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Books you are glad that you persevered with

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muddleduck · 30/07/2009 11:53

Another thread made me wonder about this.

I very rarely give up on a book that I've started with but it is usually the case that if I hate it at the start I carry on hating it all the way.

The only exception I can think of is Raymond Chandler's "The Big Sleep" which I was forced to read for a book club. I nearly gave up on it several times but had to concede that it is actually well worth reading.

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GreenPeas · 30/07/2009 21:26

Middlemarch... tried and tried and tried and couldn't get past page 40-odd but then took it on a long backpacking holiday and, eventually, loved it.

Also agree with Captain Corelli taking a while to warm up.

bran · 30/07/2009 21:28

I read Captain Corelli fairly easily, but was quite disappointed with it in the end. I think I must be a glass-half-empty person because while others were going on about the happy ending that they got back together I could only focus on the tragedy of the lost years that they could have had.

nomorecake · 30/07/2009 22:15

we need to talk about kevin - i struggld with for the irst quarter, but i think thats because she mentioned things that hadnt been introduced into the story yet.
but after that, a brilliant book.

midnights children, got half way, about to give up and it then the last half was really good.

both were worth sticking with.

a fine balance, wish i hadnt stuck with it. i was depressed by the end.

havent been able to pick up a book in ages unfortunately.

SlartyBartFast · 30/07/2009 22:18

not a very avid reader, but We Need to Talk was mentioned to me, i flicked through vast paragraphs in the beginning, and eventually got into it BIG time.

bought lovely Bones several years ago- just started reading it today

PortAndLemon · 30/07/2009 23:00

Vanity Fair. I had to read it in chunks at a time when I always read books right through in one or two sittings, but I did enjoy it eventually.

I keep trying to read Middlemarch and keep giving up even though I suspect I'd enjoy it if I could get into it properly.

And I've never managed to finish Mansfield Park in spite of loving the rest of Austen. I think I may just admit defeat on that.

MrsMuddle · 30/07/2009 23:02

nomorecake A Fine Balance is next in my reading pile. Was the story depressing (which I quite like ) or was it depressing because it was a hard read and a very long book, like Midnight's Children?

yama · 30/07/2009 23:08

Tender is the Night by F Scott Fitzgerald.

A boyfriend at uni said that I probably wouldn't understand the intricacies of the various family dynamics (or somesuch).

It became my favourite book ever.

flockwallpaper · 30/07/2009 23:51

I found Captain Corelli's Mandolin hard to get into at first. I was also on holiday and had nothing else in english to read. Had I been at home I probably would have given up.

Another one for me is Schindler's list. It took me about 6 months to get through the first 6 chapters, then suddenly I couldn't put it down.

smugaboo · 31/07/2009 06:23

Lord Jim - small writing, dense language but fantastic story.
Prayer for Owen Meaney - hooked me in the end but god it spent a long time talking about nothing.

i agree with bran about the ending of CCM. I quite liked Captain all the way through but it completed shitted me the way they needlessly wasted all those years

Pekkala · 31/07/2009 07:15

Most of Margaret Atwood's novels.
She is one of my favourite author but I always find the first few chapters of any of her books completely disorientating and end up having to re-read them at least once.

smugaboo - I had to force myself with Owen Meanie (it was a loan from a friend who had raved). Managed it but didn't "love" it.

EachPeachPearMum · 31/07/2009 07:35

Moby Dick- so much in it, but hard-going and so looooooooong

DuchessOfAvon · 31/07/2009 08:01

Mrs Muddle - A Fine Balance is achingly depressing. Its a brilliant book. Have tissues ready.

The Bone People - Keri Hulme. It was a favourite book throughout my twenties but I haven't re-read it for a long while - I may think its twaddle now. But I struggled with it and then fell in love with it.

IsItMeOr · 31/07/2009 08:10

Really surpised to see CCM, Atonement, 100 years of solitude and Book Thief mentioned, as I found them really accessible all the way through (actually, haven't finished Book Thief yet, but doesn't matter for this thread!). But I did find that I had to get into the right - slow - pace of reading for Louis de Bernieres other books. There seems to be a bit of a theme emerging here that the magical reality books require a different mind-set to get into. On that theme, I gave up on Midnight's Children and sent it to the charity shop. Sounds as if I should have persevered, but it was so damn long!

Anybody ever finished James Joyce's Portrait of the Artist...? First time I didn't make it past the first page, which is gobbledygook. Second time, I turned over and realised it was somebody telling a child a nonsense story, but then gave up on the lurid descriptions of hell. Never tried again.

IsItMeOr · 31/07/2009 08:11

Yama - your boyfriend at uni sounds a real charmer - wasn't he basically saying that he thought you were too thick to understand what he did? Guessing he wasn't a keeper?

Flamesparrow · 31/07/2009 08:19

It took me 12 years to finally finish Jane Eyre. I'm still not sure it was worth it, but it felt so good to finish the bloody thing

jennymac · 31/07/2009 08:37

Agree with others about Kevin. Started to read it when 8 mths pregnant and had the concentration span of a goldfish. Began again when dd was a few months old and loved it! Tried Atonement a couple of times and lost interest but maybe will give it another go!

brimfull · 31/07/2009 08:51

god agree about
Prayer for Owen Meany-have read about 2/3 and gave up

Kevin I loved

Biopgraphy of Nelson Mandela -fascinating but long

newpup · 31/07/2009 09:00

I started We need to talk about kevin last night. It is the book for my book group. I have only read the first 2 chapters and it is hard work, I will keep going, hoping it lives up to all the hype!

Our last book was The Book Thief and I found the narrative hard to get into at first but it has ended up as one of my 3 alltime favourite books!

Atonement is another I struggled with and ended up enjoying.

I just could not get into The Time Travellers Wife and gave up which is so unlike me. However just saw a trailer for the movie and fancy having another go at it!

Oh well back to Kevin....

yama · 31/07/2009 09:11

IsItMeOr - I think he was perhaps daring me to read it if that makes sense?

funwithfondue · 31/07/2009 09:16

Midnight's Children, and Tess of the D'Urbervilles.

I started the latter because DH (who rarely reads books) urged me to with such enthusiasm. That was about four years ago - I keep coming back to it every few months, but it's so slow, and uber-descriptive.

Typical Hardy perhaps - I had a similar problem with Return Of the Native (never finished it).

sleeplessinstretford · 31/07/2009 09:20

i read Kevin a few years ago and loved it.
Owen Meany is one of my all time favourites-stick with it (although my best mate has tried and tried and can't finish it)
I struggled with 'heartbreaking work of staggering genius' and haven't got past about page 60-any of the 9million times i've tried.
I will sound really thick here but I struggle with any book that has 'foreign' names in (whether they be characters or places) i lose track of who is who and where they were when-therefore Marquez/Hosseini are all unreachable for me.which is a shame

yama · 31/07/2009 09:21

Funwithfondue - I agree wholeheartedly about Tess of the D'Urbervilles.

A friend at school raved about this book. I just wanted the story to start when I attempted to read it.

milkyandhoney · 31/07/2009 09:27

I really liked Jane Eyre form the start.

Everyone seems to say the same about Captain Correlli and I agree, but was absolutely in love with the book by the end!

See I really liked the ending; and yes I thought it was tragic because of all those lost years, but I am rather maudlin.

mummydemma · 31/07/2009 09:31

Sleeplessinstretford - that is such a shame about Hosseini. I have just finished A Thousand Splendid Suns after it took me well over 6 omnths to get through Part I. I kept picking it up, giving up, starting again...

Part II went faster and I really got into it and I read Part III in a day! An absolutely fantastic read once you have got past the first 100 pages or so.

sleeplessinstretford · 31/07/2009 09:38

i have to 'cast' books in my head and if the name is one that is new to me i find it hard to follow and therefore get 'lost' with it-i think it's a combination of sleep deprivation and a lack of really famous/familiar asian actors who i can cast in my head so that i can remember who is what to whom!

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