard usually had the connotation of being wise, powerful etc, vs. witch being old, ugly, nasty... oh yes, and Dog/Bitch (or Bull/Cow) where only the female one normally gets used as an insult. Sure there were lots more though!

rainbowtoenails · 17/07/2011 23:30

Toots
Glamourpuss
Trolley dolly
Doll
Harpies
Pet/petal
Hun
Love
Sheila
Witch
Plain jane
Diva
Moaning minnie
Daddy's girl
Ladette
Lipstick lesbian
The blue rinse brigade
Curvy
Sex kitten
Pop princess
Bikini ready
Sperm stealer
False rape alleger

QuimFabray · 18/07/2011 15:45

Bubbly

Nimble (fingered)

I used to work in a JobCentre and we had to make sure that the wording on job vacancies was completely gender neutral. On two occasions, I dealt with angry (male) employers who wanted a receptionist and a sewing machinist, respectively. They didn't want men applying and were insistent the above phrases were used.

Nimble also reminds me of that shite-tasting 'slimming' bread, which is obviously aimed at women.

higgle · 18/07/2011 18:16

Trollop...

Dozer · 20/07/2011 20:42

Munter
Pig

As in "pull a pig" contests among groups of boys on nights out.

This thread is making me quite angry as so many of the words are everywhere, all the time, and it's hard to challenge it without being labelled with more of the words!

CaptainBarnacles · 20/07/2011 21:01

Two French expressions (which are used in English sometimes too):

jolie laide (literally pretty-ugly, used to describe those who are quirky/striking rather than conventionally beautiful)

mal baisée (needs a good seeing to - a particular unfavourite of mine)

crazynanna · 20/07/2011 21:04

Supreme Being Wink

Bloodybridget · 23/07/2011 16:20

Women and girls giggle, men and boys generally do not.

JoleneTheNunsnetter · 23/07/2011 23:01

Cum bucket :(

oiwheresthecoffee · 31/07/2011 12:28

Blonde.
Brunette.
And so on. Never hear of a man refered to just by hair colour do you ?

allhailtheaubergine · 31/07/2011 12:37

Similarly; busty or leggy,

You don't hear about 'peccy' men.

TeiTetua · 31/07/2011 15:48

"Blonde.
Brunette.
And so on. Never hear of a man refered to just by hair colour do you ?"

The twit with long hair?
Or in its absence, Baldy?

If a man tried to do things to his hair that women more often do, I think quite a bit would be said about it, actually.

And as for physical type, there are all kinds of words to describe the male physique. Different from the words used for women, though.

Wiry, weedy, ripped, a hunk?

LadyClariceCannockMonty · 31/07/2011 16:42

Great thread.

It's very revealing to imagine some of these words for women being used
about men. 'Dadtrepeneur'? Never heard it. Are men ever described as a 'career man' (or 'career boy' as in 'career girl')?

HandDivedScallopsrgreat · 31/07/2011 19:28

Demure

Lio · 01/08/2011 13:42

How about mistress? Is there an equivalent for the man that a married woman is having an affair with?

PatRiarchy · 04/08/2011 05:29

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LadyClariceCannockMonty · 04/08/2011 09:04

Lio, I suspect not! Maybe 'dog' said in an admiring way, although that's probably more of an American term.

HandDivedScallopsrgreat · 04/08/2011 12:19

Fanciful
A scold (heard it on QI last night)

LadyClariceCannockMonty · 04/08/2011 14:08

Shock Scallops. They weren't using 'scold' seriously, were they?

HandDivedScallopsrgreat · 04/08/2011 14:27

No. They were discussing scolds in the context of a scold's bridle. Admittedly it's not a word in common usage nowadays Grin but I've never heard it in a historical context against men.

LadyClariceCannockMonty · 04/08/2011 14:38

No, a scold was definitely a woman who talked too much. Cos men NEVER do that. Grin

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