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Who are today's inspirational women and how do we feel about current female role models?

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JustineMumsnet · 23/09/2010 13:37

I'm attending an event tonight which is discussing today's inspirational women and wanted to pick your brians Smile please.

Who are your role models - do you have them, do they bear any resemblance to those that tend to top the lists in the meeja? Are there women that you find inspiring and why?

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RamblingRosa · 23/09/2010 20:01

I agree with lots already said on here:
Aung San Suu Kyi
Helena Kennedy
Caroline Lucas
Any woman who battles the odds and manages to succeed in a male dominated profession
The women who striked for equal pay at Ford in the 60s (because i recently saw Made in Dagenham and it reminded me how much we all owe to those brave women)
Kate Adie
Anna Ford
Frances O'Grady (deputy general secretary of the TUC)

I agree with Dittany that we shouldn't define our role models by who we don't like (although I too get mightily pissed off every time someone harps on about KP being a role model).

BertieBotts · 23/09/2010 20:14

Sorry, I'm not very well informed about current affairs, but here are my humble offerings.

The only celebrity I can really cite as a 'role model' is probably JK Rowling for her talent, and she comes across as down to earth and just generally nice. I found it inspiring to hear about how she used to write in cafes with her daughter in a buggy and all the work she has done since becoming famous for single parent families.

I admire Davina McCall for all the reasons already mentioned, and her work with the NCT helping to promote home birth. Salma Hayek for breastfeeding that baby in Sierra Leone. Various musical artists whose work inspires me in a feminist way: KT Tunstall, Ani DiFranco, Amy Lee.

Non celebrities - I probably look up to these people more, just because I have personally met them and know them more. I don't know whether it's particularly helpful to you but I'll include them anyway.

My Mum - brought up me and my sister on her own on very little money, while suffering with M.E. and never once let on how she really felt about my Dad despite him letting us down constantly. Always respectful and I think did a good job Grin

My antenatal teacher - has now left the NCT and set up her own business, including offering free early pregnancy classes to people who are otherwise unlikely to take any classes, which can't be making her very much money. Wonderfully non-judgemental and non-patronising in her approach.

Someone from toddler group who has had every kind of shit you can imagine thrown at her and has walked tall, brushed it off and gone on with her life, and is a genuinely lovely person to boot. I don't want to say too much more but she is amazing, truly inspirational.

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infin · 23/09/2010 20:39

Yes...will gladly add Louise Arbour to the list!

sethstarkaddersmum · 23/09/2010 20:45

I wouldn't really mind KP being a role model as long as she doesn't have to be everyone's.
If someone wants to be a glamour model she's probably a good choice for them Confused. In a sane world that wouldn't be the career of choice for very many women though.

inveteratenamechanger · 23/09/2010 20:45

Yes to Mary Beard - she is just fabulous.

In politics, Harriet Harman, for all the reasons above, and also I always admire her for giving her sons her surname. And definitely Caroline Lucas - I have heard her talk and she is inspirational.

I also love Martha Kearney - she is an all-too-rare example of a woman in the public eye who isn't defined in terms of motherhood. I heard her present Any Answers on R4 recently, and she was fantastic, actually interviewing the callers instead of the usual Dimblebore patronising.

inveteratenamechanger · 23/09/2010 20:46

And I have to say I agree with Bonsoir about Penelope Leach - she is a gem.

ZeroZeroOne · 23/09/2010 21:00

I really like bonnie greer especially when she stood up to Nick Griffin with such dignity on QT.

Agree with Caroline Lucas, Kirsty Wark, Shami Chakrabati and so many of the others.

In the entertainment world I admire Helen Mirren, Judi Dench and Shelia Hancock. Not entirely sure why - just that they seem to have demonstrated such skill in their field without being defined by how sexy they are seen to be (mind you, Helen Mirren seems to get more beautiful and elegant every time I see her...)

sethstarkaddersmum · 23/09/2010 21:03

oh yes Zero, Bonnie Greer was so, so cool on QT. It was the way Griffin clearly wanted to suck up to her but still kept on saying awful things.... and Greer's kind suggestion that he visit the British Museum.... that was so fabulous.

maybe there is something about people called 'Greer'.

QuintessentialShadows · 23/09/2010 21:18

Eva Joly.

For unmasking corruption and her crusade against it.

She is the most inspirational, and strongest women I know of. She has brains and real guts.

No, she has nothing in common with women hyped up in meeeeja.

deemented · 23/09/2010 22:02

Maya Angelou
Susan Sarandon

CaptainNancy · 23/09/2010 22:09

SuseB- I am familiar with her work, but have only had the good fortune to meet in person once... it would have been twice, early next year, but she has had to cancel- do you know she has a brain tumour? Sad

nemofish · 23/09/2010 22:11

deemented you beat me to it with Maya Angelou.

I would add Margaret Atwood, Germaine Greer, Eleanor Rooselvelt (not just because she was a presidents wife) Helen Keller, Alice Walker and Kimberley Rivers Roberts.

nameymcnamechange · 23/09/2010 23:07

Justine - you are going to meet one of the women I find utterly inspirational: Joan Bakewell. Lucky you.

southeastastra · 23/09/2010 23:08

lots in real life, none from the meedya

JustineMumsnet · 23/09/2010 23:31

Thanks so much all for your suggestions - I plagiarised mercilessly and only ran out of things to say when someone asked for a male role model Confused. But I had a really lovely chat with Joan, Sue, Camilla and Angela Hartnett too - was great fun and I got to donate 500 smackers to Every Disabled Child Matters for the pleasure of going along.

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ElephantsAndMiasmas · 23/09/2010 23:46

Ah that sounds like a great evening Justine - who did you pick to focus on in the end? Or would that be telling? :o

JustineMumsnet · 23/09/2010 23:57

Well... I said that pretty much all the panel had been nominated several times [diplomatic] and then said that any high profile woman in politics in this country was a bit of a hero because of the vitriol and ridicule they are routinely exposed to from the press (mostly but not exclusively the tabloids). And then I said you lot, natch. And then I said my mum Smile.

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ElephantsAndMiasmas · 24/09/2010 00:14

Well that sounds very fair :) Glad your mum got a mention too.

Obviously been on MN too much because I saw this question and thought "Riven! Oh and Reality for her great relationship advice! And dittany for being totally stoic despite being harangued left right and centre! And and and..."

And then I realised that no-one would know who these people were (or would they?) Blush

No movement on the Emma Thompson/Queen of the World situation though? [disappointed]

Quattrocento · 24/09/2010 00:17

I don't have any brians. I have a Daniel and a Richard though?

PosieParker · 24/09/2010 07:58

(just clicked because I though Quattro had said she didn't have any brains!!Grin) seems that I don't, this morning.

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